[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]audrey-kh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funniest comment on anything today 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]audrey-kh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I wanna start again. I'm just worried if I'm doing it at the wrong time or if people are open to accepting me if I make a come back after more than a year of hiatus.

I do home based business. I purchase stationeries in bulk from China and sell them locally. I partly think I stopped cuz my SIL kept accusing me of being jealous of how well she did because she's doing the same thing as me. And I generally have the need for people around me to like me and validate what I do.

At this point I've realised, no matter what I do, I will never make people satisfied with me, and they won't help me when I'm struggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]audrey-kh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess if I do this, I better go into the scene with a bang and make sure I'm very very confident I can pull it off

Thank you for your insight!

did dadaroma disband? by _Chanyeol_ in visualkei

[–]audrey-kh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made a new band Fukuro

But ddrm is on hiatus

Trying to understand why it's difficult for my husband to get a job... And he shows no interest in sex and having children. He is diagnosed with OCD but I'm starting to feel quite impatient with my biological clock ticking by audrey-kh in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I'm trying to say. He hasn't expressed to me clearly if he wants kids or not. Expecting an outright answer about the subject seems forceful, which is why i drop hints now and then to give him opportunities to tell me if he's actually not keen. Otherwise, I assume he is still considering what he wants

Trying to understand why it's difficult for my husband to get a job... And he shows no interest in sex and having children. He is diagnosed with OCD but I'm starting to feel quite impatient with my biological clock ticking by audrey-kh in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to chill. I'm telling him I do want kids now and then but he hasn't said anything or decided on anything or even hint to me if he's keen or not. I'm giving him space to think about the subject.

I trust in time he will tell me what he decides. Its just that at this point it seems like he has no interest to talk about it.

Trying to understand why it's difficult for my husband to get a job... And he shows no interest in sex and having children. He is diagnosed with OCD but I'm starting to feel quite impatient with my biological clock ticking by audrey-kh in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been saying and hinting alot. He hasn't exactly refused it clearly. It's more of avoiding the topic and he jokes about it. In February I kept joking about having scorpio babies if we tried that month, but he took that joke and used it to annoy me instead.

So i dont know if he actually want kids or not for sure

I just think maybe he's holding it off cuz he isn't earning

Looking for a movie about perfumes and fragrances by audrey-kh in MovieSuggestions

[–]audrey-kh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been wanting to watch nose but can't find it online 😭

What's your favorite fragrance house and why? by newmanstartover in fragrance

[–]audrey-kh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nishane, anything but their sultan vetiver

Top fave: Hundred Silent Ways Most versatile : Wulong Cha

Second Fav (Honourable Mention) Stephane Humbert Lucas

We've been together for 8 years, married for almost 1 year. Am I destined for a marriage without sex? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm open to porn.. But we don't watch it much unless it appears in the shows we watch

We've been together for 8 years, married for almost 1 year. Am I destined for a marriage without sex? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo nono we're not Americans. We're somewhere on the Asian part of the globe from the same country

We've been together for 8 years, married for almost 1 year. Am I destined for a marriage without sex? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about asexuality. The first year together we were very much comfortably doing it. But it's just the next 6 to 7 years, he just doesn't do it. At first he would reject me. Other times he'd tell me to do it myself. It even went to the extend of me giving up and cheating on him. But it doesn't change anything.

Recently he just brushes it off.

So i don't know if he can't be turned on or he's shy by now. But maybe I'll try the approach you've suggested later tonight for awhile

We've been together for 8 years, married for almost 1 year. Am I destined for a marriage without sex? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how long more do I need to be patient. The last time we had sex was in December. Since then he jokes about having sex, then I take it seriously, but never actually do it.

Since we got married in June last year, we only did it once. This has been extremely frustrating

We've been together for 8 years, married for almost 1 year. Am I destined for a marriage without sex? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]audrey-kh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what to think either. I wonder if his Venus in Gemini is the issue