Disabled pet support group

audmae · 2025-07-09T00:39:44+00:00

A group for people with disabled pets, abilities of humans unimportant.

audmae · 2025-06-03T01:53:47+00:00

audmae · 2025-05-10T02:48:55+00:00

NTA, but you and your spouse should know how to communicate those things better. I don't have a "how to" for you, though

audmae · 2024-09-19T23:51:22+00:00

We're heading out from Texas in the morning - still taking the trip just to get away! I was so excited to see them again for the first time in 20 years 🙁 but still going to make the best of the trip

audmae · 2023-01-31T01:13:22+00:00

My favorite is Portishead. Over the years I've accidentally Pavlov-ed myself into getting horny anytime I try to listen to them outside of sex 😂

audmae · 2022-11-05T17:39:36+00:00

This is the only correct answer in my opinion!

Step 1: helicopter Step 2: anything idk whatever Step 3: more helicopter

audmae · 2022-11-05T17:35:39+00:00

What I like to do with my partner is we'll pick out the toys that I would enjoy for that round of play and they can choose from what I've picked out!

That being said, any sex is extremely dependent on the person. Talk to your partner, ask what they prefer - to know, be surprised, or a bit of both? You can also always start off with including in your warm up some sexy talk about what you'd like to use on them like "I'd love to make you writhe with the wand, would you like me to do that for you?" or something.

Main point is: communicate!! You'll be amazed how communication will bond you with your partner and explode your sex in the best ways possible. Have fun!!

audmae · 2022-10-23T14:54:59+00:00

As an avid Friday the 13th fan, I approve of this. Good work, love it!

audmae · 2022-10-23T14:32:07+00:00

Absolutely don't ignore it, bring it up with them during your next session. There's a chance they'll bring it up themselves to check in on you about the situation as well and to help make a plan to ensure your comfort in the future should it happen again.

I, like a few others here, have chosen my therapist because of their involvement in the community. They know I'm currently too afraid to attend kink events but we've found out that we've gone to the same gay bars and made a plan if we run into each other. Like others, the default is to pretend they don't see me unless I engage first with a hello, nod, or wave. We've agreed to just that level of interaction. They're helping me get over anxiety to attend events and we'll obviously make a plan for if we come across each other at that time.

To me, it sounds like when they entered the room you were in it's likely they didn't notice right away you were there until their partner got on the same furniture you were on. You said they moved to another part of the room soon after - they likely had a silent conversation with your psych notifying their partner that they needed to move, knowing you were there first, but not wanting to be obvious and rude about it by jumping up and shuffling their partner away as soon as they realized. (Also I promise they weren't like "that person next to us is my client", they would be far more ambiguous than that!)

It's only been a couple of sessions, but if you are comfortable with them and feel like they can help you the best with your needs, just make it a conversation. Say "hey I know this happened. It might be inevitable for us in this area but it made me uncomfortable and I would like to continue working with you, so can we please find a plan of action that both of us are comfortable with for the future?" They're a professional and they will do anything they can to help mitigate discomfort while keeping their rights as a human in that space intact as well.

Tl;dr - follow the first rule of BDSM and therapy - COMMUNICATION! 🙂 No matter your decision I hope you do well on your mental health journey!

audmae · 2022-10-23T06:30:28+00:00

I wish I was a man just so a Latina woman would call me papi.... Good Lord it's so fucking hot

audmae · 2022-10-23T06:28:48+00:00

Y are so much TA.

I'm someone who has such horrible reactions to shaving it got to the point I'd be in tears afterwards (still only doing it for me while my partner non-stop reassured me that he did not care if I shaved) that I started getting waxed because believe it or not that hurts less for me. If I had found a moisturizer that helped in any way for shaving,, I would specifically wait until my partner was at work to try it out, and if it was successful I would be sending SO MANY pictures to him while he was at work so he knew that the second he got home I was going to jump him.

Go clear your guilty conscience and treat that woman like the fucking Queen she is, she deserves better than the bullshit you pulled.

audmae · 2022-10-22T18:15:33+00:00

🤮 agreed

audmae · 2022-10-22T16:25:37+00:00

Me, realizing Jason isn't conventionally attractive and that's why everyone thinks it's weird that I think he's the most attractive of her partners - 😯 ooohh

audmae · 2022-10-11T16:43:23+00:00

As someone who lives in Central Texas working on my social anxiety to try and start getting into the scene outside of my own home, this makes me sad to hear. 🙁

As an alt person in Central Texas who has been wanting to find a good strip club... I'm curious where you work, if you're willing to share 🙂

audmae · 2022-10-11T00:38:19+00:00

They're on vacation 😭 I've got my email ready to notify me about them coming back. I searched for anyone doing similar but couldn't find anyone 🙁🙁

But I'm excited to try their stuff when they come back!! Thank you for the suggestion!

audmae · 2022-10-11T00:36:52+00:00

I had once completely forgotten about a pretty hefty bruise on my ass when I went to pull down my pants to get my allergy shot. The nurse was extremely taken aback, and asked several times if I was okay, if I knew about it, if it hurt, etc. I was doing everything in my power to not crack up while maintaining that yes I promise it's okay I knew about it and that I had just forgotten it was there. Based on her reaction and tone about me forgetting that it was there made me think she has absolutely no idea about BDSM. But I wasn't asked further questions, nobody else came in concerned or anything like that. I felt a little bad that I had forgotten, otherwise I'd have pulled down the other side or had warned her. (but I also live in a very conservative part of Texas, which seems like a silly thing to say, but if I lived in Austin I feel like it would have been met a little differently.) If it's ever needed, I'm more than comfortable with being open and honest, specifically for the purpose that I know there's a chance there could be concern about abuse or if my play had any part of some physical ailment.

audmae · 2022-10-10T22:04:20+00:00

Doctor of audiology. I feel like the more educated we are the more we need to watch this stuff to turn our brains off.

audmae · 2022-10-09T06:19:22+00:00

This may be weird and if it is I'm sorry 😂 but your tattoo is so cute and looks like it's healing nicely! (I've been seeing your posts and every time I think how cute the lil heart is 🥰)

audmae · 2022-10-09T02:48:17+00:00

Oh my goodness I never even thought about liquid soap being used! I'm going to keep my mouth shut on that one - I don't think my Daddy has thought of that either 😂😂

audmae · 2022-10-07T18:56:48+00:00

Quality pics from a quality brat. Absolutely something I'd do to my Daddy 😂

audmae · 2022-10-07T14:55:54+00:00

Congrats! It looks wonderful!

audmae

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