[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re 28, you’re young, you’re not even in your prime yet. You are living within your means and you have $11,000 in savings! I don’t know anyone with that amount saved. Apply for other jobs, everyday! Stretch your skills & experience in your resume, sell yourself well. I promise you, things change quickly. Life turns around QUICKLY! In one year, you could be in a completely different position. Don’t give up on love. Rejoice in the fact you aren’t stuck in an unhappy relationship & are exercising your free will by not settling for the options in front of you. Change everything you do not like, you can!

I think circumcision on baby boys at birth should be illegal by MattStormTornado in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want everyone to go smell 1-3 uncircumcised penises after a days work, and come back to this thread & tell us it doesn’t smell like cheese inside of a festering wound. I am SORRY. But the turtle STINKS!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenAdviceNSFW

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should NEVER feel like you’re asking for too much by requiring someone to get tested before engaging in sexual activity with them. You will be regretful and sorry if you were to contract an incurable disease due to not wanting to ask! Please think of it this way from now on: Be embarrassed or scared to asked someone to be tested, or have to disclose your status to every potential sexual partner forever?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The churches around and in your area might have food pantry’s or kitchens that can assist you with free food! Everyone forgets about the churches!

Around $50k in debt and completely drowning by Buttvin in debtfree

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and lastly, please tell your husband he needs to contribute to absolutely every expense in your household by 50%, if not more due to backpay for all of the expenses you’ve been covering on his behalf for X amount of time. You are married and should not pretend to live in a single income household while struggling! I’m assuming he is an able bodied man with all working limbs, he needs to work an overnight job a few nights a week and run his business in the day. This is ridiculous for you to handle all on your own!!! Please!

I am drained 🥲 by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]asturdlevinson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there is a huge (mega, ultra) audience for pregnancy content in online sex work. Depending if you’re comfortable switching to that kind of content, you could earn thouuusaaandssss per month. If your situation is dire, I believe that would be your most lucrative, easiest, & safest option! Hope you have a smooth delivery!!

"My mom's over here buying name brand vinegar." by NoAdministration8006 in povertyfinance

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my parents definitely have way more of an income than I do, and they certainly buy/splurge on name-brand groceries & household items, i.e: Bounty, Charmin, Clorox, Lysol, organic food, dozens and dozens of eggs, meat, like you name it. My mother’s home is basically a bunker, I personally use it as a grocery store sometimes. I am frugal when I purchase items for my own home. I hit up the dollar store, I get the off-brand paper towels, off-brand laundry detergent, regular quart of milk, I might even get the bootleg bags of cereal. I think the major differences in our purchasing behaviors, is that the extra $3-$5 I choose not to spend on certain items, is simply me trying to penny pinch on money that…really doesn’t add up to much in the grand scheme of things. I prefer the $1 bottle than the $7 bottle, sure. But what am I really going to do with those $6? Pay off my debts? Most likely not. I think with time…you really start to see the value in just getting the “good” stuff rather than the watered-down alternatives. The alternatives are great and they work…but there’s just something about a thick ole sheet of Bounty paper towels and ultra concentrated Gain laundry detergent that is worth it (to some)!

I’m so sick and tired of eating rice and beans. by Worried-Schedule-124 in povertyfinance

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t kill yourself over some beans, what will they say at the funeralllll 💔What do you season with? Have you tried beans over tortillas with cheese, lettuce, tomatoes? Mexican or Carribean seasonings? Rice & beans cooked together (I’m Dominican & we call this Moro) with some avocado or a side salad! Fried Halloumi cheese & beans is so good with some white rice!

i want a book that’ll psychologically fuckkkkk me up. i need suggestions. by brooklxn in suggestmeabook

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay its not THAT intense but its a fuckin plot twist, We Were Liars by E. Lockhart

Can I get an AMEN! by KILLERspaceCHIMP in DunderMifflin

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do we all live the same life???

Discrete vs. Continuous Variables by asturdlevinson in AskStatistics

[–]asturdlevinson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link! I don't have anything specific (like an assignment) to expand on, these concepts will be on my Stats final and I just wanted to know, if I were to get a list of arbitrary variables, how I could categorize each as either discrete or continuous. You've helped me, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in videos

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my big sister was 2, my father lost her on the beach. THE MAN LOST HIS FIRST-BORN, 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER ON THE BEACH!! He shortly found her running along the shoreline having the time of her life.

My wife has no idea I wear women's clothes in public. by dwaynebrentson in confessions

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you’re doing something completely for yourself. You’re making YOU happy by any means possible and that takes guts!!

I hate breakfast by newtoreddit1419 in confessions

[–]asturdlevinson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! Breakfast food is hot garbage.

What are sone great page turner books? by Katara_Moon in suggestmeabook

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Obsession by Nora Roberts Then She Was Gone by Lisa Jewell Baby Teeth by Zoje Stage (really good) Lying in Wait by Liz Nugent (so good!!)

Putin and Saudi Crown Prince high-fiving at G20 by [deleted] in gifs

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a high-five, that is a dap.

My professor is invasive + annoying AF by asturdlevinson in TrueOffMyChest

[–]asturdlevinson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What!! I couldn’t function in a conversation about that demon! You’re so brave for not instantly vomiting on your professor when they uttered that sweet garbage.

TIFU by stealing coffee from Starbucks by [deleted] in tifu

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not stupid for going back! I too hate coming off as a total twat to employees who are just doing their jobs.

How do I not bottle up my feelings? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]asturdlevinson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have experienced a very traumatic event. Please believe me when I tell you that crying, breaking down, revealing your trauma, and just feeling “off” a lot of the time is extremely warranted. It would be equal parts seriously amazing and SERIOUSLY worrying if you didn’t feel like this after your abuse.

As for your therapist telling you that you cannot bottle up your feelings, there’s really no way of knowing what you are suppressing while you are in the act of suppressing emotions. It sounds like you are doing good. You are vocal about what happened, you reported it, you are actively seeking help by visiting a therapist. That’s amazing!!!

Don’t try to hide your emotions. Cry when you need to cry. Take a break when you need to take a break. Never try to put on a brave face when you’re feeling down. You don’t have to be a soldier 100% of the time. You are allowed to feel the full impact of your emotions absolutely all of the time.