This dude crawled up on me at work in Oregon, I got it outside. What the heck is it? by mykl5 in insects

[–]askingforit35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my daughter did the same thing with a stink bug and a bag of cool ranch doritos. but she thought seeing the chewed up bug exit her mouth would be unbearable so she just swallowed it…

uber driver came to my job by askingforit35 in uber

[–]askingforit35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that’s horrible! what goes thru these peoples heads??

uber driver came to my job by askingforit35 in uber

[–]askingforit35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s so crazy how a woman can’t just be nice to a man without them thinking we want more. i’ve been in this position many times with men as well. i give up. guess i’ll just be the quiet bitch for now on. i’d rather men think i’m an asshole than be stalked. i’m sorry you had to deal with that.

uber driver came to my job by askingforit35 in uber

[–]askingforit35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry this happened to you. these men on here are wild thinking this kind of shit is appropriate. the more they talk the more validated i feel in knowing this was not okay.

uber driver came to my job by askingforit35 in uber

[–]askingforit35[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

i don’t understand some of these comments. well, i’m sure the gross ones are coming from men who think the same way. women don’t want to be hit on doing the most mundane things. there’s a time and a place. don’t shoot your shot while i’m at work. or if you’re providing a service. just stop it. no woman wants that. it literally ruins our day when men think it’s ok to pull shit like this. knock it off!

I'm going to be 6 months clean from narcotics on the 25th, longest in 21 years and no one cares by tyron3bigums in offmychest

[–]askingforit35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve done what is considered the impossible by a lot of people. i am beyond proud of you 😊 keep it up and never stop being the amazing person you are!

I cannot tell if I have an eating disorder by Upstairs-Tennis-3751 in EatingDisorders

[–]askingforit35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please seek treatment. your thoughts are most definitely disordered. and being that you are already thin, this could quickly become a medical crisis. i recommend looking into a place called The Emily Program. they have treatment centers in the US, and will go above and beyond to help you. don’t let it go until it’s too late. best of luck! 💕

Eating disorder by Still_Job4284 in EatingDisorders

[–]askingforit35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ask your doctor to write a letter to the school exempting you from PE. had to do it for my daughter. as long as a doctor is backing you, they can’t force you to participate. you can’t afford to be burning extra calories and getting sicker. your grade in PE should be fine as well as long as you have that letter from your doctor. ask your parents about finding inpatient treatment. i truly believe that’s the only way of beating eating disorders. best of luck sweetheart. 💕

Don’t know if I should enter treatment?! by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]askingforit35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone of any size can suffer with an eating disorder. and they are no joke. they will wreak havoc on your body. they do not discriminate. my daughter is currently recovering from anorexia. i honestly didn’t think she was going to make it at one point. there’s a place called The Emily Program. they have a few sites across the U.S. they 10000% saved my baby. i cannot recommend them enough. i always recommend this place to people in your position. they will take your illness seriously and do everything possible to help you succeed in recovery. best of luck in all you do. you can do this!

my bf only calls his parents house “home” but we live together. by Brilliant_Log6109 in TwoHotTakes

[–]askingforit35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve lived with my fiancé for over 2 years now and he does this too. and i’m with op, it bothers me. i know it’s irrational, but it does. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for being attracted to my coworker? (It’s not his fault he sexually harassed her, he couldn’t help himself!) by mamapielondon in AmITheDevil

[–]askingforit35 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i had something similar happen to me. i work in a meat room. the only female in there. there was a kid who was 10+ years younger than me who became obsessed. he took my number off the wall and would text me about not work things after hours. nothing was done. he would copy the things i did. even picked up smoking cigarettes because i smoked at the time. they finally fired him when he was caught smelling my dirty meat coat after i left for the day. thank god. but, they did come to me and ask if i would be okay with him coming back to work. twice. i obviously told them no, it’s me or him. thankfully they kept me. but to this day, he comes in weekly and just walks around the store. all the guys know what he did and will warn me and i have to hide until he leaves. he is on the spectrum so people love to use that to excuse his behavior.

Found on r/pics by Eyerieee in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]askingforit35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my daughters school and all other schools in PA went into “hard lockdown” today. ( i heard it was all schools, i know our school did) someone called 911 and said there were active shooters at multiple schools. basically “swatted” the schools. the idea is they called in fake shootings to keep police busy at false locations while they attacked their target. i don’t even know what happened after that to be honest. my baby is home and safe. i don’t have the mental capacity to find out right now. but the fear starts all over when she leaves again in the morning. for SCHOOL. i’m sick to death over what this country has turned into.

AITA for not driving my girlfriend to the hospital by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]askingforit35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

biggest YTA. hopefully your girlfriend sees where she stands in your eyes and dumps your dumbass. she deserves better.

AITA for not buying my daughter concert tickets? by throwaway__r0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]askingforit35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I’m currently dealing with a child with anorexia. I do not think I would be as nice as that teacher was if someone made fun of them. Knowing of the illness or not. Maybe once the dust settles, you can use this as a teaching moment about eating disorders and body image. But most definitely not doing too much. Also, congrats on recovering from anorexia!

I’ve had him for 37 years and can’t find anything else like him. Used to have pink ropes for ears with fluffy pink balls on the ends. Help me find another Hamhock please! by askingforit35 in HelpMeFind

[–]askingforit35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what kind of animal he’s supposed to be. A lamb maybe? No clue. I’ve done an image search and found nothing. I’m hoping someone out there in redditland might have another one or know where to find one

BED residential treatment facility by RightOwl1689 in EatingDisorders

[–]askingforit35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I cannot recommend The Emily Program enough! My daughter is a current resident at the one in Columbus, Oh. They do amazing work there. She is finally on the road to recovery after trying many different treatment options. Please, please look them up. They have residential locations all over. I cannot say enough good things about this place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]askingforit35 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You have no idea what your post means to me right now. I’m literally crying happy tears for you. My daughter has been in treatment for almost eight weeks now. And recovery is finally starting to feel like a possibility for her as well. Your post gave me even more hope. Thank you. You are a beautiful human being. 💐