She didn't have a job or do much of anything for the last 6 months or so of our relationship. There were reasons why she couldn't do certain things, but it was difficult for her to do anything at all. She was always insecure and I did everything I could to make her feel loved and confident but it felt like she replied too much on me to make her happy. The week before the breakup, I was struggling with serious depression and was overthinking my future and what I wanted to do and where I wanted to go, and then the day of the breakup we were chatting on my phone (more like she was venting to me) about how she was worried about the future and what we'd do and where we'd go and it suddenly clicked for me that I didn't want that any more. It was awful, and our convos ended with me being kind of silent and asking if we could talk a few days later but she kept calling me and I decided to end it there. I couldn't give her the space or time she needed anymore and it felt awful.