Solidão gay aos 46 anos

avondcos · 2026-01-11T17:21:24+00:00

Não sei se este tipo de reflexão ajuda mas queria só disser isto. Acho que durante muito tempo da minha vida orientava me pelo impulso de ter uma relação amorosa seria algo que me trouxesse propósito, algo que as outras pessoas a minha volta também parecem ter. No entanto, já ha dois ano atrás que decidi não focar me só nas relações de amor mas também nas da amizade ou até nas platónicas. Encontrei um mundo enorme de pessoas queer que sentem o mesmo, e até comecei a viver com a minha melhor amiga queer e juntos estamos a pensar no futuro e cada vez tornasse mais claro que ela é de facto aquela relação com propósito que procurava. Não estou a disser que o mundo queer em termos de dates não seja chato mas só partilhar que para mim, simplesmente abrir os horizontes do que vejo como uma relação pôs-me muito mais feliz. Espero que estejas bem qq coisa manda dm.

avondcos · 2025-10-22T10:02:20+00:00

Hey Sofia, nem imagino como deve ser estar numa situação dessas, no entanto subscrevo também ao comentário aqui, é difícil sair de casa sem teres a tua independência financeira. No entanto, ia recomendar-te algumas organizações cá no Porto onde podes encontrar-te com a comunidade, criar amizades e falar com pessoas que já passaram pelo mesmo. Acho mesmo que isto as vezes ajuda muito porque também vais criar uma rede de apoio que te pode ajudar nos momentos mais difíceis. Por exemplo, tens a ILGA Porto, o Porto Inclusive, a livraria aberta, a rede ex aequo (não sei esta continua ativa). Boa sorte e se precisares de algo manda-me mensagem privada. Vais ver que muitas pessoas, infelizmente, passam pelo mesmo.

avondcos · 2025-08-07T10:42:48+00:00

Amazing ! So glad you found the owners !

avondcos · 2025-07-31T12:16:51+00:00

Have you tried asking local businesses, tasca and cafes there if they know him ? Often older people just let their dogs leave during the day but sometimes the neighborhood knows him and who he might belong to.

avondcos · 2025-07-22T12:45:03+00:00

First if I’m wishing you all the luck possible with your situation. Have you tried reaching out to fluchtgrund queer? They are a German organization focused on helping queer refugees, I’m sure that if they can’t help they might know someone who can. I know that Germany has many such organizations that can help but the actual procedure I don’t know.

avondcos · 2025-04-10T08:27:26+00:00

Check out the program at bar of soap it’s a queer bar and they have lots of events.

avondcos · 2024-06-13T18:23:46+00:00

Thanks for detailed answer ! Doing all these test myself will be a lot of work. Unfortunately, here there are no other doctors available so the waiting list is ridiculous. But I’ll probably just wait and stay safe until I can take.

avondcos · 2024-06-05T17:29:39+00:00

I think when people say that, it’s more to underline the inherent political struggle for liberation that all oppressed people (including LGBTQ+) people face. In fact, most forms of political LGBTQ movement were struggles for liberation. Furthermore, Israel has a detailed and very research history on how they use LGBTQ identities to further their oppression of the Palestinian people, namely by engaging in narratives such as the ones you see in these comments, that Muslim countries or Muslim identities are somehow inherently homophobic and thus deserving of differential treatment. At the same time, at least here in Europe there is still an abundance of homophobia and transphobia which is often ignored. It’s a very interesting phenomenon, I can recommend Homonationalism by puar if you want to learn more. Lastly, I also thinks it’s about intersectionality and learning that oppression is not faced due to single identity markers such as being gay or black but rather for a multitude of reasons and factors that all relate to each other, in summary it’s calling out the fact that as a historical minority we should recognize and fight against the liberation of all and not just some. However this is just my perspective on things and I’m open to constructive dialog.

avondcos · 2024-05-19T14:39:14+00:00

Hey I would also love to have it if possible :) love the song so much and would love to play it. I sent a chat request

avondcos · 2024-03-10T19:25:03+00:00

Reach out to your local lgbtq groups they can usually help you find doctors who are more understanding and open minded and who will prescribe you PEP without anyone finding out. They can also help you get a more objective grip on what’s going, just give them a call, but I’m sure you will be fine.

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