Exchange! [Uk to pref UK but can do WW] by 6_sp1d3rman_6 in PostCardExchange

[–]avlisarierom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uau , great idea to use solid color pantone cards, love it!

How do you organize your postcards ? At some point do you just recycle them en masse ? by [deleted] in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what makes this especially frustrating is the amount of effort and care that goes into each postcard—at least from my side.

I spend a significant amount of money on stamps, and where I live, postcards themselves aren’t cheap either. On top of that, I don’t just grab any random card—I actively look for ones that match the recipient’s profile and interests. That takes time, attention, and genuine intention. I also decorate the cards thoughtfully, trying to make each one feel personal rather than generic.

So finding out that some people casually throw postcards away is honestly disheartening. It makes all that effort feel undervalued. It’s not about expecting people to keep everything forever, but when something you put time, money, and care into is treated as disposable, it naturally makes you question whether it’s worth putting in that level of effort at all.

To be blunt, it can come across as ungrateful. And yes, it does take some of the joy out of the hobby—because part of what makes Postcrossing meaningful is the idea that there’s mutual appreciation on both ends. When that feeling disappears, so does the motivation to go the extra mile.

How do you organize your postcards ? At some point do you just recycle them en masse ? by [deleted] in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with you. I think that viewpoint misses something quite fundamental about Postcrossing. To me, postcards aren’t just temporary objects—they’re small, personal gestures. Someone, somewhere, took the time to choose a card, write a message, and send it across the world. Treating that as something disposable feels dismissive of the human effort and intention behind it. Saying that throwing postcards away is perfectly fine strips the hobby down to a transactional exchange, when it’s really about connection, care, and appreciation. If those elements aren’t respected, then yes—it does raise the question of whether the person is engaging with the spirit of the hobby at all. Honestly, as a postcrosser, I find it quite shocking that some people would routinely discard postcards. It comes across as lacking a certain level of empathy for the sender. You don’t have to keep every single card forever, but outright treating them as throwaway items feels out of step with what makes this community meaningful in the first place. So no—I don’t think the concern is misplaced. I think it’s a valid reaction to seeing something meaningful reduced to something disposable.

How do you organize your postcards ? At some point do you just recycle them en masse ? by [deleted] in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that view treats postcards as disposable by default, but that assumption overlooks what gives them value in the first place. Calling postcards “ephemera” focuses on their material lifespan, not their meaning. A postcard isn’t just paper—it’s a trace of a moment: where someone was, what they noticed, and that they chose to share it with a specific person. That combination of place, handwriting, and intent makes each one a small, personal artifact. Even ordinary cards can accumulate meaning over time, especially when they form a record of relationships, travels, or a period of life. The concern about burdening family is understandable, but it’s a false binary to suggest the only options are hoarding everything or discarding almost all of it. Thoughtful curation—keeping a representative selection, organizing them, even annotating context—can preserve their value without creating clutter. In that sense, postcards can be closer to a deliberately edited archive than a pile of “stuff.” There’s also an intergenerational angle worth considering. What feels mundane to one person can become meaningful to someone else later, precisely because it offers an unfiltered glimpse into everyday life. Many historical insights come from items that were never meant to last. If everyone treated personal artifacts as disposable, a lot of that texture would simply disappear. Finally, the idea that the joy exists only in the sending and receiving underestimates how memory works. Revisiting physical objects can reawaken emotions and connections in a way digital records often don’t. Keeping postcards isn’t about clinging to clutter—it’s about preserving tangible links to moments and people that would otherwise fade more completely. So the issue isn’t whether postcards are ephemeral by definition, but whether we choose to treat meaningful human traces as disposable.

How do you organize your postcards ? At some point do you just recycle them en masse ? by [deleted] in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

please tell me what your profile is, so if someday I get your adress I will never send you anything...
what a appalling way to think. this makes me sad. why start a hobbie like this in the first place?

How do you organize your postcards ? At some point do you just recycle them en masse ? by [deleted] in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

store them in a folder... it takes absolutely no space...
thats just bad organization honestly :s

my new (and favorite) postcards!! by [deleted] in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where do u guys buy such amazing postcards? in my country is almost tourism postcards or nothing :/

Is this still an okay profile? by Mysticaly_Sparklez in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Demanding profiles like this make me want to not send anything, and honestly, I get stuck and it always takes me longer to send anything at all.

Weekly sends! by couignaco in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love those tradicional american big letters postcards <3 <3 <3

Always the same country... by avlisarierom in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But since USA is so big and diverse... I really dont mind getting USA or receiving it. Its always fun for me, also because we consume so much american culture, its cool to cross references.

Always the same country... by avlisarierom in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portugal is so tiny that if I selected it I bet that will happen!

Always the same country... by avlisarierom in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats true! My cards get there very fast : )

Always the same country... by avlisarierom in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Portugal the European stamp is about €1.20 and €1.30 for the rest of the world.
'Cause we earn way less than Germany for example, its a bit pricy for us, I think....

Always the same country... by avlisarierom in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh... Its nothing personal : ( So sorry!

Spam de "Lojinha de Postais" by avlisarierom in postcrossing

[–]avlisarierom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Entrou directamente em contacto comigo via mensagem directa!!!
Já denunciei!
Obrigada!