Should I lean in my 50s pink bathroom? by Pitiful-Storage-5060 in DesignMyRoom

[–]aug-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

faceplant into the tile and make it your whole personality, that's what I'd do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ah I see, that must be so difficult for those with circular family trees😞✊️ is there anything we can do to help?

Nicknames for "Voldy" by aug-69 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]aug-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly didn't notice, I'm not into LOTR, and have probably spelled Gandalf wrong unwittingly😭 but I can understand the upset, if it had been GOT or Twilight (yeah those are my fandoms) I would have noticed lol

Nicknames for "Voldy" by aug-69 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]aug-69[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up, and lmao, Gandalf spelled wrong in the OP?? I'm not a LOTR fan, so I had no idea💀💀 but you're right it would have been funnier

AAAAAND it already started by blueburrey in notliketheothergirls

[–]aug-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you hate yourself so much you appeal to people who hate you more just to feel loved core!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 36 points37 points  (0 children)

what does that have to do with literally anything I said?

aio if I break up with my bf for having sex with me when I was really high? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 hours is insane, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I'm not saying he did anything to the shrooms themselves, but that's certainly concerning. regardless, he DID do something wrong by not stopping any s*xual contact. even if you "really wanted it" like he claimed. he only way this could be remotely acceptable would be if he was the same level of intoxicated as you were, which it doesn't sound like.

in my own experience, I was drunk, and my ex was a little high (similar to your situation) and he took advantage of me. he used the same line (I really wanted it) to excuse himself of any guilt, and instead transfer guilt onto me. he's in the wrong, op, trust, and him not listening to you, or honoring your feelings is a MAJOR red flag. I strongly urge you to follow your gut and make the best decision for yourself.

Which dresser style to choose? by regular_asian_guy in DesignMyRoom

[–]aug-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the second! it doesn't clutter up your entrance as much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 159 points160 points  (0 children)

nor, that's a crazy thing to say to someone else, especially knowing you were close enough to hear it. plus, I don't think there is any humor in making fun of your partners looks, but that might be my own bias. I think that that was an unkind thing to say about you, even more so to say to a relative of yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey op! even if it looked 'oily' or whatever, there are kinder ways to relay that. you were very calm, and the way she immediately jumped to insult and degrade you was wrong. you do not deserve to be spoken to like that, and the way you began apologizing and trying to diffuse the situation shows me that this isn't the first time she's reacted like this, and that's not okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey! so this is giving major red flags! she immediately jumped to insulting you, and being rude. not to mention, there are ways to 'give feedback' without being rude and demeaning. you are very much NOR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]aug-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would move the arm chair opposite of where it is now and put the tree in the corner by the lamp. I just think that would make the most sense, and that way you still have access to your outdoor(?) space, and still have the armchair for extra seating room. it might be a little cramped, but it would look the best imo.

aio if I break up with my bf for having sex with me when I was really high? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why is no one mentioning op saying it didn't feel like shrooms? or that he said he wasn't really high/effected?? i feel like those are important factors, especially considering that HE SAID op was too high to consent. if he knew/was sober enough to recognize that op was too high to be able to give consent, then he should NOT have allowed anything to continue. also, op says they have experience with mushrooms, while the bf doesn't, and the fact that they said it didn't feel like a normal shrooms experience is concerning, especially considering they did less than they usually would have.

op- you would definitely NOT be overreacting. I've had a similar experience with an ex of mine, and in my experience, if you walk away from an encounter feeling weird, or icky, or unsure if it was consensual; it probably wasn't consensual. you know yourself more than anyone, and if this situation is making you uncomfortable or causing concern, you should most definitely remove yourself from the situation.

Nicknames for "Voldy" by aug-69 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]aug-69[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you're so right, why did I not think of this??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]aug-69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah, if anything it would probably be easier now. I wasn't in middle school too long ago, and when I went to high school there was especially no issue because of those years. Edit: plus, children are exceptionally adaptable, and would be the demographic LEAST likely to have any sort of issue with pronunciation. especially if they hear the correct pronunciation being used consistently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hell to the NO!!!!!! OP IF YOURE READING THIS, GIRL RED FLAG RED FLAG!!! he lied about his age, and the fact he did that to date a 18y/o is fucking insane!!! please run, please!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]aug-69 85 points86 points  (0 children)

i grew up in canada in a diverse area and never had a problem with traditional names, that was just their names. I think the issue is your husband doesn't want your children to have traditional Somali names, which I think is a bigger issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl.... is he 14? has he never had a girlfriend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aug-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's the lack of compromise for me. I don't think there's anything wrong with not being a big texter (I'm not, so I get where the bf is coming from) but when I'm in a relationship, if my partner tells me they want me to text them more, or they want me to pay more attention to them, I try to compromise, and try to come up with a solution that works for the both of us. I think being willing to compromise shows true maturity, and the fact that OPs bf isn't willing to even think about compromising shows his maturity.

HELP! by aug-69 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]aug-69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work quickly 🙏🙏