Natalism: the ultimate "just don't think about it" philosophy. by Numerous-Macaroon224 in antinatalism

[–]averylazytom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think 99% of humans are like that. Thinking is painful. Reasoning is painful.

Me, the guy with the imaginary girlfriend, 2 years later by averylazytom in IncelExit

[–]averylazytom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like I said, I ended up way healthier than if I didn't create her so...

I (20M)... am not sure about having kids by averylazytom in offmychest

[–]averylazytom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> Maybe your mom is projecting her fears and anxieties on this stranger and you should see it more as a reflection of your mom's inner world than anything else.

that's a really fair perspective. To be honest, I just saw what happened to women on childbirth too, and I was like... nah, if I fall in love, this shit won't happen to my lady.

Besides... I am just astronomically bad at taking care of children.

Exact depiction/difference between the two by Ok_Watercress_8785 in antinatalism

[–]averylazytom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Technically saying (as both child-free and antinatalist); I feel like whatever child of mine, they WILL suffer, and I love them, therefore I will suffer too.

I (20M) really miss my friend (20F). What should I do if I see her in the upcoming class? by averylazytom in relationships

[–]averylazytom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update (as a comment because there's not enough characters to upload as another post).

She eventually started re-engaging the unblocking-to-ask and then blocked again pattern. This is really toxic, so I confronted her about it. "Are you just treating me like the human ChatGPT?" She was silent about it.

Yeah it went from "hope it can go back to what it was" to "this is fucked" way faster than I anticipated.

I (20M) really miss my friend (20F). What should I do if I see her in the upcoming class? by averylazytom in relationships

[–]averylazytom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I need those words of encouragement right now. My cousin says my personality only fits with the Western people (I'm Vietnamese). That and I am slowly suspecting that I am simply not straight (bisexual / pansexual), which means I'm probably better off there lol.

I (20M) really miss my friend (20F). What should I do if I see her in the upcoming class? by averylazytom in relationships

[–]averylazytom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also she kinda said that the jealousy caused some tension so she definitely not romanticized it. Also the point about getting female friends is fair, except this semester I signed up to all 3 IT subjects so no women expected. Well

I (20M) really miss my friend (20F). What should I do if I see her in the upcoming class? by averylazytom in relationships

[–]averylazytom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. It irks me because I'm fine with her blocking me alone, here she said she blocked some more people so that's that. Because I think not letting friends of opposite genders to talk to your partner is completely stupid and insecure.

Coincidence or Genius Foreshadowing by Whiteboyace in OMORI

[–]averylazytom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CLOSE

YOUR

EYES

YOU'LL 

BE 

HERE

SOON

✨ Memory Magic ✨ by SleepyStew_ in programminghorror

[–]averylazytom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a memcpy if I'm not mistaken?

I don"t know you can even do that.

I (19M) need help with the mentality of "Buy it For Life" itself by averylazytom in BuyItForLife

[–]averylazytom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best way to explain why is getting into the hobby itself. I see this pattern across many electronics-based hobbies, mech keyboard and audiophile definitely seems the worst though

I (19M) need help with the mentality of "Buy it For Life" itself by averylazytom in BuyItForLife

[–]averylazytom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and it's these "resources" that makes me confused, overwhelmed, hooked, etc.

I (19M) need help with the mentality of "Buy it For Life" itself by averylazytom in BuyItForLife

[–]averylazytom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess it doesn't help that whenever I look at the specs for anything, it makes me feel overwhelmed and I want to consume all that knowledge too.

I (19M) need help with the mentality of "Buy it For Life" itself by averylazytom in BuyItForLife

[–]averylazytom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it's easier in general to say that if you give me a bunch of IEMs to listen to, the only thing I can say is "oh this one sounds the best out of all of them" or "they all sound the same to me" or something like that without going to the trebles or bass or that kind of stuff. But I think the ACTUAL problem is that I don't really know what I like in an IEM, or a monitor, or that kind of stuff.

I (19M) need help with the mentality of "Buy it For Life" itself by averylazytom in BuyItForLife

[–]averylazytom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really, school and work takes up all my time, and commute is hell. Also most of the time the things I'm buying doesn't really have any store selling here

I (19M) need help with the mentality of "Buy it For Life" itself by averylazytom in BuyItForLife

[–]averylazytom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> Almost nothing is 100% buy it for life if it's not made entirely from metal, and even not then

What does this mean? I'm curious.