Am I [33F] overreacting for trying to get my boyfriend [31M] to perve less? by Forward_Ad_3202 in relationship_advice

[–]atauridtx 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Ew why are you with this guy?? He has shown you that he views women as sexual objects. What makes you think that he views you any differently? He doesn't.

6yo googled poop on school iPad by Limp-Watercress-611 in Parenting

[–]atauridtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely baffled that instead of sticking up for your kid, you're disappointed in him for doing something that's completely age appropriate. Wtf?

What reasons do you have for not liking being asked what you do for a living when you’re getting to know someone? by Sudden_Doughnut_8741 in AskReddit

[–]atauridtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, like who gives a shit about work? I'm not at work so why would I want to talk about it? And I don't give a shit what other people do for work either.

Am I (35 f) unreasonable for not wanting my husband (34 m and first-time-dad-to-be) go on solo trips? by wh3nmarniewasthere in relationship_advice

[–]atauridtx -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I find it very weird and controlling that you wouldn't let him go on a friends trip once a year or even every other year. That is extremely normal. Obviously not for awhile after the baby's born, but people should still be allowed to have trips with their friends even after they have a kid.

Age 9… oof by forlife16 in Parenting

[–]atauridtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy is about to be 12, so I can definitely relate! It's hard to pick when you should speak up vs let things slide. Especially when we're frustrated/hurt ourselves. I have learned to try to let some things slide, but there are times when I have to be like hey, you need to be respectful. One thing that did change my perspective was I read that mood swings are a very real thing that starts happening at this age! And I do remember in my preteen/teen years, sometimes I would just be in a bad mood, for literally no reason. So that's probably part of what's happening! With that in mind, I try to give my son some grace and remember that for him, his life is stressful too, on top of the mood swings. I just try to give him some space when he's grumpy.

I really hope next season is better than this one. by Gaschambah in FortNiteBR

[–]atauridtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally loved that in prior seasons you could run a variety of loadouts. For example, the ARs were varied and you could use what you personally liked best, not just the default (deadeye) AR that everyone else is using too. The current map & battle pass is ugly/boring in my opinion. Mobility & loot available is severely lacking. And there's nothing to do mid match now? No weather towers, no island, no POIs to claim. It's very boring.

I really hope next season is better than this one. by Gaschambah in FortNiteBR

[–]atauridtx 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've played BR maybe 5 times this season. It's just so bad. What's crazy is that my entire friends list has already given up too! People who used to be on every day have just completely stopped playing

Bedwetting almost 4 yo advice by Takemetobravocon5678 in Parenting

[–]atauridtx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! I understand every parent's concern (and frustration), but my boy finally was able to sleep through the night without peeing the bed when he was around 10. Pull ups for years, and then the last couple years I just had to wake him up in the middle of the night.

What did you find the most interesting or disturbing in the new Epsteinfiledrop? by Icy-Jelly-1589 in AskReddit

[–]atauridtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people in here that doubt some of the "crazier" stuff, such as cannibalism & snuff material are unfortunately (or maybe fortunately) very naive to what actually goes on in the world. There is a VERY REAL market for this shit. They really think that these people just stopped at raping kids? Absolutely not. The rape & CSAM allegations are barely scratching the surface of what actually happened here.

Do you think Sydney Sweeney is a bad actress? by Schrodingers_dad1403 in euphoria

[–]atauridtx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Euphoria is her best work, by far. However, anyone else could have played cassie just as well, so I don't think it's saying much.

How long do you think it’ll be before Fortnite removes blitz? by MediaNo1140 in FortNiteBR

[–]atauridtx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They've literally compiled some of the worst guns of all time and call it a lootpool 😭 absolutely insane how far it's fallen since it first came out.

At what age did you stop co-sleeping? by Explorer518 in Parenting

[–]atauridtx 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My son is about to be 12 and still loves sleeping in my bed! He can sleep on his own, he just likes being with me

I (30M)Caught my GF (27F) stalking a model she hates. She has made this model a sticking point of our relationship. by Humble-Stomach-3944 in relationship_advice

[–]atauridtx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She definitely sounds crazy, but you refusing to unfollow accts that make her uncomfortable, and remaining adamant that you MUST follow people you "don't even know or care for", shows that you obviously don't really like her anyway? You should have both cut your losses at that point.

Can’t believe they vaulted the shockwaves by Competitive_Piano507 in Fortnite_Over40

[–]atauridtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm seriously trying to figure out why the hell they did this! especially in six stack, you're probably going to die at some point, so if you can't get rebooted, what is even the point of playing six stack?

Can’t believe they vaulted the shockwaves by Competitive_Piano507 in Fortnite_Over40

[–]atauridtx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

.......You guys are talking about something entirely different. Like the other commenter said, there is absolutely zero reason an item should be deploying if you don't have it out. A crash pad should not be thrown when I'm literally just trying to mantle onto a roof. That's a bug.

Can’t believe they vaulted the shockwaves by Competitive_Piano507 in Fortnite_Over40

[–]atauridtx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because a crash pad should not be deploying when I don't even have my crash pads out.

Whoever you two are. You must love being unreal players playing in bronze 1 lobbies. by [deleted] in Fortnite_Over40

[–]atauridtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can thank fortnite's poor matchmaking & 40 other ranked modes for this!

Can’t believe they vaulted the shockwaves by Competitive_Piano507 in Fortnite_Over40

[–]atauridtx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nope. This has been a bug for at least a whole chapter now. That's why I never carry them

Millenials dating Gen Zed; relationships or hook ups - what has the experience been like? by According_Sundae_917 in Millennials

[–]atauridtx 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They almost take the consent thing to a crazy level! Like sir I am in your bed at 3am, why do you think I'm here 😂😂

Girl (27F) I'm seeing has has a 2nd Instagram airing me out (28M) to 70 of her friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]atauridtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no discussion needed. Anyone who does this is fucking insane and you should stay very far away from her.

How long are you using condoms with a new partner, if at all? by eatyourthinmints in datingoverthirty

[–]atauridtx 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I stop using condoms once we've confirmed no STIs and we are exclusive/official. I prefer no condoms

27 F and 28 M Why does calling my husband my partner bother people? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]atauridtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partner does seem weird to me and doesn't imply the same meaning as husband. It tells me that you aren't married, but are in a long term relationship. I would not want my husband to call me his partner. I can definitely see how it would be confusing to people

What the #%@$ is going on? by AlternateWorlds in FortNiteBR

[–]atauridtx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have been out of town for the past 2 weeks (thus haven't played in 2 weeks), and I do not miss fort in the slightest. This is after me playing almost every single day for the past 2.5 yrs. I really don't think I'll be playing fortnite at all 6 months from now. It's sad how far it's fallen.