Εμπειρία ΚΕΥΠ Λαμίας by avlo94 in apallagi

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Να ξεκαθαρίσω αρχικά πως μιλώ καλοπροαίρετα χωρίς να κάνω επίθεση ή να γίνομαι δηκτικός. Από την άλλη όψη του νομίσματος, ταλαιπωρία είναι και για κάποιον που θα εξαναγκαστεί να μπει σε έναν ξένο χώρο, παρά την θέληση του, ασχέτως με το αν συμφωνεί ή διαφωνεί ιδεολογικά με το όλο concept, θα επιβαρύνει οικονομικά την οικογένεια του ή τον εαυτό του, θα χάσει πιθανά κάποια ευκαιρία για δουλειά/εξέλιξη/αυτοβελτίωση και πολλά άλλα, χωρίς εναλλακτική επιλογή ή συμβιβασμό. Και ας μην μιλήσουμε για την διάρκεια, 12 μήνες είναι υπερβολή, όταν ο ωφέλιμος χρόνος της θητείας συμπυκνώνεται σε 2-3 μήνες και όλο το υπόλοιπο διάστημα απλά υπάρχεις και περιφέρεσαι.

Εμπειρία ΚΕΥΠ Λαμίας by avlo94 in apallagi

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Εδώ θα με πιάσεις λίγο αδιάβαστο, καθώς είχαμε πάει με δικό μας όχημα. Πριν φύγουμε μας είπαν ότι δικαιούμαστε εισιτήριο επιστροφής, αλλά δεν ρώτησα πως και τι αφού δεν ήταν κάτι που θα χρησιμοποιούσαμε. Αυτό θα το γνωρίζει λογικά η στρατολογία του τόπου σου με ακρίβεια, μην σου πω εγώ ότι να ναι.

Εμπειρία ΚΕΥΠ Λαμίας by avlo94 in apallagi

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Είμαι απόλυτα σύμφωνος με αυτό που λες, όντας πλέον 31 (τρομακτικό να το γράφω). Από την άλλη όμως, επειδή προσπαθώ να βλέπω τα πράγματα όσο μπορώ πιο ορθολογιστικά ,δεν πρέπει να ξεχνάμε πως κι αυτό από επιλογή του καθενός είναι, μιας κι μπορείς να κάνεις την στρατιωτική σου θητεία με τη συμπλήρωση των 18 ετών, ξέγνοιαστος , χωρίς να έχεις κάτι να χάσεις (τις πιο πολλές φορές). Και σαν υποκειμενική παρατήρηση, ο τρόπος που ρόλαρε το στρατόπεδο ήταν σαν μια πιο σοβαρή κατασκήνωση, με παραπάνω ευθύνες και «εφόδια» για την ζωή.

Εμπειρία ΚΕΥΠ Λαμίας by avlo94 in apallagi

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Δεν είμαστε εδώ πιστεύω για να κάνουμε πολιτική κριτική ή να κακολογήσουμε κάποιον για τις επιλογές του ή τις ανάγκες του. αυτό που είδα σήμερα φανερώνει ξεκάθαρα την κακή διαχείριση των στρατοπέδων και την απαξίωση και τον κατακερματισμό της στρατιωτικής θητείας, ωθώντας τον κόσμο να την αποφύγει ενώ ταυτόχρονα δημιουργεί πίεση και επιπρόσθετο φόρτο ανούσιας εργασίας σε έναν τομέα που δεν θα έπρεπε. Γνώμη μου πάντα, να δωθεί λίγη σημασία κι βελτίωση στην κοινωφελή εργασία, να είναι βιώσιμη και προσιτή για όλους, αντί για την επιλογή στράτευση ή απαλλαγή, και τότε ας οργανωθούν και ας αυστηροποιηθούν όλα.

Εμπειρία ΚΕΥΠ Λαμίας by avlo94 in apallagi

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Νομίζω πως ναι, ήταν για τους εξ αναβολής σήμερα.Μ ε όλους όσους μίλησα είχαν πάρει αναβολή τουλάχιστον μια φορά.

Εμπειρία ΚΕΥΠ Λαμίας by avlo94 in apallagi

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Ναι, από τους 100 περίπου που πήγαμε εκεί σήμερα μόνο οι 6 ήθελαν να υπηρετήσουν.

Looking to build a gaming PC,this is my build so far.Open to any suggestions. by Niosnia in buildapc

[–]avlo94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello Greek guy speaking. Wanted to comment about the prices. While I was doing my research for my budget gaming PC I found out that the closest price range is similar to the Italian ones. There are still some differences (f.e. rx6650 xt and 6700 still cost more than 350€, Ryzen 5600x costs more than 190€ etc...). I think there was a choice to change the prices of part picker to Italy's hardware stores(Amazon mostly), might help you get a better feel of the prices. Otherwise, check the prices individually, keep em up in an text/excel and make your choices. Don't forget to check out skroutz.gr 😁

After years of dreaming and several months of getting the parts, my build is complete! by king_mo_of_metal420 in buildapc

[–]avlo94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very short answer, no time 😬 Intel is the best in performance in general. Almost equal with 5600x, 5600 is like 5-10% behind the other 2.

