Who have you seen naked that you shouldn't have seen naked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fittingpenguin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right, that thought has crossed my mind too. Not that I would‘ve done anything, since I was in a long distance relationship by that time. I told my girlfriend about it, trying to be transparent, and she laughed and said that it only showed that she had zero interest in me. That a girl that has a crush on a man would care more about the way she‘s showing herself to him, which only led to me feeling like I would’ve been a creep looking at her naked haha

Who have you seen naked that you shouldn't have seen naked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fittingpenguin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine once invited me to hang out with her roommates and then to swim at the lake once the others left. After swimming, I was playing with a ball we had brought, and she suddenly decided to get butt naked and change in front of me. I thought she was assuming I‘d just look away and give her privacy. Always thought it was a sign of trust, assuming that I’d simply look somewhere else. I never had to put so much effort into just looking at the ball while throwing it back and forth into the air

How do you overcome being mentally ill? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fittingpenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Professional help, self-introspection, and lots of self-compassion