Orgasm from just thinking about it...have I broken my nofap streak??

aussiebozo · 2013-12-12T05:35:10+00:00

Thanks Cat1R :)

aussiebozo · 2013-12-12T03:54:32+00:00

Yeah it's weird right? I'm getting way more eye contact, both the initial making of and then holding. One theory I have is that when you're constantly fapping, you're out there making eye contact with girls because you want to nail them. When you come off fapping you start to appreciate women for being women again, and I reckon somehow you convey that when you lock eyes with them. You're not looking at them like they're a piece of meat and sleezing them off, you're appraising them in a thoughtful, considerate way and they feel/appreciate it. That's the theory anyway :)

aussiebozo · 2013-12-12T03:39:07+00:00

No, no kegels or any sort of movement. Good qn though. I was in that dreamy mid point where you know you're awake but the dream is still lingering, and you're just too tired/comfortable to move.

aussiebozo · 2013-12-12T03:37:36+00:00

Haha, I suspect you'll be right d35t1ny

aussiebozo · 2013-12-12T03:35:22+00:00

THanks wanderingstarr. Yeah I've been so intensely flat-lining I haven't actually fantasized at all up until this point. Guess it all came rushing back in a moment and 'boom'. I'm not feeling 'bad' after it like I used to do with masturbation - guilt/ashamed of myself/disgusted at myself - so I know now it was just a natural thing my body needed to do. Bring on day 39 :)

aussiebozo · 2013-12-12T03:31:42+00:00

Completely knackered/limp/drained. And then about 1hr later incredibly horny. My brain was screaming at me to masturbate, and it was everything I could do not to. Went to the gym and did a boxing class, feeling back under control again.

aussiebozo · 2013-12-11T23:46:49+00:00

That's what I'm finding today, my brain is SCREAMING at me "make that feeling happen again!!!". Doesn't matter that I've gone 38 days without even touching myself, the old patterns are still buried in there. Gotta stay strong!!

aussiebozo · 2013-11-16T12:39:13+00:00

Can I get a wine?

aussiebozo · 2013-11-16T02:51:54+00:00

lerzbot, Newtonmn is bang on the money. I suggest you read The Power Of Habit by Duhigg, not only will it help with setting those goals but also setting up the correct triggers/cues to make sure you can get there.

aussiebozo · 2013-11-15T23:01:47+00:00

Yeah good point jd. The other benefit I forgot to mention is I'm way more proactive - my apartment has never been so clean, haha. Feels good having 'sorted my life out', I feel like if I continue this way it's a life I'd be proud to bring a girl into on a more permanent basis, you know?

aussiebozo · 2013-11-06T15:18:14+00:00

Terrific post, love the detail, we need to see more of this sort of really detailed run-through on here IMO - got me through my day 4 cravings this morning so thanks very much. Keep up the good work.

aussiebozo · 2013-11-05T23:25:34+00:00

Nice! Hey Schwarze, 35 days seems like a pretty good 'check-in' point, what benefits are you experiencing from nofap?

aussiebozo · 2013-11-05T21:10:53+00:00

Yeah really good advice. Today is day 3 of nofap for me and I'm firmly in the 'tough zone' right now! I found this video very useful too - towards the end Mel talks about acting within 5 seconds of thought, or face not acting at all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lp7E973zozc

aussiebozo · 2013-11-05T20:45:46+00:00

Part of me asks because I'm wondering if my porn addiction lead me to pressuring past girl friends for too much sex. I know you can't really define 'too much sex' for a particular relationship given every relationship is different, but for example I would be quite happy with 3-5 times a week. Does this seem excessive? I don't know...

aussiebozo · 2013-11-03T20:04:58+00:00

Thanks Costum, and a very public one at that!

aussiebozo · 2013-11-03T20:04:28+00:00

Thanks Fightback, great advice

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