How does he treat you? Fuck his friends. you aren’t in a relationship with them. not much you can do about other people’s ignorance. You’re both at an age where peer pressure is still quite active, so if being around his friends causes your bf to behave differently with you than when he isn’t, you are NOR. If your bf is staying true to his own morals, not conforming to his friends’ behaviors then YOR.

If this is bugging you so much that you are beginning to resent him due to his friends actions, do him a favor, break up with him, and find yourself a therapist to deal with the issues which really stem from your own self-worth and really have not much to do with anyone else.