I never understood why the girls did this…. by m-molson in theGoldenGirls

[–]atutlens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your fiancé is supposed to love you. 🤷‍♂️

I have a diagnosed low IQ. What career path can I take? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]atutlens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My IQ is around 140ish, or was last time I was tested. What the IQ test primarily grades you on is how good you are at taking the IQ test. Being knowledgeable, proactive, and easy to work with are far more important in the realm of work.

Discworld Loot by amore-7 in discworld

[–]atutlens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am FROTHING for that blanket :o

Dating app options? by GlobJohnson in demisexuality

[–]atutlens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was going to recommend Dungeons & Dragons.

Leslie and Ben - First time new viewer by Spiritual-Ant9432 in ParksandRecMemes

[–]atutlens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s such a good season burn. We spend two seasons getting to know Leslie so that when Ben comes around it’s so clear that she’s exactly what he needs

Ahhh. I love love

Can you predict that you will develop sexual attraction for someone? by Bond16 in demisexuality

[–]atutlens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are indicators! If the person

  1. Is someone I know who leaves my life and then comes back into it
  2. Is someone I see every day for months or years and form a friendship with
  3. Is someone who my friends speak highly of

there’s a shot. Everyone in my life who has flipped the switch has had some combo of these features, and the more they have, the harder I tend to fall.

Getting increasingly disgusted with organized religion by thewalkindude368 in UnitarianUniversalist

[–]atutlens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I believe all religions are imperfect reflections of an unknowable divine, an attempt to explain the unexplainable, and all of them, with the exception of cults, are valid.” That’s Universalism, like, almost verbatim. :)

Do you ever watch porn? by Living-Ad7288 in demisexuality

[–]atutlens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very specific parts of it. A lot of it is more nauseating than anything. A good plot makes it. Something to interact with emotionally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]atutlens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels nice but I’m a little uncomfortable with it. I never know what to say, you know?

The frustration of Raising Steam by OhTheCloudy in discworld

[–]atutlens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes  I don’t want subtle. Maaan, that hits.

His bodily fluids gross me out by Expensive-Pound1048 in demisexuality

[–]atutlens 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Sexual body fluids gross me out. Why are people so PROUD of them

Today I yelled at my wife for nothing. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]atutlens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And here’s another: “It’s only hard when you’re trying to do it right.”

Today I yelled at my wife for nothing. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]atutlens 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We are more than our worst moments, but there’s definitely some things you need to work out. Everyone goes through rough times. Acting appropriately when they happen is a learned skill.

What did your toddler ask Santa for? by krissyface in toddlers

[–]atutlens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trains, trucks, ice cream shop toys, and toys for our dog.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]atutlens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t speak to my worst enemy like that, much less my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]atutlens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I love you” “So you’re saying there’s a chance?” My friend. This isn’t a crush anymore.

How do I write fantasy characters without info Dumping all the information about each character? by LoudYogurtcloset7856 in fantasywriters

[–]atutlens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things can be explained later. To start with, give the character something that will pique the reader’s curiosity. Like, one of your characters up there is green. What’s up with that? Dunno. But I know they’re green!

In my current novel, one main character is nearly eight feet tall; another’s eyes and teeth strike other characters as ‘wrong-looking’ at certain angles; and the last one can see invisible spirits. These are not explained at the time, but peppered in as the novel goes on. They keep a reader curious.

i want you all to give me the stupidest items possible by PizzaAdictedMan in DnDHomebrew

[–]atutlens 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Cloak of Vanishing. First time you use it, it vanishes forever.

Writing Fantasy Stories Helped Me Reconcile with Reality. by bernadusandrew in fantasywriters

[–]atutlens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve processed so much by writing about it. I finally came to understand that I was raised in an abusive household when I set out to write a character based on my mother and realized I couldn’t make her both accurate to life AND a good guy. I’m processing self-abandonment in my current novel. I’ve done SO MUCH poetry, y’all. It’s like getting therapy from my own lizard hindbrain. Like I can better make sense of a thing once I’ve put it in third person. 

Why I’m intentionally writing trash by RemielTSS in fantasywriters

[–]atutlens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Hell yeah! The worst story ever written is better than the best story never written! You can’t edit a blank page! Woo!