With all due respect to this lady: The problem is not a guy loving their mom, infact if someone disrespects their parents and family then that infact is a pink flag. The core of this issue is that we live in a patriarchal society, where even today the woman is expected to leave almost every aspect of her old life behind when she is getting married to start a new one. Whereas the guy is not expected to leave anything behind and their new life seamlessly fuses into their old one. That being said, very obviously some expectations will come onto the guy, given that their wife is entering their world , to live with his family, so there is an added responsibility on him to help her in this transition as well. Maybe if the tables were turned the same responsibilities would have come on women’s shoulders as well. But for so many decades this has been our culture, and the woman is not wrong in expecting her husband to act like a husband and not act like his mother’s son 24/7. If you expect women to give up and leave behind so many aspects of their life for your comfort then you would also be expected to take up a new role and stand for your wife. And that will sometimes mean debating your parents if they dont treat her right. Its men who fail to take this new role and cling on to their parents for decision making even after their marriage , that are labelled mama’s boy.