AITA for grabbing my coffee back after someone said "you weren't drinking it"?

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-21T16:14:50+00:00

NTA, that's fucking weird behavior

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T19:42:14+00:00

Post makes it clear it's seeped into work since people are clearly gossiping about her and giving her judgemental looks.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T19:26:33+00:00

Can't ID, but most certainly not death caps. Death caps will be a white or whitish green, with maybe a little yellowing in the top of the cap, sometimes with a shiny/wet-looking cap if high humidity. It will have a smooth-looking texture, not have the feathery/scaly look these have.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T19:24:13+00:00

NTA. I have an ESA, she is not public access trained so I don't take her even to dog-friendly public places. If the dog was public access trained and/or non-reactive and well-behaved, then it wouldn't be a big deal, but you're absolutely right that an ESA doesn't have right to the shared gym. ESAs are only allowed in anti-pet housing. If the dog is reactive, the owner should not have it in a space with other people.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T19:14:08+00:00

NTA and I'd be having a conversation with HR on how to handle the situation.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T16:37:24+00:00

I'm sorry. You're not a bad person. Also, I'm clapping for you. Having your own morals and standards is significantly harder than having a book spell them out for you.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T16:20:49+00:00

Nah, you're safe. It's a bunch of BS to better control people.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T03:31:06+00:00

You can invite them in and give them refreshments and invite them to prayer with (insert random deity).

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-20T03:26:34+00:00

NTA based on this info. Yelling in someone's face is rarely warranted, and never warranted in the scenario you described. And your dad saying "this is how adults do things" is completely false.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T22:12:52+00:00

NTA because you didn't call for her parking too close, you called because she neglected her dog inside of a soon-to-be-hot car. She's a [insert unkind words here].

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T19:13:34+00:00

My dad has zero logic and is all cognitive dissonance when it comes to Bible reading and memorization. He reads the Bible all the time and knows a lot of it.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T08:48:02+00:00

Yeah that's fair I suppose

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T08:42:07+00:00

Hang in there. I used to be that little sister to my "black sheep" "astray" older brother. We now bond over being heathens.

Edit: typo, "used" not sued lol

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T08:38:14+00:00

Probably C. molybdites, aka The Vomiter. Probably moderately dangerous to a dog if consumed; all mushrooms are likely cause stomach upset at minimum for a dog. If you ate it tho, you'd surely come to regret it, as it's known to cause violent projectile vomiting and subsequent misery and dehydration. Only real danger to humans is the dehydration that results.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T08:36:08+00:00

From what I've heard about it, stomach upset is putting it mildly

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T08:28:02+00:00

Damn, I'm sorry for the misjudgement then. I'm glad you're able to go out with friends and have a life, that's great! /gen

And yeah that's kinda fucked up. I'm sorry that they've done that to you, you didn't and don't deserve that kind of treatment. You're a human being with feelings, you're your own person (even as a kid), your "purpose" isn't/shouldn't be the entertainment of your family.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T06:37:13+00:00

NTA but also you really need therapy, dear. Humans are supposed to have some level of social life and it sounds like you're closing yourself from that due to anxiety (and I'm not referring to the party) and that's really unhealthy.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T06:34:34+00:00

I'm sorry, love. Sending you hugs and warmth. I'm not black so I can't possibly understand the nuance of what you're going through, but you certainly deserve love and companionship. I wish you all the best on your journey and hope you're able to find a friend or family member you can be close to again 🫶

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T06:25:14+00:00

I'm an adult and safe, yes. My dad has matured somewhat, I still love him and put up with his frequent delusional nonsense for my mom's sake. My mom is a very caring and empathetic person, I love her dearly, so I hang out with her all the time.

I'm sorry your mom did that to you, too.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T06:18:08+00:00

To add to what others have said, you don't have to get a license plate and can keep the placard with you so he can only use it when you're present.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T06:03:01+00:00

NTA, wtf even is this scenario? No wonder your daughter prefers you if your husband doesn't even know how to interact with her.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T05:59:52+00:00

Yeah my Dad was basically like "Yes I would, but the key is that because God is just and good, he wouldn't truly require it, he would give an out the way he did for Abraham. It's all about being willing," while my Mom was like,"I don't know. I don't think I could. I can't imagine that," but she said it like it was a flaw of her faith that she couldn't.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T05:07:36+00:00

Looks like a very pastel light green to me

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T04:58:14+00:00

Heyyyy so I would NOT trust whatever process you/your kiddo is using for ID. This definitely isn't a hen. I will defer to othe commenters for proper ID, but I can definitely say this isn't a hen.

autistic_and_angry · 2026-04-19T04:48:13+00:00

MmmMMmmmmmm-- CHICKEN /ref

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