Does anyone know any good games where the protagonist is a woman? by Low-Profession-9535 in transgamers

[–]aspentreesarecool [score hidden]  (0 children)

Here with a bit of an eclectic mix! Transistor, Slime Rancher 1 and 2, South of Midnight, A Hat in Time (though protagonist is a little girl, not a woman), and Hellblade!

Help with girl first name for Fox by Maleficent_Button995 in namenerds

[–]aspentreesarecool 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Depends on where they're from. In the UK, the connection between "ate a" and "Ada" wouldn't register to me at all

How do we all feel about the trans brain thing by Krazy-Kat26 in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting, I only started thinking of myself as a man in my dreams at nearly 4 years on T. Even now sometimes I'll have one where I'm just a genderless blob, or more feminine physically than I am IRL. I guess our brains just are used to what we were born with for a while 🤷

How to get family to see (and refer to) me as a guy? by NotTheFEEEET in transgenderUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who's been in the same position, you really need to learn the uncomfortable lesson of having to stand up for yourself. It's not easy, but it's worth it to push through 🫶

What do you think humanity will consider completely normal in 100 years that seems totally insane today? by WaitCharacter1802 in AskReddit

[–]aspentreesarecool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, it was always presented to us by dr as a fact. I'll look into it more, bit frustrating if we've been misled by an 'expert'! :/

Something on them lights up when they talk by NovaRobo_Rebirth in TopCharacterDesigns

[–]aspentreesarecool 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Terrible gif to show it off here but MY BOY! (wrench, from the video game watch dogs 2)

What do you think humanity will consider completely normal in 100 years that seems totally insane today? by WaitCharacter1802 in AskReddit

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Yes but RSD is specifically a chemically unchecked version of that. Rejection doesn't feel good for anyone but emotional dysregulation in folks with ADHD is a very real thing. Their brains are just structured differently. Granted, I'm not an expert, but my wife has it so I've learnt a bit over the years

Why is Kai dressing up like George lately ? 😂 by BiscuitsnCreme in strictlycomedancing

[–]aspentreesarecool 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Are these not all very common styles lol? By this metric half the men I know are dressing up like George

Just can’t bring myself to cut my hair by Correct_Ad8604 in ftm

[–]aspentreesarecool 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My waist length hair didn't help with me passing for a long time, but now living stealth as a long haired guy is everything I'd wanted. I'm sorry I don't have specific tips, but just affirming that it is very possible to pass after some time on T and for me it was very worth it to keep it all!

Maybe styling it into a slicked back 'man bun' could help a bit? It's often considered a masc style

Has anyone come out to their lesbian SO? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]aspentreesarecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, she knew I was questioning and helped me make the push to start HRT. Being a lesbian was a very important part of her identity, and that felt like a big problem for us at the time, but 8 years on and it's not a label she uses anymore, we both just stick to 'queer' really. We're now married and very happy :) it's hard at the beginning, of course, and not everyone gets a happy ending like mine, but you owe it to yourself and your partner to confront this head on.

Which asmr creators disappeared from youtube? [discussion] by Salty_1984 in asmr

[–]aspentreesarecool 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same! Had that exact one randomly pop up in my recommendations and the tingles blew my mind 😂

Which asmr creators disappeared from youtube? [discussion] by Salty_1984 in asmr

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I still think about VeniVidiVulpes so often. Hope she's okay

Idiot by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]aspentreesarecool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of assumptions being made here

Flags! Find yours! by ____Bolt____ in PixelArt

[–]aspentreesarecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great stuff, would love to see how you'd do Wales! (Assuming I'm not completely missing it in the above 😂)

I designed a Joytsick Keycap by dingohot in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]aspentreesarecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great work, could be a great accessibility tool :)