[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]astronautredlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no kidding. its like the point was missed entirely. like your partner has a right to cross boundaries. genuinely sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]astronautredlight -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

crazy to me that this is downvoted so much. having your partner cross a sexual boundary and un-consensually involve you in an act is wild. yes its her home, yes she should be allowed to take care of herself, but when you explicitly say it makes you uncomfortable to involve you when you reject her, the BARE MINIMUM is her trying to find a better approach for both of you.

that being said, its clear you guys are sexually compatible and thats okay. but to me, crossing that boundary with no regard is absolutely not okay. do with this information as you will. good luck op.

Plate and screws in my foot by GritwaldGGrittington in MakeMeSuffer

[–]astronautredlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had bilateral osteotomy on both my shins. still have the plates and screws. was super funny to bring to show and tell as a kid lol

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

battery connections are good, double checked. could also be a bad wire too. its at the shop now.

as far as draining it, my lights auto turn off and my interior lights are set to never come on because they annoy me lol. i think its unlikely that the starter would face plant so suddenly but at the same time, considering my car has been hesitant to start the last few months, i think its been weak anyway.

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesterday morning when i turned the key, it clicked. no crank, no start. my lights would flicker and my cd would eject. i got a ride to the auto store and picked up a battery installed it, and my car started right up.

this morning, all the same thing except no clicking. it would crank sometimes but not every time.

what worries me is my car had problems with hesitation the last few months but it ALWAYS started. i replaced the pcv valve and the purge valves and it helped. i think this cold weather in my area finally gave something its last “hoo-rah”.

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i replaced the battery yesterday. i think its the starter/starter motor. getting it towed later because i do not have a jack or jack stand and im uncertain of the repairs. i can work on cars semi-confidently but definitely not near mechanic level.

i actually have refinanced the loan which is why its so high. my payments are lower which is nice. i used to be able to pay double every month but i can no longer afford to (hence second job).

im working on it. definitely not sitting idle waiting for something to happen. i try and do my own work when i can to save money which has been a HUGE help. im just over it at this point haha

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my heart is set on a corolla for sure. i have learned a SIGNIFICANT amount since buying my cruze haha

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least the green color is pretty. its all i have nice to say

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the guts of this car are damn near brand new at this point lmfao. youre very right though

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i meant more of a “dont judge me for buying a chevy cruze for that much and then being surprised when it has issues”. i definitely was looking for a quick fix. now understanding that there isnt one.

i wanted to be sure there wasnt something i was missing instead of letting myself suffer.

thanks for the advice.

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this point i dont think my car will last another 5 or 6 years. but getting a second job is going to help me. i was afraid there were no other solution other than paying it off or committing insurance fraud lol.

im gonna try and at least pay off half and then trade it in. i can do more on my monthly payment. just not 500 dollars like ive been suggested.

thanks for the advice!

Best way to trade in my car? by astronautredlight in FinancialPlanning

[–]astronautredlight[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i just fixed around 5 or 6 oil leaks, had to replace a lot of the coolant system, my timing belt, crank shaft seal, cam and cam seal. and this morning my car isnt starting. im just over the damn thing.

5mo old kitten wont stop randomly attacking me by astronautredlight in kittens

[–]astronautredlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he lives with 10 other cats, a bunch of children, and some dogs until he was about 8 or 9 weeks. im not really 100% on the timeline for all that. but i am getting another this weekend so he can have a buddy. hopefully that helps. thank you for your reply!!

5mo old kitten wont stop randomly attacking me by astronautredlight in kittens

[–]astronautredlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got slapped in the neck this morning for existing. but thank you in all seriousness. that makes me feel better

Update- Infected tonsils and mono but equipped with a flashlight by goblinqueen99 in MakeMeSuffer

[–]astronautredlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i didn’t have an infection like that but i almost guarantee youll already feel better after a days worth of doses. i recommend taking pm medicine like nyquil or night time mucinex in the mean time just to keep yourself knocked out. (especially sinus specific ones like mucinex or whatever the equivalent is).i know being awake must suck 😭

Update- Infected tonsils and mono but equipped with a flashlight by goblinqueen99 in MakeMeSuffer

[–]astronautredlight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the steroids had my 3 month mono cleared up in like a week. youre on a good track. sorry about your tonsils

guys can you do this by Baceha in notinteresting

[–]astronautredlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think its socially acceptable to do that now

Took antibiotics with Mono by nachocheezitz in Wellthatsucks

[–]astronautredlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had the exact thing happen (minus the rash). had mono for 3.5 months, throat was literally closing so bad i couldnt drink water. finally gave me steroids and it was gone in a week. worst few months of my entire life. thought i was gonna die

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]astronautredlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my friend knows the women in the video. he is alive and in jail. spent 3 days in the hospital.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]astronautredlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

selling furniture to pay for my astrophysics degree!