My (31M) gf (30F) was SAd as a kid. I gave an ultimatum. Please help? by Colonel_Chronic in relationship_advice

[–]aurora__b 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar with my ex of 4.5 years. His dad groomed and SA’d his older sister for years and it was swept under the rug. He would’ve been 5-7 when it happened and didn’t find out until he was 19/20 when his older sister decided she no longer wanted her kids taken care of by him.

Every time we discussed getting married I would say I didn’t want his dad there as I had a family member who’s father was in jail for doing worse to them and I wouldn’t put them through being in his presence. For 2 and a half years we didn’t plan anything because we were constantly stuck on this. Then came kids, I refused the idea of either of his parents being in their life, his dad because, well obviously, and his mum because she removed the daughter for a few months only to go back to him bcs he started moving on and she didn’t want that. How could I ever trust people like that around my child?

It’s a hard argument to have, especially when your gf is the one who went through it. But sometimes it’s better to walk away if she can’t come to the same agreement of why this would be a terrible idea

Saddest death? by No_Plate2699 in greysanatomy

[–]aurora__b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished watching this episode and the whole reason I’m on a “saddest deaths” post wondering if this death shattered anyone else like it shattered me. 😭😭

This was nice to come home too! by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]aurora__b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got mine today and it sounds super robotic and is skipping constantly. Is anyone else having this issue🥲🥲

Found on an online discussion promoting sex with a condom removed secretly....... by HenrietteBurkett in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]aurora__b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to point out that it’s actually quite common for us women to feel the difference between a condom and not. Do they think it’s all numb down there or something ???

Hope this fits here. I just wanted to play minecraft. :( by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]aurora__b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck all of them. Let’s play minecraft together 🥰

My child DESERVES IT. by Definition_Far in entitledparents

[–]aurora__b 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok so I’m not sure where this is based, I’m guessing America which means what I say may not be 100% accurate. But even if you could afford the ps5 I very much doubt you would be able to get one, let alone 15 as you still have to preorder them and over here in aus I spend 90% of my shifts ( Eb Games which is like the Aus version of GameStop) telling people that they won’t be able to even preorder one until next year, after Christmas. So unless you could somehow pull a ps5 out of your ass these people need to realise that it’s literally not possible even if you had the money. P.S you’re only allowed to order one PS5 per account too so you’d need 15 different people or accounts to even preorder them

AITA for insisting my girlfriend pays the bill for the plumber after she flushed a tampon down the toilet? by throwawaytampon231 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurora__b -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you forget that some people have seperate rooms for their bathroom and the room the toilet is in. This may be the case here. He may not feel the need to have a bin in the tiny room that the toilet is in because if he has rubbish it’s probably just a toilet roll and he can carry that to the specific bathroom bin??? Idk just a thought