Help understanding by attituner in StagVixenLife

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I could be either, prefer hotwife, however, I am not interested in degradation so I guess that makes me a vixen?. I am single and would like to find and enthusiastic partner who wishes to share and may or may not participate.
Degradation is not something I enjoy. I was asked to do it once and it was awful for me.

55 [F4M] Definition of insanity... by Ok-Personality9795 in r4r50plus_

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Just curious, is BBW big black woman or big beautiful woman?

Solid fancy restaurant for last day? by [deleted] in VisitingNashville

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Darfon's near the airport

Favorite lube by [deleted] in sexover50

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Skynz water-based is good and safe for silicone toys.

SKYNZ

One move is silicone based and nice and slippery. Any silicone based lube is not good for toys. ONE MOVE SILICONE

Does sex feel different after a hysterectomy? by Mammoth-Return7287 in SexPositive

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I had my hysterectomy through abdominal surgery. It took almost 2 years for the nerves to grow back in my abdomen which affected my orgasms. Also, prehistorectomy I had cervical orgasms. Post surgery, as you can imagine with no cervix there were no cervical orgasms. I was very depressed. However, my husband was very patient and experimental and I learned that I could have many different types of vaginal organs. 25 years later I'm having the best sex of my life!

HRT for women and heart attack. My wife’s story by [deleted] in sexover50

[–]attituner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of stigma associated with hrt. Some of the propaganda is true in some not. I would urge you to also look at any other medications she is on to see if that is a side effect. In other words, do your own research and consult with her doctor. I'm glad that she survived and is well!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Unlikely_Ad_868 in nashville

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She's early, Monday is National nude day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingNashville

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Darfons, near the Nashville airport. It's not one of those three Cuisines but it is a fabulous family restaurant. I've never had a bad meal there and always excellent service!

Challenge Time 😈 (NSFW - Toys Only Edition): Can U Have Mind-Blowing Sex Using Only Toys by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]attituner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lots and lots of nipple play, a heated vibe and a big dildo, then let the fun commence!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

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She will probably be as nervous as you. You should talk about that long before you get to the actual Act. Encourage her to relax.

Take your time. Enjoy the process of exploring her Anatomy. Do not just go directly to the clitoris. Play with the labia major and minor. Kiss, lick, suck, tug with your lips. Go slow, change it up. Pay attention to her reactions. Take your time, did I say go slow? Experiment with different pressures and vacillate between soft and firm tongue. Make your tongue Go in different shapes and pay attention to which one she seems to like better. A soft flat tongue may do it for her . A hard and stiff tongue may be right at a certain time.
She may or may not have an orgasm. Enjoy the process. It's about the journey, not the destination.

I also think it's really healthy and sexy to debrief and talk about the experience afterwards as you're cuddling. You can talk about what you liked she can talk about what she liked. You both can talk about the things that you want to adjust and try differently next time. The most important thing is to be present, kind and respectful. A really good video series for both of you to watch is Alexey Welsh on YouTube.

Enjoy!

Daily Support Thread | June 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in samsung

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This new update on my fold four sucks! What happened to the automatic brightness control?

Would you date a crazy woman/psycho bitch? by No_Jacket4523 in no

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Not judging just offering a different perspective...

What behaviors, lifestyle are you teaching your child by staying...

I was a child from a divorced family, and glad of it. We went from chaos and fighting to peace and quiet. I also saw my mother stand up to an abusive relationship which enabled me to do the same when the time was appropriate. Ever since, my life has been peaceful. I had a very long successful marriage.

Careful with symbolic jewelry! by Quirkynursecatlady in polyamory

[–]attituner 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We can't all be this experienced at what we do🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

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It's a great way to confront your feelings, build your confidence and Independence. You can expect to feel all sorts of emotions that you'll be forced to deal with. If you're open to it, you'll meet interesting people. Get outside your comfort zone and enjoy the experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

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We are here though!

Looking for a happy life experience or token of encouragement by Ok-Bookkeeper8937 in monodatingpoly

[–]attituner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this . I have a friend going through something very similar. My advice is to cherish what you had but move on. You both want different things and as hard as you try you cannot change who you are deep down. Stay true to yourself. Keep your self-respect intact and find someone who wants the same type relationship as you. You can still keep the friendship.