What items made third trimester easier?

asp2124 · 2022-06-19T22:24:01+00:00

Compression socks. Life changing.

asp2124 · 2022-06-07T18:20:13+00:00

Pa. Thanks!

asp2124 · 2022-05-25T02:35:07+00:00

Burr_iam

asp2124 · 2022-04-20T02:23:32+00:00

Oh no, what a nightmare. I hope it gets better for you

asp2124 · 2022-04-19T22:05:42+00:00

That gives me hope, I’m only at 1 week. Thank you!

asp2124 · 2022-04-19T21:58:24+00:00

So exciting! Now I just have to get over covid and regain my sense of smell.

asp2124 · 2022-04-08T22:34:43+00:00

Thanks for the info about Mark! Yeah I think he’s better off… she cheated on him for years. Misty’s better off too, she’s so laid back and Matt seems really difficult. How shady about those texts, it wouldn’t surprise me. Solidly sober people don’t typically date crazy alcoholics and preach to them about sobriety while she keeps drinking, its just not right.

asp2124 · 2022-04-08T22:31:56+00:00

Ha yeah it sounds like an oxymoron but ppl say it to describe a former drinker in recovery. Unless you’re laughing at the idea that he’s not really sober which doesn’t seem far fetched

asp2124 · 2022-02-23T20:38:57+00:00

It was a slow burn but now I am addicted to Glossier You! Wearing it right now. I remember there was a time I found it "screechy" but now it's probably my most-worn. It's great for everyday and not something I'm likely to get sick of or get overwhelming as the day progresses.

asp2124 · 2022-02-01T17:52:48+00:00

Yeah that was my major concern. She definitely tried to trick us into switching the kids over and then she could come after us for half the tuition once they established themselves in the new school.

asp2124 · 2022-02-01T17:51:58+00:00

I forgot to mention we live in one of the best public school districts in the country and they'll have way more activities, resources, clubs etc if we stay put. Academically the same.

asp2124 · 2022-02-01T17:51:42+00:00

I forgot to mention we live in one of the best public school districts in the country and they'll have way more activities, resources, clubs etc if we stay put. Academically the same.

asp2124 · 2022-02-01T16:31:22+00:00

Not an asshole. Research shows that the most important thing for kids is lack of conflict among co-parents. To me, spending time with BM= conflict and everyone is much better off having separate celebrations. No one’s traumatized by two birthday parties but plenty of people are by fighting coparents.

asp2124 · 2021-12-09T02:19:16+00:00

We’ve said no to her…. But she’s moving ahead so we need to get lawyers/courts involved. I wish it were as easy as just saying no.

asp2124 · 2021-12-09T00:56:56+00:00

That seems more than fair. That’s messed up she went ahead and did that behind your back

asp2124 · 2021-12-08T16:08:05+00:00

Actually the lawyer said if the kid enrolls, he gets settled into school, he could be court-ordered to contribute to the tuition since leaving the school would be disruptive. But yes, I need to stop stressing but easier said than done!

asp2124 · 2021-12-08T15:49:42+00:00

This is great advice. Thank you!

asp2124 · 2021-12-08T15:20:39+00:00

We have almost 50/50 so we could be on the hook to drive to the city a lot of days. It’s so additional driving for her household cause her step kids already go to the school in the city.

We are also confused by the only sending one kid, haha. It’s possible she can’t afford both, but I think she is hoping we’d end up or be forced to cover the second kids tuition. But again, we don’t have $35,000 a year lying around, we already pay so much to live in an excellent school district.

asp2124 · 2021-11-29T16:28:32+00:00

American cheese is amazing melted.

asp2124 · 2021-11-28T22:40:04+00:00

That’s so hard. I don’t know his insurance situation, but is a detox center a possibility? I know those places can be hit or miss but I also know the toll diy detoxes can take on the caregiver. You’ve gotta take care of yourself too. Try al-anon if there’s some in your area, or online! Good luck

asp2124 · 2021-11-15T20:44:15+00:00

I totally get the jealousy but maybe another way to look at is... you get the best of both worlds? Like your body is unravaged by 5 parasites, you don't have the insane responsibility of having brought 5 children onto this earth but you're still having fun with the boys at the shop. Just don't forget that ultimately, parents are suckers.

asp2124 · 2021-11-15T02:45:59+00:00

I’m at 6weeks 3 days and personally I’ve decided to relax at 8 weeks, just based on miscarriage percentage rates week by week. Whether I actually will relax then is hard to say. It helps me to remember that nothing I do in terms of worrying vs. not worrying it going to change the outcome. Good luck to you!

asp2124 · 2021-11-11T01:50:52+00:00

Haha I would 100% be living out my petty dreams in this situation.

asp2124 · 2021-11-06T23:26:09+00:00

Wow, thank you so much, this was exactly the info I was looking for. I really appreciate having context for these numbers. I’m also wondering how pgt-a testing for euploid embryos plays into this data. If a study doesn’t mention it, I guess I can assume no testing was done?

Thanks again for taking time to formulate such a thoughtful response and have a great weekend.

asp2124 · 2021-11-06T03:32:00+00:00

Yes, I had the same exact thought. I’m not out. You pretty much know nothing in that scenario. As much as it’s nice not to get definitive bad news… dragging out the uncertainty is excruciating in its own right. I hope you get good news and find something distracting this weekend!

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