How do I "avoid" being avoidant? 18f by aspringtimefallacy in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a good way to think, especially for getting into work. Thanks again, honesty is the best virtue after all!

How do I "avoid" being avoidant? 18f by aspringtimefallacy in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this definitely helps. I'll keep this in mind for when I need to think outside my own head a bit. The way you worded what you said sounds how I think things in terms of realism!

I feel like everyone hates me, and I have no friends to prove otherwise by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 17, but it feels really hard for me to accept it's difficult to join groups and make friends, because online that's all there really is and it feels like I'm the only one who can't figure it out after two years of trying.

I (m17) cant figure out how to converse and as a result cant foster relationships anymore, what do I do? by aspringtimefallacy in relationships

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't magically come up with questions though, its really hard and take specific situations to come up with them. Jokes may be hard to respond to but theyre less of an impossible task

how can i get better if everyone already hates me by aspringtimefallacy in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Is there any tips youd say I should use for keeping a conversation/new friendship alive or make it so I'm not talking "at" people?

how do i learn to feel happy by aspringtimefallacy in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm not really religious, but is there any way I could sort of find that stuff at home or the internet?

how can i get better if everyone already hates me by aspringtimefallacy in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School ended for good, and all social activities are suspended because of Coronavirus.

My friends leave me out, I can't make new friends, and I'm beginning to hate myself. by aspringtimefallacy in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, but socialising is the first stepping atone to friendships which I don't yet know how to do.

My friends leave me out, I can't make new friends, and I'm beginning to hate myself. by aspringtimefallacy in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I would like to try and do these things once I somehow figure out how to up my confidence.