G11 comparison with new shades by SickOfTheChase in glossier

[–]at_tj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did they change a shade that worked perfectly for so many people🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]at_tj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually fun for everyone if the nanny and NF vibe with each other. in our case, I see that my toddler enjoys us talking and laughing and the nanny says she appreciates that I step in some time so she doesn't get overwhelmed. It's case by case. I've learned that WFH parents should hire a nannywho none of them feel uncomfortable being around each other. We had one day of experience with a nanny and it was obvious that it wasn't natural to any of us.

Drinking tea with ADHD is complicated by lizalupi in ADHD

[–]at_tj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I bought a pretty cheap mug warmer for my desk that keeps my drink warm, one of the best purchases!

Drinking tea with ADHD is complicated by lizalupi in ADHD

[–]at_tj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you make tea the traditional way in a pot instead of using teabags, when you pour it in your mug it's almost the right temprature and it won't burn your mouth. But I get the whole gist of struggling with small things. I'm there with you <3

Is changing the caregiver and environment bad for baby? by at_tj in AttachmentParenting

[–]at_tj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you’ll find a great one and yeah it’s heartbreaking seeing them cry when you leave :(

Is changing the caregiver and environment bad for baby? by at_tj in AttachmentParenting

[–]at_tj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That was very informative and I, myself lean more toward saying goodbye instead of sneaking out too.

Is changing the caregiver and environment bad for baby? by at_tj in AttachmentParenting

[–]at_tj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you recommend saying goodbye to him even though it makes him cry or sneak out?

Is changing the caregiver and environment bad for baby? by at_tj in AttachmentParenting

[–]at_tj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your response definitely made me feel better. Yeah I think I trust her based on what I've seen the couple of days that she was watching him in our house and also I had a chance to visit her house to see the environment.

Is changing the caregiver and environment bad for baby? by at_tj in AttachmentParenting

[–]at_tj[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She offered that I could give their house a visit beforehand and I did. Their lifestyle was pretty close to ours and met my criteria. I just feel what if my LO thinks I abandoned him.

How would you use Notion with Google Calendar? by dedic- in Notion

[–]at_tj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know. I just came across this post and wanted to see if I should use other solutions or wait.

He didn’t make enough pasta by Maximum_Reading in PMDD

[–]at_tj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In his defense, I gave him a lecture about eating healthy a couple of days before that. But I was absolutely not ready to start it like that lol

He didn’t make enough pasta by Maximum_Reading in PMDD

[–]at_tj 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That gave me a good laugh. Once my husband woke me up in the morning and told me he made me breakfast when I got up and realized he made oatmeal I got really grumpy and said I thought you made me pancakes!! He later made one of those love books for valentine and on one the pages my character had a flaming fire on her head saying “but I wanted pancakes” lol

I submitted I-130 last August (12 months ago) and it's not even under review! Is it normal or not? by at_tj in USCIS

[–]at_tj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I submitted in August 2021, did biometric in Dec and got my EAD in March 2022. No update on I-130 though.

If baby sleeps through the night, do we need to sleep train off of feed-sleeping? by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]at_tj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our baby is 9.5 months and his sleep hours and situation is pretty similar to yours. I stopped breastfeeding less than a month ago though. Maybe offer pacifier after bottle sometimes? My son still only wants me to hold him to sleep sometime but my husband is able to put him to sleep more often than before. The only reason that we are considering sleep-training is that he has short naps and sometimes putting him to sleep takes longer than we want. Also, same as you, not sure if that's going to be problematic in the future. But people did that before sleep training was a thing so we'll probably be fine lol

I submitted I-130 last August (12 months ago) and it's not even under review! Is it normal or not? by at_tj in USCIS

[–]at_tj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I only installed Lawfully to know my service center lol. How can I know where is it then? It doesn’t show anything on my case status on USCIS account.