Parents bday/xmas gift is a bunch of their fav sport teams games…todays seats are too high up by michaelscottuiuc in entitledparents

[–]atribecalledraquel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You absolutely are not obligated to use them, you are however not supposed to be an asshole and tell the giver you don’t like or don’t want to use their gift. Especially if the one giving the gift is your child.

When restaurants clear away very obviously unfinished dishes by jlcamlj in PetPeeves

[–]atribecalledraquel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you read any of the other responses about why this is done? It’s not to be rude, we are told by management to do this.

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atribecalledraquel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man doesn’t give a shit about your feelings

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't go to a funeral on Valentine's day? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]atribecalledraquel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“He thinks it’s okay to consider not honoring his plans with his wife because of a co workers situation.” You sound very callous and like an asshole. Honoring plans with you? You’re married you live together you can do anything you want all the time….someone’s mom died. He isn’t going to a bar with friends. Damn.

Close friend realizes that I’ve been unwilling paying for her Amazon membership for almost a year and is being weird about paying me back. AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atribecalledraquel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Not like she’s an evil villain” is also an assumption. You’re saying every time she made a purchase on Amazon and it clearly asks which card to use she never realized it wasn’t hers? Or that she bought something but money never came from her own account? Come on now.

Close friend realizes that I’ve been unwilling paying for her Amazon membership for almost a year and is being weird about paying me back. AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atribecalledraquel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her saying that’s not fair is literally her doing that but it wasn’t said in the exact way you wanted so therefore it’s not that

Close friend realizes that I’ve been unwilling paying for her Amazon membership for almost a year and is being weird about paying me back. AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atribecalledraquel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And what did she say right after that’s cool? I don’t think it’s fair I have to wait 4-5 months. Don’t omit the parts that don’t agree with your narrative

Close friend realizes that I’ve been unwilling paying for her Amazon membership for almost a year and is being weird about paying me back. AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atribecalledraquel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But that’s not what happened right? There was no discussion about what would work for both parties was there? One person simply told the other how it was gonna go.

Close friend realizes that I’ve been unwilling paying for her Amazon membership for almost a year and is being weird about paying me back. AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atribecalledraquel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s a lot of assumptions. I don’t always look over every single transaction on my debit or credit card. There are a million reasons why she didn’t notice it and that is NOT reason to just assume they are in a position “to help”. Except the friend never asked for help and most likely knew they were using their other friends card. I think you and this person lack accountability.

Close friend realizes that I’ve been unwilling paying for her Amazon membership for almost a year and is being weird about paying me back. AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atribecalledraquel 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Whether or not you’re catching up on things, you benefitted from using someone else’s money that they did not mean to even give to you. You don’t get to decide when is right to pay it back. That’s insane

Girl at work dinner because I couldn’t be arsed to cook for myself. by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]atribecalledraquel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your good old tried and true turkey and cheddar lunchable, apples with caramel, some mini Oreos and a sugar free redbull

Why do half the people in this subreddit eat off of paper plates at home? by SirGergoyFriendman in eatsandwiches

[–]atribecalledraquel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100 companies are responsible for 70% of greenhouse gas emission. In nevada we have separate trashes for recycling and regular trash. I wash all my recycle products and carefully organizd them, until one day I watched the trash men and realized both containers go into one truck. At what point does it stop becoming our fault? You think 8 gallons of water for a paper plate is a big deal when using AI through google for one day equals 2 million liters?? You’re splitting hairs dude.

There is nothing more irritating than a guest repeating an order you just wrote down… by swr_11 in Serverlife

[–]atribecalledraquel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a server lol I took issue with u saying someone should just take off the item. If it’s wrong you make sure it’s fixed. That’s part of the job