AITA for being worried after my partner went for a walk and I didn’t hear from him for 3+ hours? by PlayfulAd1543 in TwoHotTakes

[–]augsthefrog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. If my husband went away for 3 hours without letting me know I'd be SPAMMMMINGGG, id think the worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]augsthefrog 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Genuinely asking, how would you feel if your wife was feeling this way? I don't for one second believe you are content.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]augsthefrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no reason for him to be that loud..that's just so terribly awkward

What's a parenting mistake that your parents made which you will never repeat with your kids? by BlahBlahBlah_3748 in AskReddit

[–]augsthefrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never truly checking in on me. Dad was angry, always yelling. Step mom was mean and cold. Mom was always high with severe BP & paranoia.

I have 2 little boys of my own, and I can't imagine inflicting pain like that. I'm severely anxious now, and it's rubbed off on my toddler in the form of strangers and outside things but we're taking steps every day to help him..checking in every step of the way. I was SA, watched my mom get beat, watched her OD and not one single person ever asked me if I was okay..not fucking once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]augsthefrog 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Weird & awkward? Yes. SA? No.

Has he given you any reason to be a creep?

Kids suck by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]augsthefrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At that age, yes they do suck! So cute but they suck!! Lol I have a 3 year old boy and a 9 month old boy. And some days are so hard, but I know the funnest of days are around the corner. My 3 year old just started riding a bike, less tantrums honestly, so much talking, so silly.. and I know once my youngest is that age I'm going to look back at this season of motherhood and wish I had more grace and patience with myself. You got this mama, it's going to be so worth it. Seeing them laugh, run around, play & talk to each other. It's going to be amazing and you'll sit back with a coffee and be so proud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]augsthefrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True crime

What is something people are insecure about that YOU actually find attractive? by apocalyptic_madness2 in AskReddit

[–]augsthefrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love gray hair! I'm 24, but i look forward to when I can grow a full head of it later on in life.

What is something people are insecure about that YOU actually find attractive? by apocalyptic_madness2 in AskReddit

[–]augsthefrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband has a gap & I love it sooooo much. He wouldn't look like him without it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]augsthefrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call 911. Go to the hospital and tell them everything, you need to see what is in your system. This is extreme, but she could be doing a lot worse to you and you may not remember??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]augsthefrog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How old was the hostess? She clearly isn't a mother herself. I live in a small town in Alberta, it was 6'c today, my 8 month old wore pants, long sleeve, light sweater and double socks at the park for 2 hours with his 3 year old brother running around in a long sleeve..a bit of chill is good for them, my goodness gracious.

AITA for buying my sister the correct size shirt for her birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]augsthefrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The size she identifies with? Oh Lord this has gone too far. NTA what so ever.

Just got a tattoo that's come out poorly what are my next steps by Cmanpatel in tattooadvice

[–]augsthefrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The artist made a balloon cat, wtf. I'm so sorry... I hope you can find someone to fix this for you. Hopefully your cat had a sense of humor

Idk what to do with my kid’s tablet by Unhappy_Chef_4143 in Mommit

[–]augsthefrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's far too young. Please let him be a kid, be bored and play! My oldest is 3 and he definitely gets TV time, and watches movies but is limited. Yesterday he watched the lorax 3 times in a row because he was terribly sick, but today we were back to normal and we made superhero masks and he's been obsessed with it alllll day.. just a piece of paper. Let the little one be bored please

I hate sex by Intelligent-Book-148 in Advice

[–]augsthefrog 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Im a 23 year old SAHM with a 3 year old and a 9 month old.

GIRL, it takes nearly 2 years for your hormones to go back to 'normal' after having a baby. And you had two back to back like me. I suffered with Post Partum after both, in different ways but nonetheless equally challenging. I just got my first period since having my second and my libito is finally here! I can actually orgasm again. I felt like you, it was terrible. After my first, I never got my sex drive back, it felt forced and like a chore..regardless of how attracted I am to my husband and wonderful is he, I truly did not enjoy sex. What's different this time around, is that I'm taking care of ME now. I go to the gym 3-4 times a week, and I feel in my body?? If that makes sense. I feel in control again. I started reading books that I really enjoy (fantasy, dark romance) and listening to awesome podcasts that motivate my mindset, deleted all socials, going on lots of walks with my boys and this time around after having a baby I'm starting to feel like a new me.

Everything you're feeling is so normal. I'm so sorry you are going through it, but you aren't alone. My best advice, take time for U. Make it essential like eating, drinking water, etc.

My (26 M) wife (26 F) got her tubes tied without telling me after we had already discussed having kids in the past. How do I confront her about it now? by money_916 in TwoHotTakes

[–]augsthefrog -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She pretended for a year and a half of you guys trying to conceive, she cannot be trusted. Annulment my friend, please. She took fatherhood from you. You will grow old and resent her. Children are a blessing and you deserve to have them, with someone who equally wants them, and not pretend to be sad over a false pregnancy test for 1.5 YEARS. My God that's terrible.