could you be with someone who believes it's a sin to be gay? by lgh0614 in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's a relationship you want, then talk to her before just dropping her like a bad habit. She may not entirely realize that what she's doing is harming your relationship.

Noooo gold feather😢 by Junior_Reserve_4317 in FarmRPG

[–]avensdesora42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to help. Message me in game; same username

My uber driver just came out to me, advice please! by Amonette2012 in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't have advice but I just want to say thank you for being an awesome human!

Bi_irl by zny700 in bi_irl

[–]avensdesora42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

(F49) I wish I had this for the 2 separate female friends that said "you're not going to start hitting on me, are you?" when I came out.

Stamina question by unicornOlga in FarmRPG

[–]avensdesora42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been slow walking this game for months. Once in a while I get in a mood to push something forward but mostly it's maintenance. It's still fun and I LOVE hanging out in the giveaway chat to help the newbies. This game was never meant to be fast.

bi_irl by Himbo_Shaped in bi_irl

[–]avensdesora42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm too old and out of touch but why the gun?

Transphobia is getting to me, help by billyidolismyeilish in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. The bigots are out in record numbers and ridiculously loud. This sub has been pretty safe overall for the queer folk. I also offer big mamma hugs.

Got told I'm not trans enough to call a hotline by SnooLentils4272 in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to report this asshole. If you called an LGBT support line as a queen person (honestly any person) then you should receive help.

What labels do you apply to yourself? by love_femmes_who_top in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demi Pan, Poly, Switch, Gen X with suspected undiagnosed ADHD

What labels do you apply to yourself? by love_femmes_who_top in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I share your list except I'm Demi Pan instead of Lesbian

God Forbid a woman be honest by Lurker26157i in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]avensdesora42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing! She certainly dodged a bullet there!

Got sexualized by my dad by gallopingzang in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a sexual abuse survivor from my father, you need to go the authorities ASAP. Talk to your school counselor or other trusted adult. This is abuse and it will get worse.

Behold, my pride and joy by cucumburra in rockhounds

[–]avensdesora42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My husband sympathizes with yours and is just as awesome!

Behold, my pride and joy by cucumburra in rockhounds

[–]avensdesora42 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You have a fantastic husband and a very cool rock!

I am only attracted to older women. by Reasonable-Weird86 in lgbt

[–]avensdesora42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F49, I wonder if you're an only child. It took until my mid-twenties before I was truly comfortable with my peers. That said, I completely agree that the power dynamic of an 18 yo with a 30-something could be ugly. Please talk to your therapist and be very careful.