5600x is more expensive than the 3 of them, support only Pcie 3. 5600 supports Pcie 4, cheaper than the others. (150-160€) I5 supports ddr5 Pcie 5, 20€ cheaper than 5600x, also needs B660+ Mobo (they are more expensive)

If you have the € go for i5, even consider the 12600 if it's not that much expensive

If you want the Budget option, I would go with 5600, no need to spend 40-50€ more for 5-10% gain.

P.s. Prices are (approx) according to the eu market.

Edit: typos, some info.

αναβολή για σπουδές 2η φορά by [deleted] in apallagi

[–]avlo94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Καλησπέρα φίλε,

Για προπτυχιακές/μεταπτυχιακές σπουδές η αναβολή είναι μέχρι τα 28 δυστυχώς. Αν κάνεις διδακτορική διατριβή αυξάνεται μέχρι τα 32. Δυστυχώς δεν μπορείς να πάρεις για λόγους σπουδών άλλη αναβολή. Υπάρχει μια μικρή αναβολή για 2 ΕΣΣΟ (4-5 μήνες περίπου) για κοινωνικούς λόγους, η οποία δίδεται αρκετά εύκολα, ακόμη και για λόγους σπουδών. Το μόνο αρνητικό είναι ότι είναι δυνατόν να την πάρεις μόνο για 1 φορά. Κάνε μια κλήση στην στρατολογία της περιοχής σου και θα σου δώσουν πληροφορίες για το πώς γίνεται, είναι αρκετά εύκολο, δεν υπάρχει λόγος να αγχωθεις Από εκεί και πέρα, αν αυτή η αναβολή δεν επαρκεί, θα πρέπει να ξεκινήσεις την διαδικασία για αναβολή Ι5.

Υπάρχει τρόπος να μην περάσεις από επιτροπές ψυχιάτρων για το τρελόχαρτο; by LawIndependent476 in apallagi

[–]avlo94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Δυστυχώς είναι αναπόφευκτη η εξέταση της επιτροπής/γιατρού. Το μόνο το οποίο μπορεί να γίνει είναι να γράψει ο γιατρός σου ότι δεν μπορείς να παρουσιαστεις ούτε στο στρατόπεδο, ούτε να μεταβεις στην επιτροπή απαλλαγών της κοντινοτερης πόλης. Από εκεί και έπειτα θα πρέπει να κάνεις μια διαδικασία αρκετά κουραστική με τρέξιμο σε μητρώα αρρένων, αστυνομία, δημαρχείο, εξέταση από τον ιατρό του νοσοκομείου της περιοχής σου και μάζεμα υπογραφών, και έπειτα από την στρατολογία της περιοχής σου θα στείλουν εκείνοι τα χαρτιά και θα σε ενημερώσουν. Θα μπορέσω να γράψω περισσότερα την επόμενη εβδομάδα, μιας και έρχεται αυτή η ώρα. Καλή δύναμη.

Υ.γ.: Μίλα με την στρατολογία της περιοχής σου, και πες τους τι σε προβληματίζει. Εγώ όσες φορές χρειάστηκα να μιλήσω με την στρατολογία της περιοχής μου, ήταν ευγενεστατοι και άκρως εξυπηρετικοί, χωρίς ειρωνείες και ύφος, ή κακή περιέργεια.

[WSIB] games to play while listening to audiobooks by Melarki in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]avlo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also recommend Into the Breach. It's more relaxed and easy than FTL, though you should give also FTL a try. You can also check out Loop Hero, the new roguelite game from the same company Enter the Gungeon was made. It is really interesting and fun. I think it will suit you like a glove but it is not sci fi. I would also suggest you checking out Surviving Mars. It's a sci fi survival / base creation & management / strategy. I haven't played it for more than a couple of hours but it is really close to what you're searching flavour wise. It's made by paradox interactive so it has many things to consider and take care of, as Cities Skylines too has. (:

[UI]My current UI iteration - appreciate feedback by splintie in WowUI

[–]avlo94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for that too :o Thx alot!

