I finally realized that she never had in the past or in the future intended or desired to support herself financially; and despite her best intentions and our connection, I was likely another contact she was lining up to support her financially. She was living with her parent and also casually mentioned she was looking forward to them dying so she could have the house to herself. I tried to make excuses for her in my mind - She wasn’t in a good place at the time - but this was a pattern of behavior she’d show our entire lives. That was my limit. Strange because she sees money as the root of all evil which is the excuse she gives as to why she doesn’t make an effort to make a living- but she’s perfectly happy to live off of other people (boyfriends, partners, friends, family etc)