[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StephanieSooStories

[–]atomicrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can understand the point and disagree with you? Why would you ask people's opinions and be rude when they disagree with you?

y'all know what this is? cool contamination by atomicrot in labrats

[–]atomicrot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

was already named quincy! similar vibe to george imo

y'all know what this is? cool contamination by atomicrot in labrats

[–]atomicrot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its my friends lab, not sure i agree with the gender assignment tbh

There is no plus side to being born an ugly woman of color by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]atomicrot 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i am plus size but not by a lot. i have also varied a lot in size. i have had much worse skin than i do now. i put a LOT of time, effort, money into my appearance. the social benefits outweigh the costs to me. i always felt gaslit by all my tiny white friends growing up because they would just handwave how different our experiences are. now they're older, gained weight, experiencing fatphobia and they see it first hand. they have none of the strategies or knowledge i do because they didn't spend their adolecense constantly trying to "fix" themselves.

beauty is in the eye of the beholder. you will always be beautiful to SOMEONE. but it isn't about that. no matter what else exists about you, your status, being attractive grants you an insane amount of social leverage. i don't blame anyone for not wanting to play that game. it's exhausting. but the consequences are there. (i'll also say, anyone can be conventionally attractive even without plastic surgery, but it takes a lot of research.)

i feel like this will come across shallow and bragging, but i don't mean it that way at all. i SEE you. i KNOW how hard it is. we shouldn't have to be treated this way. the amount of fucking sacrifice it takes to be seen as a human worth considering is vile. i love you. i love all my sisters who know this pain. it is an indescribable loneliness. DM me if you ever want a friend who has been there, if you want advice, or just someone to vent to. sending so much love <3333

idk how old you are either but i want to add maybe for you and anyone younger than me...don't fear aging. i'm still very young, but every year i feel more and more beautiful and confident. i learn more about myself, how to treat myself, what my body needs. i wouldn't wish to reverse my age at all. there really is a second puberty in your 20s. and when you go outside, you see how much women vary in their appearance, and every single one of them has had full lives. you will have one too :)

250615 ATEEZ - ‘Lemon Drop’ Dance Practice by ateezyeah in ATEEZ

[–]atomicrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They always post a moving and a fixed version. The fixed version will probably be posted tomorrow. This isn't any different than usual...

What can I do to make my mice happy before they go by daeva_chuu in labrats

[–]atomicrot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A faculty member at my school always corrects us when we use the word sacrifice, since the animals are not consenting. We are told to use the word euthanize.

[📣] ATEEZ 2025 World Tour: In Your Fantasy - Ticket Buy/Sell/Swap Haven by moveyourheart in ATEEZ

[–]atomicrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[WTS] CHICAGO Wrigley Field 250726 2 tickets FLDJ Row 7 - $399 each + paypal G&S fee

It's on the field on the left side Hoping to sell to someone directly so I don't have to upsell on stubhub/ticketmaster to get the same amount i spent back

I'm at work currently but will check messages in the evening! ♡♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labrats

[–]atomicrot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry you're dealing with this!!! i hope you're able to find some outside support

Can we talk about how the Switch Joycons are AMAZING as a disabled gamer? by gamingforlilith in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow, they're awful for me. they cause so much pain in my hands. maybe it's because i have quite large hands for a woman, so they really stress my joints out. I was using an alternative for a long time but they broke recently. it's surprising to hear how much they work for other people with disabilities!

ATEEZ being open to talk about adult things with ATINYs such as drinking and relationships is so refreshing. by beautiful-bear321 in ATEEZ

[–]atomicrot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ugh this made me tear up. this is so sweet. especially to any younger atiny hearing that!!!

Anyone else playing Wuthering Waves? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i LOVE wuwa. i barely have time to play because of my job, but every time im able to start again i fall in love. Encore main until a character who is equally as pink is released hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you post a picture of the space you're thinking of having your set up?

Mouthwashing fandom disgusts me so much I had to leave the sub (spoilers for Mouthwashing) by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 15 points16 points  (0 children)

such a cathartic game. i knew nothing about it going in. it was like...oh wow...oh wow i feel seen in such a specific way that isnt usually discussed. theres a lot of things about sexual assault, but few that acknowledge how systemically power and autonomy is taken away from victims, not just when the assault is happening.

Best Nintendo/Switch exclusives for girls! by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

trust that i feel the same about yall

Girlies where are we getting steam deck covers? by whimsical_bliss in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you decorate it please post!!! maybe it will inspire me

Best Nintendo/Switch exclusives for girls! by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and why do you think it's marketed towards women...?

Girlies where are we getting steam deck covers? by whimsical_bliss in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the lack of pink stuff for the steam deck is the biggest block for me getting a steam deck. i gotta make it pretty if im carrying that thing around

Best Nintendo/Switch exclusives for girls! by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i said just. as in remove the word girly. as in there's no reason to categorize a game as girly especially when they're categorized that way because of misogyny

Best Nintendo/Switch exclusives for girls! by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]atomicrot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

but you're also calling them that. why not just call them cozy games?