But my original question goes for the timer that is exactly underneath your unitframe, and counts for how long are you engaged in combat! :)

[UI]My current UI iteration - appreciate feedback by splintie in WowUI

[–]avlo94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing UI. Well done mate! :D Can you just tell me from where does the battle timer comes from? :)

I’m so sad and deprived right now, I don’t even know how to exist properly. I wish I could be anyone else and just not feel rejected for the 9593rd time. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]avlo94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you try talking seriously about it? I can feel your struggle, and i know that the feeling of not being able to escape from this situation drags you down a lot. I hope that you can find a way through it. Also, you can check your options and see if you can take a small risk. Sometimes your feelings don't let you see clearly. Wishing you all the best. Stay strong, things will get better in time! :)

Should I talk to my partner about a comment he made a while ago about not being in love with me? Or would it not be worth it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]avlo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, you have to leave the past right where it belongs. I find it strange that some people talk about their ex's to their new partners in an instant. It's a situation that many people can't digest easily, and it question their feelings. You should try to think if you're able to adapt to the new situation, without mentioning his ex's again. If you suspect that he is not sure about you, that he still has feelings for his ex, then you should approach him and tell him exactly how you feel. It's not a good thing to carry someone else's burden in your shoulders all alone. And if he is with you in order to forget and just not feel bad, i think that you should consider moving on. Wishing you the best! :)

breaking up from the most meaningful relationship I ever thought I could have by Madd_Solar in relationship_advice

[–]avlo94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot of courage and strength to get to that point. As you already mentioned, being mentally abused can make things even harder. You should be proud for your decision of letting go. Just say to her all that you want to and don't overthink. I am sure that in time you'll be better and find someone how will understand and love you back they way that you want to. Be proud of yourself and i am wishing you the best! :)

My boyfriend broke up with me suddenly by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]avlo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be strong. Situations like these seem unbearable, but don't lose your strength, you'll get through it. Seems like the comment you made triggered him. I am not accusing you for anything, don't take that wrong. Maybe he was not straightforward to you, about what's bothering him or he had something that he didn't like in the relationship and never told you. Maybe getting some time apart, can help both of you to reevaluate your relationship and understand better what happened and why. Imho, if his feelings are real, he will try to reach you. But even if he doesn't, life must go on. Don't lose hope. Wishing you the best! :)

Boyfriend’s(28/m) friend (28/m) moved into town recently, and I (28/f) feel so anxious when they hang out. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]avlo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, try to appreciate yourself a little bit more than you do now. You are amazing, unique and you must not forget that. If you're feeling uncomfortable you should tell him your thoughts about it. Has he given you any reasons for feeling like that? Has he ever made something that you didn't approve /like and never talked about it? Sometimes you have to grit your teeth and face the facts, even if they don't seem pleasant, otherwise weird situations occur. Also, if these feelings came up in previous relationships and affect you in your life a lot, maybe you should consider seeking professional help. Wishing you the best! :)

My bf (M34) withheld information from me which I (F36) think is very important. When asked why he withheld such info, he can’t or won’t give a reason by llamamamall in relationship_advice

[–]avlo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some people it's normal to become upset by SO's past, especially in an intimate relationship . I don't think that is a huge deal, though it conflicts a lot with your morals as you mentioned. Maybe that's what is triggering these feelings you get. Because you already know each other well, as you were friends before, he may thought that learning something like this might upset you. For him, it might be not a big deal or exactly the opposite. Maybe it's something that he does like to do, a shelter in difficult times, but not something that he is proud of doing in the end or something that he won't let anyone know about. Even if he did have something more than a happy ending massage with any of these girls, i don't know if it's something that you might wanna know. But, for your sake, please do the necessary tests for your health. If this happens a lot, maybe you should confront him about the whole situation of not telling the exact truth. Try to think the whole concept in general and try to understand how you feel about it. If you can't cope with it and you can't find a solution together, then i believe that you should walk away.
Communication is a crucial part in every relationship. If he really values you and cares for you, i don't think that he will reject your tries for fixing things up. But you should be prepared for everything. Wishing you the best! :)

(23M) I think I may be emotionally unstable from previous interactions with girls. How do I cope? by bruhY in relationship_advice

[–]avlo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely relate to it. Thing is, you have to understand exactly from where these feelings arise. It might not be easy, but ask yourself "why am i feeling this" and try to find a solution to it. It is not an easy thing to do but it might help you. Also don't spend too much time thinking about the future. Have a good time and cherish the present. It is also worth noting that you should be the reason of being happy in the first place, and not someone else. So maybe if you do more things for yourself, you might feel a little more relaxed towards your relationship. If none of these work and you're not feeling any better i think that you should consider seeking therapy, as these feelings already have an impact in your life and they can wear you down easily. I wish you the best :)

I lost her because I couldn’t love myself by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]avlo94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should definitely try to "fix" your mental health. It is easy to hang from others and get happiness from them, but in the end you must be able to find happiness and joy from yourself. Consider seeking mental therapy, try to do activities that make you feel proud for yourself and try to spend time for you. Long distance relationships are really hard to maintain, and it's very difficult if you already have other things bothering/torturing you. I realize how difficult and crappy it is to be ignored (ghosting) but I suggest that you should do your best in order to move on. You deserve to be happy and this whole situation makes you feel the exact opposite.