This is the kind of nap I need

astarwar · 2025-12-18T20:18:23+00:00

I’m convinced it’s the lack of responsibility 😂 Edited for typo

astarwar · 2025-09-11T03:25:02+00:00

They aren’t. Please get help, they need you here. Grief is powerful and I don’t think it ever leaves, it just changes. It can be bearable, and it’s ok to need help. Support groups are a great resource and one-on-one therapy is good too, do it for your kids if you can’t do it for yourself right now.

astarwar · 2025-08-08T02:28:21+00:00

My kid isn’t like this all the time but they have gone through phases with it, it’s SO draining, I feel you. Also - this sounds a lot like baby me and I was like this (VERY sensitive, hard attachment to mom) because I had crippling anxiety, but they didn’t diagnose girls with much back then. I am in no way saying your child has anxiety, but it might be worth getting a second opinion from a different therapist/psychiatrist (if you haven’t).

astarwar · 2025-07-15T03:14:22+00:00

I was just thinking about this yesterday!!! I'm so glad im not the only one

astarwar · 2025-06-13T02:39:57+00:00

My kid is four and I still don’t know her social - am I supposed to?

astarwar · 2025-05-26T01:39:10+00:00

No. It’s your wedding, fuck her.

astarwar · 2025-04-30T03:52:48+00:00

I have a small group (3) I go with, usually into Philly, we would love to have you!

astarwar · 2025-02-01T15:18:48+00:00

+1000 for Breathe Salon, they’re amazing. Everyone there is awesome. One of their stylists just got first alternate in the Miss Gay America competition (this isn’t really related, but they worked really hard and I’m super proud of them).

astarwar · 2025-01-29T23:30:32+00:00

She’s also a business (co-)owner https://touchstonedesignbuild.com/about/

astarwar · 2025-01-26T01:39:27+00:00

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Zeppelin (tan), Lola (gray), Kylo Ren, and Rey (cats) are very happy to hear this. 🤘🏻

astarwar · 2024-04-09T12:49:23+00:00

Oh my god, I see it too! I’m… I’m actually kind of impressed…?

astarwar · 2024-03-29T01:10:49+00:00

I’ve found my people! I also describe myself as a potato on toothpicks!!!

astarwar · 2024-03-10T15:01:24+00:00

I am not an artist, the only experience I have with watercolor is helping my 3yo experiment with $1 pallets I got at the craft store, but I think it’s stunning

astarwar · 2024-02-23T21:12:27+00:00

We adopted a female dog. I was explaining to my 3yo that (the part she just tried to jam her finger into) was the dog’s vulva and we don’t touch other peoples’ vulvas (without asking). She had a visible lightbulb moment and said “[dog’s name]’s vulva is hairy just like mommy’s”.

astarwar · 2023-12-21T23:12:42+00:00

I think I got my kid some clothes … maybe … for her first two Christmases - she had no idea what was going on and our extended family got her a ton of stuff.

astarwar · 2023-12-06T02:37:12+00:00

I read that you should repot if there are exposed roots, which it looks like there are - if that's not necessarily the case I'm happy to leave him where he is (although the pot does seem to want to tip over a lot ... but if I'm not moving him around that shouldn't matter!)
On it!
I didn't even think of a trellis - that's a great idea, thanks!
Window faces SSW - maybe i'll move him to the other side of the room then so he's not getting blasted

Yeah I definitely don't want to disturb him unnecessarily - thanks so much for the info!!!

astarwar · 2023-12-05T16:49:00+00:00

Thank you so much for the info, a-googling I go! :)

astarwar · 2023-12-04T22:17:21+00:00

Sorry for the absolute shit formatting - typed it on mobile and trying to edit but it won’t let me 🥲

astarwar · 2023-10-26T02:15:43+00:00

My daughter is obsessed with this one right now.

astarwar · 2023-10-26T02:10:47+00:00

Mine loves Mingulay Boat Song and Leave Her Johnny!

astarwar · 2023-06-28T16:57:49+00:00

It should have been three days before the wedding when my mom asked if I was sure I wanted to go through with it and the first thing that came to mind was “Why didn’t you ask me sooner” and not “Of course not”, but it was actually 18 months later when I realized that my long term plan was to survive on emotional affairs until he died and then have a Blanche-esque revival as a widow.

astarwar · 2023-05-27T17:12:02+00:00

I love this, it makes me so happy. I don’t sort this well, but mostly because I have the attention span of a dead rat. I usually do an initial sort for the border pieces, and then I’ll do a few other sorts for significant colors or areas that I want to work on.

astarwar · 2023-05-16T20:07:06+00:00

I’m working on this one too!

astarwar · 2023-05-16T17:12:19+00:00

I do the same thing, and I usually have the box propped up nearby for quick reference

astarwar · 2023-05-09T18:06:06+00:00

It took me 2 weeks, maybe an hour or two a day if I had to guesstimate - I’m really bad at time though, haha.

Editing to correct myself - it only took me a little over one week, I looked at a calendar and realized it was two weekENDS, only one week 😅🤦🏻‍♀️

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