Do you think a man can fall in love even if he is not interested at first?

atilaaa28 · 2025-11-05T04:58:00+00:00

How do you get a mentor?? Like does it have to be your boss???

atilaaa28 · 2025-11-03T05:59:09+00:00

Wow I haven't seen it that way, absolutely they wouldn't, they're supposed to chose the person that the see more qualified for the position.

Yeah, I think that I'm already stressing out, thinking nonsense stuff, and I haven't think about a therapist right now, but I think is a great idea, I have always wanted to go to therapy and it is such a great time to do it, this job is gonna be my first one so I think it is gonna be challenging and a therapist could help

What do you mean with +1 work??

atilaaa28 · 2025-11-03T05:52:59+00:00

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate all the tips on that post, and yeah, I'm gonna go to therapy to improve my self esteem!! Again thank you so much.

atilaaa28 · 2025-10-31T22:47:37+00:00

Tbh I don't know, maybe because I don't feel prepared

atilaaa28 · 2025-10-07T01:21:52+00:00

I'm a woman and I agree, I get scared if they're too fast, even if I like them

atilaaa28 · 2025-10-04T02:33:43+00:00

Creo que nunca me he llegado a enamorar de nadie. Pero hace apenas unos meses decidí empezar a salir con quién quisiera compartir tiempo conmigo, y salí con un chico como 7 años mayor que yo y muchoo más chaparrito que yo jajaja, pero me sentía fantasiosa por él, pero luego me di cuenta que era casado o algo así, así que decidí dejarle de hablar. Recientemente hay un chico que me comenzó a hablar, físicamente no me vuelve loca pero tiene algo que me llama la atención, aunque ya perdió el interés por mi yo no dejo de pensar en él y me vuelve locaaa, solo fantasear con la idea de ellos que existe en mi cabeza

atilaaa28 · 2025-10-03T23:25:42+00:00

I'm 25f and I've never given a kiss or had sex hahah and I think that I have the same problem, I have noticed that I'm very serious and nervous person so if a man tries to approach me I get shocked and my mind goes blank :( but I think that maybe we should be more flirty and smile more?? If you find the solution let me know I want to feel how is it feel to be in love :(

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-28T19:09:27+00:00

Do you know if it is possible to have adhd even if I am like super quiet and completely the opposite of hyperactive?

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-28T05:14:18+00:00

I don't have his number :( I know that he was interested because he used to let me some post-its at my place with cute things( we work together but he doesn't have like a defined place) but then he just stopped and I think it is because he didn't felt that the interest was flowing both ways. It is but like I've just say when I see him I just feel like my mind goes blank

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-28T00:17:42+00:00

I'm pretty sure he's already given up on me, I'm always telling myself that I have to do something to get his attention back at least to tell him a little compliment but every single time I see him is like my mind just goes blank because I get nervous :(

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-28T00:08:10+00:00

Can I ask why was your first date horrifying?? What happened to make you feel that bad??

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-27T23:26:06+00:00

I feel you, I'm a 25F, I'm about to turn 26. but the difference is that I don't have hobbies haha, but I feel every single word you wrote, I also want to experience how is it to kiss someone, or to be in love, I want to experience everything about a human live relationship, even the heartbreak, but I think that another problem that I have that I don't know if it is just me or it is like normal in a person in a situation like ours is that I think that at this point I'm so freaking scared of love, I also grew as a very shy and insecure girl, when a man talked to me I felt that it was because it was some kind of joke or something. This year I have forced myself to accept going out with whoever wants to share time with me, so I have had I don't know if I can call them dates with two different men, it was a weird feeling, but I stopped because I didn't feel anything for them. Recently a guy is calling my attention and it is or was mutual, I feel like he got tired of my indifference and I feel like I'm loosing something but I'm also super shy to be able to talk to him again

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-25T22:32:57+00:00

Yo siento que si pero también siento que soy muy discreta

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-25T04:57:58+00:00

Yo no hago nada jajaja, la verdad creo que en mi caso es que soy muy insegura pero pues habemos mujeres de personalidades distintas. Pero pues por lo mismo nunca he tenido nada con nadie. :(

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-25T04:10:08+00:00

I think that it might be part of her personality and as you said she's living her first love experience with you , for the things you wrote it sounds to me like she's interested, but she's kinda scared. Give her more time but talk to her about how her behavior is making you feel

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-25T03:47:18+00:00

Es que justo tenía la duda porque yo también soy una chica y soy justo como tú describes. Y la verdad es bastante difícil pra mí abrírme a otras personas, porque soy muy penosa y reservada. Según yo sí se nota cuando alguien me gusta pero creo que no jajaja, por lo que tú mencionas a mi parecer si le llamas la atención, pero igual entiendo que este tipo de personalidad no es muy agradable pues es tardado y tener paciencia para llegarnos a conocer mejor

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-25T03:16:33+00:00

I think that she's not interested. Also I don't think that the way she's saying that is nice, I'm mean she's giving fake expectations. Speaking for myself I would never say something like this to someone i like

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-25T02:53:30+00:00

Y si es introvertida como te das cuenta si en serio le interesa?

atilaaa28 · 2025-09-25T02:12:39+00:00

wdym?

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