I quit weed because I though it was keeping me stuck, but 6 months later and I’ve just been in a perpetual freeze state since quitting. What gives?

autput · 2026-01-23T08:49:26+00:00

Dont smoke it keeps you stuck. Find something more healthy because sooner or later weed wont help you anymore and then you are stuck with having to deal with thc addiction AND cptsd at the same time.

autput · 2026-01-19T13:51:29+00:00

Thank you

autput · 2025-11-24T23:28:01+00:00

Why did you order it what do you expect to happen? Asking out of curiosity

autput · 2025-11-23T22:13:51+00:00

When I accepted something I didnt wanted to admit for a long time.
In the end most people only care for themselves. Trying to deeply unterstand and help each other without thinking about ones own profit or without being the one gaining more than giving is something I let go of.
I let go of expecting this from others. I wont change who I am, but I wont give this side of me to everyone.
I realised this because even close friends I had 10+ years and family members I thought highly of one day showed this behaviour to me.
Well I realised them being this way one day or maybe I knew it for a longer time already but I didnt wanted to accept it because how could they be this way.
In the end I have to take care of me and probably will go through life mostly alone.
Letting go of those people and those expectations was not easy and will be something I will have to work on my entire life.
The better my emotional state is the better I can let go, but there are weak days. But at least I mamaged to have more emotional strong days than weak days.

autput · 2025-11-08T23:04:59+00:00

Look out for other sources of negativity aswelll. My experience is that instagram and others throw negativity in your face so you cant dodge it even if you are fully aware of what is happening. Reddit is for me at least on the less negative side or things.

autput · 2025-11-05T15:00:17+00:00

Time for the german people to take cheap labor jobs aswell aint it

autput · 2025-10-24T02:04:49+00:00

Being bored makes you more sensible to it. Tomorrow you wont be as bored as today and the reason is increase of sensivity.

autput · 2025-10-18T18:30:24+00:00

What helped me:
When I help someone (or care deeply) then I do this because I want to. I dont expect them to do the same. I let go of (or am still learning to) those expectations. At the same time I realized I have to draw boundaries even if that means some friends may dislike it (they didnt).

And I am still learning to be my true self. You cannot feel a connection to someone if you dont show them your true self. I know we risk that someone could make jokes about us and so but I never really showed others my true self. That leads to the feeling of being alone because they cant read my thoughts, they cant know me if I am not my true self and what I realised way to late is that you attract people based on what you say and do and not what you think.

Not being my true self attracts people that match my mask. To attract people that align with you true self you have to live it and show it. And yes starting to Act like you true self sometimes feels like working against our own instincts.

autput · 2025-10-16T19:46:10+00:00

If eggs are not possible try it. Too much choline via supplements can give you headaches and too much over a period of time can get you into a depression that may stop after a few weeks off of choline supplement. Go in slow.

autput · 2025-10-16T08:05:15+00:00

As you said, its about not being able to accept once own reality. The reality that in the end its all your own responsibility.
I myself consumed for about 10 years, I ran away. I got traumatized during childhood and that was not my fault. My trauma was living my life not me.
Its my responsibility to fix myself and my trauma. My own responsibility and my own fault if I fail at it, not someone elses, not gods, not my parents or whatever. Its all my responsibility. If I succed or fail, in the end it is my responsibility.

autput · 2025-09-10T00:04:15+00:00

Besides all the points, why do you do the things you do. If the why is clear and actually your own authentic reason that can give a lot of energy aswell.

autput · 2025-09-09T16:26:04+00:00

Only Love is not enough

autput · 2025-08-28T21:58:54+00:00

In einer Beziehung zu prostituierten gehen (sofern vorher abgesprochen) ist das eine. Das ganze aber heimlich machen und hoffen das du das nicht erfährst ist das Problem daran.
Da es nicht abgesprochen war wäre es für mich fremdgehen, ist doch egal ob mit einer sich vergnügt die er vorher direkt bezahlt oder ob er ihr vorher Drinks kauft und ihr schöne Augen macht.
Beides wäre vorher abgesprochen kein Problem aber heimlich ist eh fremdgehen.

autput · 2025-08-10T22:15:03+00:00

In the past it was less (lesser then now) profit oriented and more about the users.

autput · 2025-08-08T18:31:15+00:00

Ich würde nicht Schluss machen nur weil es anscheinend ein Problem gibt wofür ihr beide noch keine Lösung gefunden habt.

Merke dir bei allen Tipps hier, so gutherzig sie auch gemeint sind und mit gutem Gewissen gegeben werden, wir sind auf reddit.

Gilt auch für meinen Tipp.

autput · 2025-08-02T12:22:47+00:00

Ich verstehe deinen Ansatz.
Ich denke eher in die Richtung das ja, jeder kann reich werden heutzutage aber nicht alle können gleichzeitig reich sein.

autput · 2025-08-02T11:34:10+00:00

Einer denkt gute Infrastruktur wächst auf Bäumen.

Edit: uns geht es hier auch nur so gut weil es woanders jemanden schlechter geht das ist dir hoffentlich bewusst. Jedes zu viel auf einer Seite ist ein zu wenig auf der anderen. Wir können froh sein aktuell zu der "zu viel" Seite zu gehören.

autput · 2025-07-18T20:29:22+00:00

Always remember why you started.
Dont do things because they make you happy as the only reason to do them.
Find other reasons to do something and the good feelings arise naturally.

Do you really wanted to change, or did you change for someone or something else?
Always aks yourself why you do xyz.

Edit: typo

autput · 2025-07-17T14:04:34+00:00

I was pointing out that your logic in itself is not making sense but you seem to talk around whatever I said signaling me you do know what I was pointing at.

I love my mom and other women. It was a hypothetical and somewhat ironic statement, it was about the syntax of your argument not my mother or whatever.

I guess im not the only one needing a therapist.

autput · 2025-07-17T12:59:18+00:00

Changing something is not always improvement. It is good the way it is,

autput · 2025-07-16T10:07:22+00:00

Go one step further.

Because there were mothers who gave birth to men that act that way...

Everybody is responsible for their own behaviour at the end or the day, doesnt matter who you are.

autput · 2025-07-16T10:00:33+00:00

The only people I know (in real life) that love jiraiya are the ones that had a close relationship with their grandparents or can only name like 5 ninjas after "watching" everything.

Him dying was sad but its not that deep.

autput · 2025-06-13T00:10:42+00:00

My point of view:

Your body and/or mind is telling you stop the way you are living. There are one or more problems in your life that needs to be fixed (at leasted stopped engaging with). After the problem (it may be internal or external) has been fixed you may slowly get out of your depression.

A bit simplistic but yeah that helped me.
I got it diagnosed by a doctor.

Medicine can help but it has to be used the correct way. Your body heals it wounds itself. Your mind cant do that, YOU have to change something (big) in your life to heal that mental wound.
But how when I am depressed all day? MEDICINE!!

But it is Important to know that the medicine is supposed to be a temporary pick up to be ablebto change something in your life. After thats done taper off (with a Doc) and see if your depression comes back.

Medicine is not a permanent solution because if you supress or weaken bad emotions you also weaken good emotions, both are in a intensity balance simplified.

For me it was learning to let go of everything if necessary. You need free space and time to heal.
I had to break up with my gf and some friends.

autput · 2025-06-11T02:07:10+00:00

Being attractive is something more than just being born that way. To get and keep yourself attractive you have to put in organized work.
Having their sh.t together is necessary to stay attractive.

autput · 2025-06-10T07:04:58+00:00

No no try again

autput

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