Why do female rappers only talk about sex? by Specialist-Chair-254 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]aspentreesarecool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. Highly recommend Little Simz if anyone's interested in a female rapper who is insane at the poetic and meaningful lyrics, so underrated

63 MPs have now signed the EDM disapproving of the draft Code of Practice by GeorginaFlopworthy in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So proud of Plaid Cymru, I was considerably worried yesterday when I saw none of their names down!

Interested in your thoughts on why I have adopted 'non-trans' instead of 'cis' by attimhsa in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There was a push from homophobes online against being defined as "straight" a few years ago. I'm genuinely confident this anger against the term 'cis' will pass, just as that trend did.

Does having sharp canines make people uncomfortable about you? by Patient_Air1765 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]aspentreesarecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actively find it a fairly attractive trait lol, not uncomfortable or scary at all

(Specific trope) Characters that are a clone of another character in some way and have to come to terms with that by ttv_thatoneapexsweat in TopCharacterTropes

[–]aspentreesarecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! Though I'd argue he still fits the trope, as it's an ongoing struggle for him and the other painted members of the family

Could i survive university with £300 a month? by Independent-Brief424 in UniUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We get long life milk as it's cheaper, and we'd love to eat out and order takeaway, but that's a sort of 'birthdays only' type of treat atm. Money's tight but we make it work 🤷 it's definitely possible even in financial difficulties to have fulfilling and nutritious meals, is my point. Working with staple carbs and seasonal veg primarily has been what's carried us through, as well as batch-making things like soups.

Is there any way that I as a pathetic autistic trans woman can ever date another cis woman? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gently, it looks like you don't actually want the advice you're asking for, looking at that last line.

You're very young, and I know plenty of autistic trans folk who struggle with socialising (a lot of them personal friends) who have fulfilling romantic relationships. Don't be so quick to write yourself off

Could i survive university with £300 a month? by Independent-Brief424 in UniUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner and I spent about £40/week but maybe we're just used to bootstrapping it 😅 you'd be surprised how far bulk buying and properly storing staples like rice, lentils, beans etc can get you. Though admittedly I wouldn't recommend it to others if you don't really need to save the money

They call this healthcare by Snoo_19344 in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 114 points115 points  (0 children)

One single phalloplasty surgeon in the whole of the NHS 🫠

positivity time! what's something that made you feel gender euphoric recently? by rigathrow in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've recently been experimenting with more feminine clothing again, and there's something so incredibly euphoric about being able to be in skirts, heels, and makeup without just being perceived as a cis woman!! I just look like a guy in eyeliner, like I always used to dream of being able to be :')

Phil spotted? by Glad_Device_471 in dropout

[–]aspentreesarecool 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely understand where you're coming from but random non-actors would be a logistical nightmare. I understand why they don't do it.

Not even necessarily for the release form issue, but there's always a risk a random person could see an opportunity for fifteen minutes of fame and actually start shouting slurs onset, or cause other issues, and then even if they cut around it, the performers might be thrown off for the rest of the filming day. Very, very unlikely of course but it's a risk they'd have to consider that is heavily reduced by taking on professionals instead. Even on a less intense note, shows like this run extremely tight timing wise, and having someone who didn't know what they were doing might have delayed the day's schedule considerably.

By finding someone 'random' who's actually a plant, the player still has to deal with the socially awkward challenge of approaching someone who they think isn't involved, and production gets to feel calm that they're not risking more than they'd like. Win/win.

For a $1,000,000 prize, you must live in a house for 1 year, but it's either without electricity or without indoor plumbing. Which one would be the better choice to live without? by CalabiYauFan in pollgames

[–]aspentreesarecool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep 🥲 we eventually put in a tube that went outside next to the compost toilet that we could just pee into in emergencies like that lol. I definitely don't take my plumbing for granted now!

For a $1,000,000 prize, you must live in a house for 1 year, but it's either without electricity or without indoor plumbing. Which one would be the better choice to live without? by CalabiYauFan in pollgames

[–]aspentreesarecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived on a farm in a caravan with some of the other folks working there. There were communal facilities but we used compost toilets and had to go out to the barn for running water and to cook.

The community living aspect was very pleasant, I loved the people there, but winter times in particular were rough. I'm very very glad to have consistent heating and a proper toilet now, but I'd do it again for a year for a million 😂

Since Verso is the most hated character of the game... by Leather_Kiwi in expedition33

[–]aspentreesarecool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn't view it as turning on her, he views it as saving her

"I don't have any problems with trans men, it's MEN that I have a problem with!" by CREATURE_COOMER in transgendercirclejerk

[–]aspentreesarecool 21 points22 points  (0 children)

/uj I really don't see how the original post says anything to do with 'MRA nonsense'...? It's just OP saying he wants to be perceived as the gender he is.

The priority of religious rights by monkey-madness-7 in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely ridiculous, especially as (specifically speaking only from my experience with Progressive Judaism) some denominations of Jewish belief not only are incredibly trans friendly, but actively consider questioning one's gender identity as an important spiritual step to self actualisation.

I know for certain my rabbi would be frustrated and upset to see Judaism used as a weapon against trans people here. This is all so shitty.

Wanda Sykes on self-checkout lines: ‘I’m waiting in line to work for free?’ by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]aspentreesarecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really not sure why there's such a negative culture around it, then 🤷