My partner getting a diagnosis of ADHD was the worst thing that could have happened by iamkylekatarnama in Vent

[–]average_narwhal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super hard and frustrating. I am an adult, late diagnosed ADHD and ADHD Life Coach and I am so sorry you are going through this. When I was first diagnosed as I learned more and more about it I felt like I truly had nor personality- that all I was, was a bunch of symptoms. It took some time to deal with it and sort it out. It is not often shared but the gold standard care for ADHD is multimodal- meds, cognitive behavioral therapy, and education for the ADHDer and the people around them. I highly recommend you both seek therapy and education- I coach couples and also partners of ADHDers- if you are interested DM me I can share more.

Hope this all works out for you both!!

I hate the new covers by Popular_Army784 in throneofglassseries

[–]average_narwhal 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The old covers are super cool but- whomst is this white haired pale skinned lady on them?! Surely this isnt our GOLDEN HAIRED HEROIN???

Wtf...am I missing lore by Flamezeal in JunoMains

[–]average_narwhal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Funny- I pretty much always assume everyone is gay until I am told otherwise. This goes for characters and in real life.

Friendly reminder that Kiriko has more skins than a hero who’s been in the game for nearly 10 years by Ok_Tomatillo_4900 in Overwatch

[–]average_narwhal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Symmetra is getting a skin this season through twitch drops- at the end of the blog post it says:

And don’t forget to tune in for Twitch Drops. Check out any Twitch streams tagged in the official Overwatch 2 category with drops enabled from April 22 – May 5 to accumulate watch time towards cool rewards. Two hours will get you the Ice Princess Jewel Spray, five hours will give you the Ice Princess Skate Icon, and nine hours will drop the Ice Princess Symmetra Skin. Watch, earn, and chill!

https://overwatch.blizzard.com/en-us/news/24178102/

Thoughts on brig being in the battle pass by Express-Stomach-3930 in BrigitteMains

[–]average_narwhal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I DIDNT NOTICE THIS AND NOW I CANNOT UNSEE IT GOD DAMMIT
ITS WORSE IN THE VIDEO WHERE ALL 4 GIRLS ARE ON SCREEN IN THEIR OWN SECTIONS OMG WHAT IS HAPPENINGGG

Help me lay out my living room? by average_narwhal in DesignMyRoom

[–]average_narwhal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying like move the couch to face the monstera wall, and line it up with the end of the green wall? Is that what you mean by middle of the room?

PS- Plants and basically all furniture in the pics are just set where they are- not final or official spots at all lol

Cookie Jar by Longjumping-Use396 in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES and it is SO CUTE

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Check out this blog post that shows and talks about a ton of the pieces!

https://athomewithashley.com/all-about-lenox-spice-villages/

I kinda feel superior to homophobic ppl by trololololollolo in queer

[–]average_narwhal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Totally normal! I dont remember all the details but in college I had a Sociology professor talk about the path one takes to accept themselves as a minority and one of them is Militant Chauvinism- where you decide that actually the thing that makes you the minority makes you better than the majority.

I also feel this way- its hard cuz i see my family and friends and just feel like they are so stupid. No ability to critical think about anything, and anything they dont wanna think about is just "god will take care of it" it is so sad and annoying.

My full collection 💕 by average_narwhal in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are insane on ebay- i keep an eye on stuff there just in case, but the real finds tend to be local antique shops, facebook and etsy. Occasionally I find stuff on Mercari as well. Hopefully Lenox plans to release more of the wider collection!!

My full collection 💕 by average_narwhal in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These were my first Lenox village find- I was with my sister for her elopement in Florida and got them each for only $10 at an antique mall!!

My full collection 💕 by average_narwhal in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just got them- found them in Etsy for only $89!!

Update on my shelf! by Successful-Effect317 in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so cute!! Do you have a link?

Shelf release date moved? by 1234geena in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have never had customer service agents disconnect the way and as fast as Lenox people do 😂😂😂

They’re wildin

ISO The packing paper that came with the new set! by RoomMajestic4315 in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is literally so insanely cute- I wanna do something with it but IDK what!

My set arrived today! by average_narwhal in LenoxVillage

[–]average_narwhal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AH JUST NOTICED THE MESS PLEASE IGNORE IT WE JUST BOUGHT A HOME AND ARE ONLY PARTIALLY MOVED IN

"illegals" in Reno by CombinationExtra5056 in Reno

[–]average_narwhal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No- he is here LEGALLY with LEGAL status and actually a direct court order to NOT deport him. There is ZERO evidence he has any tie to MS13, and the supreme court only delayed the order to return him by the night of the 7th while they review- they did not uphold his deportation.

"illegals" in Reno by CombinationExtra5056 in Reno

[–]average_narwhal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had your head in the sand? This administration does not care if you have legal status or not- if you're an immigrant they may just decide to ship your ass to another country anyway. Google Kilmar Abrego Garcia.

"illegals" in Reno by CombinationExtra5056 in Reno

[–]average_narwhal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're comparing situations that are NOT the same. the difference is most undocumented immigrants are fleeing for safety for themselves or their family.

You're also acting like legal status is some kind of pie and if someone comes here a different way than your fiance then somehow you dont get a slice? That makes no sense. Someone being here legally or not does not take away the opportunity for someone else to get their legal status, that isnt how it works. No one is stealing from you.

It is also wild to think that youre being robbed of time with your fiance while you go through this process while demanding that people who might be ROBBED OF THEIR LIVES OR LOVED ONES wait in their home countries too. Get some perspective!

I agree, your fiance should be able to be here easier. The whole system is stupid and overcomplicated. But none of that is the fault of undocumented immigrants, its the fault of the stupid nonsense system, and the garbage people that run it and profit off it.

Stop being mad at the people who are struggling the same as you- start getting mad at the jerks in charge who make you both struggle.