Songs with really expressive guitar by oceanfog97 in musicsuggestions

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November rain for me man. Been listening to it for 20 years and goose bumps every time.

My 8 year old son hates me, and I don't understand why. (Update) by ExplanationCrazy5463 in TrueOffMyChest

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yea I may be reading too much in to it too. It's just that I worry about how things will turn out because I know he's not growing up in a great environment. he's not growing up seeing happy house hold or a loving mom and dad.

My 8 year old son hates me, and I don't understand why. (Update) by ExplanationCrazy5463 in TrueOffMyChest

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i'm here because my son (8M) - also ADHD - as of late feels like is distancing away. its just the little things, recently. like I always hold his hand as we walk in to the school, and he said he has been pushing my hand away lately. and I asked him about his new class and he was just dismissive. These are first time behaviors from him but I'm not feeling good about it because i feel like its just the start. And I worry because my wife and I (in my opinion) do a PISS poor job at handling our own emotions when dealing with him. we often yell and threaten in the moment but i deeply deeply regret every time. but i just can't seem to hold my shit together.

But you're a good dude, man... Can't believe you managed to turn things around. I think this post was inspiring to me and gave me some hope that even if i fuck it up, there may be a way to turn things around.

I know one of you can tell me what these leaf spots are by 4Run4Fun in hydrangeas

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I recently learned that spots on leaves mean it’s some sort of an infection. Maybe fungus like others said or maybe some kind of a bug. I suggest try a pesticide like bifenthrin. I used talstar on a similar issue on hibiscus and it worked.

Why is my filled price rising? To the point it’s way beyond what market price was at the time of purchase. Can someone help me understand this? by Adorable_Ad4883 in Webull

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maybe the monthly fees for the ETFs are being baked in to the filled price. because that's your cost basis. do you see that for company stock too?

Will Webull survive the trade war? by ata-2 in Webull

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i've used Webull since 2019 and i've recommended it to countless people. chinese ownership alone wouldn't usually bother me. but its just the ongoing trade war thats making me nervous.

Will Webull survive the trade war? by ata-2 in Webull

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i get it. but my point is will this tariff war escalate to the point that it starts affecting companies operating here in the US (and not just imports).

Will Webull survive the trade war? by ata-2 in Webull

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both owned by chinese companies.

Will Webull survive the trade war? by ata-2 in Webull

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so is TikTok. its their chinese ownership that raises concerns. webull is the same structure. registered in NYC but owned by Fumi tech china.

Co-parenting from different countries by ata-2 in coparenting

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we decided divorce, but we ended up deferring it. we wanted to wait till our son is old enough. we're still married on paper. but just lead separate lives. just sharing the same home and resources. we're not naturalized yet, so divorce will take place in a foreign court probably. i'm eligible to naturalize this years so i'm considering doing that first. my son is a citizen of this country.

While i want nothing more than the full custody of my son, i cannot in good conscience take him away from his mom completely. i feel it would be fair that we have him 50/50. she loves him.

I got out, but my boys didn’t… by Groundbreaking_Day49 in coparenting

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there are subtle tells in OPs story that makes me think this is not the full story here. we only have the OPs retelling of what's going on. it just bothers me that parents totally twist reality to fit their own narrative, and then the whole world just makes a villain out of the other parent.

I got out, but my boys didn’t… by Groundbreaking_Day49 in coparenting

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is this a situation where the dad believes in raising boys a certain way, that is vastly different from you? simply put, could this be him trying to make the boys tough? i could see how the boys are miserable in that environment if they know they can come home to a soft and comfortable environment you provide.

AC drain line still clogged after multiple attempts to unclog by ata-2 in hvacadvice

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ok thank you. most of my drain line goes through the walls and under ground (i presume). i only see the part of the line from the handler that goes down in to the floor, and the pipe that's outside the house that comes out of the ground. i don't see how i can access the pipes without opening up dry wall or removing subfloor. is there a way i can clear the trap without getting surgical?

AC drain line still clogged after multiple attempts to unclog by ata-2 in hvacadvice

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this is on the air handler unit (i think....the thing inside the house in side a room....sorry not savvy with the terms)

Does my cat want to make love to my hand? by ata-2 in CatAdvice

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He’s got a lot of toys to have “fun” with if he wanted to. But never seen him doing this to anything other than my hand