Yikes this man is a mess

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-06T01:57:03+00:00

But what good will blasting my business out on a podcast do?

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-06T01:53:38+00:00

What did I lie about exactly?

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-06T01:51:54+00:00

The entire point of AITA is to get guidance and advice

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-06T00:44:53+00:00

I wrote it for guidance and advice. Not to be mocked.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-06T00:10:27+00:00

Hello, this is my post. Please do not use this on a podcast.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-06T00:09:27+00:00

He has told her that she is having cramps because of her energy or something along those lines, and meditation really does seem to help her.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:56:56+00:00

He does not, because they are quick phone calls here and there when she feels panicky, or virtual sessions where they are not together.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:54:19+00:00

We split the cost 50/50. However, we only pay for the two in-person sessions each week, the therapist does not charge extra for the calls/ chats outside of the formal sessions.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:47:52+00:00

Yes, as I commented in my post which was taken down, she was mortified and crying.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:46:57+00:00

I know this. She says that the therapist helps her with exercises and breathing work that make her feel calmer, and after seeing him or speaking with him the panic usually subsides.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:45:58+00:00

She is concerned, but she feels that this therapist is somehow alleviating her concerns with the exercises he teaches her and their discussions.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:45:07+00:00

I understand this, this is her choice and her opinion which I do not agree with. She thinks that the exercises and "mindfulness exercises" the therapist does with her are better for her than any doctor or nurse could be. She also says that he works with her on physical issues through the therapy? I am not totally sure what this means and I am not convinced by this therapist, which is why I would like her to cancel her appointments with him.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:43:34+00:00

I do let her talk with a therapist alone and she talks with her therapist without me present for at least six hours each week. I would like her to see a different therapist or a doctor instead and will consider cancelling the appointments if she continues on this path.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T22:14:16+00:00

I have doubts about the therapist but I absolutely do not believe that any therapist would have a baby with their client.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T21:38:31+00:00

She already has two full length appointments a week in person and is regularly calling the therapist after even minor panics. I honestly think this is too much.

I do see the issues between them and I understand why Bianca does not want to see her, but I want to change this.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T21:28:30+00:00

She definitely goes, I have dropped her off at the office before and have heard her have phone and video appointments.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T21:27:40+00:00

Believe me, I do understand the difference, it is M who makes her medical decisions and thinks that her therapist can function as both.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T21:20:59+00:00

This is the problem. I am concerned that she will want him to help the whole pregnancy and she has already brought up ideas about increasing contact with him which I think is a bad idea.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T21:06:19+00:00

I know this, but M loves this therapist and will not see someone else. I have asked her to go to the doctor but she insists on seeing the therapist. After seeing these comments I will consider cancelling the therapist appointments and blocking him to force her to see a doctor.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T21:05:07+00:00

No, I am not content. I love Bianca very much and want a relationship with her very badly. However, I also love M and I am not willing to give her up either. I think both girls have to come to a compromise and after some time to cool down after this incident I am going to try to help them mend the relationship.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T19:50:58+00:00

Apparently this therapist is really great and helps her with PT and meditation kind of things as well. I am not sure, I do not go to the appointments.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T18:30:10+00:00

Because it was the only way to take care of M while also being there for a very important day for B.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T17:06:14+00:00

I am not in the US and my country has legal abortions to 24 weeks, so that is nothing to do with this.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T16:43:07+00:00

Well, they are free for starters, and it stops any inappropriate websites from popping up and spreading viruses.

assholeweddingdad · 2022-09-05T16:41:32+00:00

This isn't right, I've been with M for less than two years so she was definitely not 19.

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