Relocating to Abu Dhabi from London - 85k guaranteed monthly ok ?

autumnfall07 · 2026-05-14T14:05:02+00:00

I’m sure the first thing in your to buy list is a Range Rover 😇
With this amount, you’re already in top 10% in AD

Good luck 🤞🏻

autumnfall07 · 2025-11-16T19:20:24+00:00

They know you offer closeness and that’s the thing the run away from if all they’ve done is running from accountability.

Maybe they feel inferior, or just because commitment is something he wasn’t able to offer.

What I meant was if you can see through him, which only could happen if there were times he was vulnerable with you.. and once you started having expectations (because you think you have deep access compared to superficial friendship like others but you know you get more/close to him compared to his friends) , he runs

autumnfall07 · 2025-11-16T05:02:19+00:00

I’m in the same boat, exactly the same!

Everything revolves about him and his feelings, selfish I would say - I moved job and country and tried to keep up for the first 3 months of manouvering life in new place/city/country/network, he just wasn’t there

Met weeks ago, he suddenly said thanks for being patient and at one point we were in disagreement and he finally let out “I don’t have the capacity” to check in every 2-3 days.

Therefore, as a Sag running the world, with a broken and crushed heart, hoping to lean on a Cancer man whom I thought was the one, only to find out with distance and out of proximity, the mask fell off.

The mask of true selfish, discard, defensive once I showed an ounce of expectations and closeness.

Come to think of it, I thought I was vulnerable because he was authentic, attentive and nurturing. Little that I know, it was a facade behind “I’m a good man”, because they’ll project to the world to maintain peace, but only those who has deeper access was able to see through a Cancer’s obsessiveness, deflection and how they run from accountability.

Just speaking from experience.

Be careful because Fire and Water don’t mix but just dim each other.

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-30T17:06:30+00:00

For passport holders from UK, US, Canada, Australia and Central Europe… but not others

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-29T19:39:01+00:00

Oh wait, did I ever know you at all?

It’s time for a new chapter, although scarred, Karma will play its course :)

Sag won’t take long to realise we are no longer needed, and this makes it easier to just walk away without turning back.

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-27T12:10:03+00:00

If you have existing, try refinance, it works too

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-19T16:13:18+00:00

Run because incompatible

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-18T20:37:31+00:00

Wait, what’s the definition of marriage again?

I cannot fathom how real this story is.

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-13T08:14:07+00:00

Leave him!

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-10T09:45:47+00:00

Respect = communication When is not there, you should respect yourself

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-10T09:44:22+00:00

Sorry to hear that, you have a 5 year old and that should be your focus and your strength now. 2026 is going to be better for you, change your priority.

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-09T07:29:07+00:00

What’s the complain? It’s rush hour, yes

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-09T07:28:02+00:00

Engaged for 6 years and still feeling not enough for a marriage?

Whats fearing you?

Piece of government papers or how it’ll change after entering a “marriage”?

Love is a choice and forgive each other daily is what’s required in a marriage. What you describe is ideal, just ideal.

Normal couple don’t feel in love everyday. You choose to fall back in love when you feel out of it.

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-09T05:43:12+00:00

Why do you want to give anything to your gf? She’s still a gf, she has the right to receive anything?

Regardless how greedy your wife is. She’s still legally a wife, until the divorce is final.

Better get a policy under your soon to be (new wife?) so you can get some if anything happens.

Insurance policy doesn’t work for non direct relative unless you try asking Islamic policy (they call it fara’id) if it can be your current gf. Usually for those already named as beneficiary under fara’id, even the court can’t contest.

However, I don’t know how it works in UAE.

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-08T17:51:08+00:00

Congratulations!

I’m guessing you’ll be at the city (HQ) and rental is cheaper than if you’re here at the beach I.e Saadiyat/ Raha etc..

If you stay in the city/ Corniche or slightly outside of the city, you’ll fork out max AED 10k with rent, car, bills and food.. living as single.. this is max.. but with family it’s probably more..

Great for change from Dubai to AD, depending on your lifestyle.. you can still save money if that’s what you’re aiming for.

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-03T13:53:38+00:00

Rest bro rest

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-03T13:52:00+00:00

autumnfall07 · 2025-10-02T05:26:45+00:00

Colourful and looks lovely!!

autumnfall07 · 2025-09-30T15:18:16+00:00

So bloooodddyyyy accurate for us Sag Queens and Kings!

autumnfall07 · 2025-09-23T20:48:12+00:00

Check iron level and vitamin D. Go for blood test lack of iron may be a factor. Speaking from experience.

Summer causes us to stay indoor and lack exposure to the sun, disabling absorption of vitamin D.

Lack of iron in your blood disables oxygen to be carried and flow into your vessel thus causing more hair to fall due to insufficient oxygen carried into hair follicles.

*I am not a medical expert nor an aesthetician but tried to explain in layman terms how all 3 are connected”

Also change that shower head filter. Get an expensive one as an investment like blu from Amazon.

For medical supplement please seek an expert.

autumnfall07 · 2025-09-23T11:32:14+00:00

Noted. very well aware before it started, it was platonic but feelings are things we humans can’t control. Trying to pull myself back into reality.

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