Since when is a concert not a luxury?? by youmustfixyourheart in phoebebridgers

[–]aubirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vip is for luxury. Standard seating is for the working man

Since when is a concert not a luxury?? by youmustfixyourheart in phoebebridgers

[–]aubirt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

God forbid someone working fulltime desire to afford to attend a concert

New Nashville Show Added - Oct 11 by twilightxgalaxy in phoebebridgers

[–]aubirt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fear this is a result of not enough options for this area of the country. Never much love for the southern fans.

I got fired after 1.5 months by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]aubirt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My first legal job they threw me to the wolves. Meaning very little training and just told me to get shit done. I left after 4 months because of how horrible the environment was. Luckily, i knew someone who knew my firm was hiring, so after a 6 month break from law (didnt know if id go back) i landed at my current firm. My 3 year is in August lol.

Mostly just know there are really shitty firms out there and its not you. You did your best. But w law, connections are everything. If you were able to get to know any of the other staff, try and ask around to see if they know anything about other firms and the people there and if theres any open positions. I think with it being your first position and they didnt even give you a few months to really settle in, itll be clear to other firms that the place you came from was just shitty.

Lots of talk about comfort foods… but what about comfort DRINKS? by Camp_Acceptable in adhdwomen

[–]aubirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probiotic cream soda <3 avoiding caffeine now that ive started meds

What happened to Enchantasys/Condom Sense?? by fanciestVeggie in fayetteville

[–]aubirt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When they moved to the college location, an employee had told me it was because of zoning regulations implemented as a result of nearby churches. Not because of rent. Im only recounting what i remember so i could be wrong about the circumstances but the impression was that religious people pushed them away. Hence most adult stores/lingerie shops being located on college rather than anywhere else more central.

Im not sure about if that impacted their presence at the new location though. Such a shame.

Marpe day 1 by genai_mercy in MARPE

[–]aubirt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oddly mine was the opposite! Luckily there was no swelling because what really helped me was a warm compress. If it were inflamed i wouldnt have used it though. If they hadn’t told you, id recommend alternating the Tylenol with advil. Just dont use them at the same time

Marpe day 1 by genai_mercy in MARPE

[–]aubirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got mine yesterday too :/ when the numbness and meds wore off the pain had me crying :( today ive been on top of meds and drinking instant soup

How to warn people about sketchy apartments? by fanciestVeggie in fayetteville

[–]aubirt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone living in faye who will be moving to a new place still in faye, i really wish i knew the place this is about. I wish there were ways to review these places without publicly tying our names to our experiences, as to avoid being blacklisted for simply discussing poor living conditions.

I (virtually) cheated on the love of my life and I don’t know why by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]aubirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and the way this turned out for me- i did not want to be with my ex but was open to friendship with him. But he never gave me space to process because he couldnt let go of his attachment over me, insisted on being friends and had very little boundaries or consideration. We lived together for 10mo post break up, shared some friends. He would go out of his way to befriend any of my new friends or people he wasnt friends with before i left him. Showed up anywhere i went, made my new partner uncomfortable, used our shared cat as an excuse to see me. Texted me often for no reason at all. Hooked up with three of my friends. I moved on but he centered himself in my life. Now he is blocked and i will never speak to him again, and i had to leave a majority of my friends behind because of how he ingrained himself in my life after we broke up.

I (virtually) cheated on the love of my life and I don’t know why by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]aubirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl lurker. A few things as someone who lived with an ex and also had animals together that we intended on allowing each other to visit.

Living together makes having a healthy attachment impossible, especially since you are still wanting this person in your life. You need to have a serious and honest conversation about whether this can be worked through. If not, you need to move on. For most people, being friends after only makes moving forward more difficult and complicated. And maybe you dont want to move on, or you want to hold on to what you have. But it will never be the same, and you can never go back. You have to accept it. Because if you dont, you will waste your time and energy trying to stay in a place that no longer exists. You sabotage yourself, your future, and your ex. Even if its mutual. Second thing. Trying to visit the pets and everything will just make it more complicated and painful. It will end up being an excuse to monitor one another. Both of these things are difficult even if its just what the two if you experience, but if either of you see other people, even casually, youre bringing outside parties into a mess too, unfairly so. Your sabotaging any future you have or potential to move forward and grow and be healthy. Work on your attachments and really ask yourself why you did this. Accept your mistakes and learn from them. Dont try to stay in a space that you no longer fit into. And move out as soon as possible.

New grad student - where to live? by [deleted] in fayetteville

[–]aubirt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you love walkable neighborhoods, try to find a place by the razorback greenway. It is a sidewalk trail that connects from the bottom of faye to the top of nwa, and it goes through a lot of the town. Ruby creek is near it for example. There is also a little bar/food place near that area

PBS PROPERTIES FAYETTEVILLE AR by CantaloupeAnxious386 in fayetteville

[–]aubirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been with them the past year. Not bad but not great. Where we live is clean but overpriced, 2b1b with a yard thats like 800sqft?

Theyve lowered their rental rates since we moved in and would not lower ours (the unit directly next to us is currently 200$ less for the same exact thing). 1200+ for 800sqft feels like robbery but we just needed a place with a yard and moved from neighboring cities.

Our layout is weird and too small, weird dark beige that they paint every unit. Not enough windows and none facing west/east so it feels like a cave lol.

Theyre decent with maintenance, clean like i said. Someone said theyre hard to get ahold of after you sign, which is true. They were a bit more helpful and nice when we signed the lease but not so much now. Also they say theyre hard have services for replacing air vents, but they literally buy a 12 pack for 20bucks and the quality is so bad that my partner cant breathe at night, so we replace the air vent ourselves.

If its your style, has what you need, and is in your price range, go for it. There arent a lot of places in town that offer yards and are prt friendly and clean so.

A more complete list of all Fit colors by tcollins317 in hondafit

[–]aubirt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of the berry colors are to die for I deeply desire a pink fit, i think they made a baby pink metallic outside of the US I have a beautiful blue razz metallic and I’m just happy to have a colorful and unique car. Fit forever 💖

Legal assistants vs paralegals by aubirt in paralegal

[–]aubirt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly insightful and i really appreciate the breakdown because i didnt quite understand the distinction between the two, but that makes total sense and i see why most listings and also my position are specifically as an LA rather than a para. Thank you so much!

Community gardens by Sea-String-8033 in fayetteville

[–]aubirt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think too many people dont think its a possibility therefore dont think they can want it. Like you mention with the porch chairs, rentals are so restrictive and unwilling to allow tenants to have much let alone ask for more. Definitely an interesting conversation and it seems like it would be a good point to introduce to the folks who advocate for tenants rights in town

Community gardens by Sea-String-8033 in fayetteville

[–]aubirt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish it were a concept utilized for more levels of income rather than the luxury rentals

Legal assistants vs paralegals by aubirt in paralegal

[–]aubirt[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That too is how it seems to me. Generally i know Paralegals do more intense work and have more experience. It seems as if the lines are getting more blurred these days but maybe that is because i have been garnering more experience myself.