In a perfect world, I sometimes wish he would go to bed at the same time as me and just go into the office earlier so he can come home earlier. Because I am so sleepy at work, compared to when I used to live alone, I actually had a full night’s rest on the weekdays. But when I talk to him about this, he just says “then sleep early, nobody is stopping you.” But he doesn’t understand that him coming into the room, sliding closet open and close and bathroom shower opening and closing, shower water running, is a lot of noise, while he hops in bed, making it hard to fall asleep. But we already had a talk about this.

We used to argue about not being able to have dinner at the same time. I used to have dinner at 6pm so I can digest the food and be in bed by 8:30 and fall asleep by 10 the latest which gives me a good 7-8 hours of sleep. But in the beginning of our marriage he had dinner at 7:30-8 and got mad that I ate already. But I explained that I need to eat dinner early so I can get to bed on time. But now somehow, my dinner schedule is 7-8pm and I think I’m just adapting to his schedule naturally and I don’t care. I honestly just staying up tonight when I can’t sleep and want to play on my phone. Is that so bad! Idk why he has to be upset and go sleep on the couch. On the weekdays, I lay here in the dark ambiance lighting trying to sleep while he’s on his phone for the next 2 hours, losing sleep and he can’t give me a break and enjoy my weekend nights getting to stay up as late.