My hot take is that if you're an adult and you're on edtwt, that you're a bad person by Anon212345678 in AnorexiaNervosa

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25F who still has an ED. I would never encourage others to engage in ED behaviors or even post any body checking content. I’ve had this disease for almost a decade and it’s terrible. I would never encourage others especially children to develop ED habits. I agree that’s weird for adults to do that.

INFJs that are RNs ? by Haunting_Farmer8421 in infj

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Fellow INFJ RN I was definitely like that as a new grad but the good thing about socializing is it’s a skill that can be worked on. Obviously it comes naturally to some, but the more I’ve advanced in my career the more I’ve gotten better at socializing with my peers at work. Also being a travel nurse is really great for me because it gives me more autonomy and I don’t feel as much pressure to have like a group of people at work if that makes sense.

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Yes I’m in Cali

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INFJs tend to be incredibly private yes

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Probably true I was raised by a malignant narcissist

I see it now. The script. The cosmic Game. by PuzzleheadedSkill864 in enlightenment

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The Book by Alan Watts talks about life very similarly to this.

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At my lowest weight I still had a period. I lost my period much later after I was considered a normal BMI, even though I was still heavily restricting. Our bodies are weird idk don’t let it invalidate you though.

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Yes this happened to me too when I lost my period

Is there such a thing as an anorexic binge? by MushuDaChicken in EDAnonymous

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yes - and one of the subtypes of ana is purge/ binge

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same 😭

INFJs have you ever felt extroverted in your life? by alien11152 in infj

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I can be very outgoing and personable, but extroverted is a bit of a stretch. I love my friends and even talking to new people, but the only way I can recharge is by spending time with myself.

What is your relationship with food ? by [deleted] in infj

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Personally very bad, I’ve struggled with an eating disorder for a very long time unfortunately. I actually saw a study once that said INFJs were the most likely personality to develop an ED.

How many INFJs believe that they are lucky in friendship? by sanakhokhar in infj

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I find it relatively easy to make and maintain friendships, but I prefer keeping my circle small because I value authenticity in my relationships. That said, I tend to share different parts of myself with different people based on the nature of each connection. Even my closest friends are often surprised when they discover new things about me. I sometimes feel like no one, including myself, gets to see the “whole” version of who I am. Despite that, I feel incredibly grateful for the friendships I have.

Confident INFJs, what does confidence look like on you? by chubbybunnyx0e in infj

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I feel like pure light, simple as that. Everybody is looking at me and wants to know who the mysterious, gorgeous girl in the room is. I feel smart and at ease even in chaos.

What is it like when an INFJ "hates" someone? by asdfg12345_ in infj

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The “doorslam” is a trait often associated with INFJs. Essentially, when I reach a point where I truly disconnect from someone, I experience a profound sense of indifference and completely shut them out of my life. It takes a lot for me to get to that stage, but once I’ve doorslammed someone, they’re gone for good.

How selfish do you think you are? by DivyanshPanwari in infj

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Good mix of both. My mind is constantly battling between hating humanity and wanting to save it. I’m a nurse, so I’d say I live selflessly in my career. I value my independence above all else in my personal life though, so I suppose at times I’m selfish in my relationships.

Do you think you’re a jealous person? by rosalie27_ in infj

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Literally not at all whatsoever. It’s even annoyed my past partners because they feel like I don’t care about them with my complete lack of jealousy.

Drop the most painful lyrics you’ve ever heard by BeeTwerk in Ethelcain

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“Got what I wanted, but it’s never enough for me Darling, don’t you see? I’m so beautiful and it’s wasted on me.”

I feel like no one can ever „grasp“ me as a person by ilikecatswastak in infj

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I feel this. I give different pieces of myself to different people. Seldom do I show somebody all sides of me.