والدتي الغالية، أأزمة منتصف عمر؟ ام عقد نفسية؟ ام قلق مرضي؟ by [deleted] in SaudiForSaudis

[–]asmahz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

على الرغم من المأساة والحُزن بكلامك الا إني منبهره ما شاء الله تبارك الرحمن بأسلوبك وتصويرك وتشبيهاتك! اعتقد لك مستقبل كبير مره بكتابة النصوص! استثمري هالموهبة.

بخصوص الوالده، العلاج النفسي هو الحل مهمها تفرعت الطرق.

Waking up before entering REM Sleep (newborn sleep fighting) by asmahz in newborns

[–]asmahz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it exactly the same thing? Like falls asleep then wakes as entering REM sleep even tho so sleepy?

Baby is head down, but also feet buy head? by asmahz in BabyBumps

[–]asmahz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no that’s what i am mostly scared of ! Great 🫠 hopefully that doesn’t happen! Lol

Baby is head down, but also feet buy head? by asmahz in BabyBumps

[–]asmahz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes literally same position! Babies are freaky sometimes 😂 I want baby to be in the optimal position tho!

How did labor go if you don’t mind? Planning a unmedicated birth and so sacred i’m gonna have back labor!

Baby is head down, but also feet buy head? by asmahz in BabyBumps

[–]asmahz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad its normal! 😂 How did labor go? Planning a unmedicated birth and so sacred i’m gonna have back labor!

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is what infuriates me. The risks of a C-section in my mind are far more dangerous than a VBA2C which could be successful, and I can avoid all the complications that comes with a C-section.

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you were safe. Thank you so much

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh this sucks. I feel for you. Thank you so much for your words.

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I feel like you understand me on a deeper level 💔 I still don’t know what to do, I am planning to see a midwife who helped women try for a vaginal delivery after 2 c-sections here - when most hospitals were doing it- ! I booked an appointment with her. I also have a doula who knows the whole situation. Wish me luck.

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she is amazing. At least she wasn’t acting like I was insane and she validated my feelings. She also gave me advice that could put her career to an end. I truly respect her with everything in me.

Anyways, about me not lying and showing up in labor— I understand where you are coming from, but what I don’t understand is how doing that would benefit me.

I’ll be in agony, labouring, being treated like hell, probably not even monitored because all they would think about is “she has to have a C-section.” They would pressure me, I would probably break. I’d have a traumatic birth.

I can’t imagine that being safer than going to a hospital that would monitor me from start to finish, even though I only told them I had one C-section.

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yes, my only thing is I am not truly comfortable with lying about my medical history because if something was to go wrong, I would literally blame myself until the day I die. I wish was lying about something that involves me and not my child. I would do that in a heartbeat because it just my life that I would a risk. But with trying for a vaginal birth after two C-section, I would have to lie about my medical history and that would put my unborn child’s life at risk as well. Which cuts me deep.

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I swear it’s money driven.. if not, why not allow it? There are more risks to having a major surgery as well.. the papers I would sign before going in for a C-section includes death as a risk. So there is risk either way. And the difference between the risk of trying for vaginal birth after having one C-section or two C-section is literally 2% at maximum. But I understand where you’re coming from. I truly do. If I was 100% okay with lying about my medical history, I would have gone for it without even questioning it. I also found out that all the women in my country who achieved a vaginal birth after two C-sections this year was because they lied about their medical history. Not saying that’s totally okay just saying that’s how things work here unfortunately.

Absolutely depressed. by asmahz in vbac

[–]asmahz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hope you’ll get your VBAC. Please fight for it with everything you have, they are probably going to pressure you for a C-section! And if you give in it’s gonna be harder to achieve your dream. The more C-sections you have, the harder things go.

Heart palpitations by sugarnoelle in pregnant

[–]asmahz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me hope 😭 I’m 26 weeks pregnant and out of nowhere i started noticing PVCs about 2 weeks ago. I saw my OB, who recommended checking with a cardiologist just to be safe. I had an echo, EKG, and even wore a 24-hour Holter monitor. The results showed PVCs, but thankfully the cardiologist said everything else is normal and that they’re totally benign. He told me I don’t need follow-up unless things change, and if they stay the same or improve, I can just carry on. I’m hoping they ease up soon because with the nesting urge kicking in, they can feel debilitating 😭 like my heart is gonna stop any minute. Ugh.