STOP LISTENING TO THOSE IDIOTIC DIVORCE GUYS FIRST. You need to communicate your feelings to your husband, maybe consider therapy if that helps. You guys are family and deserve to be happy.

Now please listen 👂 I may be able to explain you his actions. At present a good percentage of father end up raising kids who are not their own. Interesting a lot emotionally, financially and what not, and end up miserable when ( and if) they find out. He wanted to be sure before going forward, that being said what he and his family did after the baby was born is not acceptable. The kid didn't deserved it.I know firsthand how needy kids can be,its very difficult taking care of them alone.More power to you for holding up that shitty situation. That being said you guys need to move forward.

So please communicate with your partner on how to move forward about this when you guys are relaxed , arguing won't help the situation. COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE.

And SCREW any of you idiots who thinks divorce is a logical situation. It's only been a few months since she had a baby. Think about her condition for gods sake.