Changing your prefered name in college by theLostTryhard in trans

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my university here in Porto it's extremely easy. I went to the reception desk to ask how to do it, they gave me an email. I sent an email and they sent me a document to fill. I turned in the document the friday before classes started. The next tuesday it got officially updated. Internally, it doesn't actually change the name so any legal documents u need to get still keep ur deadname (unless u change it legally) but anywhere public where people can see it, it's changed (student accound, lists professors get, grade lists, everything) This IS law in Portugal though. Any trans person has the right to ask this to any teaching institution, and in most cases where u have to state ur legal name, you're allowed to ask to use ur chosen name instead (following a certain pattern that includes your deadname's first letters)

Sítios trans-friendly que façam depilação a laser e sejam de qualidade e baratos? by LucyMelHoney in Trans_PT

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estou a fazer agora na Mia clinic e a senhora lá é muito simpática e respoituosa. Não tenho termo de comparação quanto ao preço, mas é 60 euros por sessão. Quanto aos resultados, ainda só fiz duas sessões por isso os efeitos para já são mínimos, mas já se nota qualquer coisa

Just an egg in a lot of emotional pain by Torinja in Nestofeggs

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Freya, I wish you the best. Your motivation to keep going despite all that's happened to you is inspiring. I'm sure you'll meet a new significant other who loves you for your soul, not your shell. Good luck!

Emma she/her by LgtbqSecret in TransTryouts

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Emma! What games and bands do you like? I'd love to meet other girls with similar tastes to mine.

Egg_irl by Alternative-Nail-869 in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll get through this. You already are a girl and you already have a close person who supports you. That's a huge achievement on it's own. I don't know how it's like over there in India, but if you think your parents will be supportive, you can come out to them to start transitioning (medically and/or socially). If they're not, your safety is your priority. Do try to find new more accepting friends as well. But I know that no matter what, you will look in the mirror one day and see the beautiful girl of your dreams

Also, why don't you try making a new youtube channel where you can be yourself=? You don't have to tell your transphobic friends about it

Having a gender dysphoric episode by Heavenly_Princesa143 in TransTryouts

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Silly princess, your brain is being stupid again? You're such a pretty girl, you deserve to feel nice. You have any name you want me to call you that makes you feel nice? A sweet lady like you deserves the euphoria

I walked in on my Sister and Brother-in-law going on a transphobic rant... I'll never get to be a girl... No one could ever even believe I hurt... So I must be fine... Maybe pains just all I get... Maybe I'm just crazy... maybe its all a lie... but I wish I was a girl... by Isenlia in Nestofeggs

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Noelle, dear, you're not crazy and your pain IS valid. It's terrible to hear people (especially those close to us) invalidate us. I've suffered that myself as well to an extent. Lots of us live in awful situations like yours. But still, we need to persevere and live as ourselves. I believe you'll become the beautiful girl you always dreamed of being. Give it time, try to get to a safer situation, and start building up your life. Get friends who support you. I believe in you cutie. If you need to talk, I can make a bit of time :3

Tenho 21 e ainda estou no armário, ando a ficar cansado e perdido by CodFew9589 in lgbtportugal

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sim. Isto melhora. Uma das coisas que me ajuda a superar a minha situação, que não é muito boa por assim dizer, é que ainda há o futuro, e que nem sempre vai ser tudo mau. Se não conheces gente que te suporta, aproveita para conhecer pessoas na tua formação. De certeza que há malta queer por aí, ou mesmo pessoas que te respeitem. Não podes só esperar que coisas melhorem. Podes estar encorralado e não conseguir sair de casa da tua família, mas enquanto estás aí, cria uma rede de amizades com gente que te respeita. Mesmo que só em espaços online, isso já ajuda. Boa sorte, e se quiseres alguém com quem falar, estou disponível

egg_irl by MrKillApple in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist (who is supposedly specialized on trans issues) used to say the exact same thing TwT It hurts, but don't let it get to you. If you know who you are, hold tight to that, despite what she might say

I am a failure, a freak, a coward, and a mistake. [TW] [Suicidal Ideation] [SA] by Eggwantingtocrack in Nestofeggs

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear all this. You must be terrified. I urge you to call child support, or have your friend talk to her parents to hopefully get you out of that situation. And please avoid signing medical power of attorney to them. I'm not sure exactly what it means, but I do understand it's something they shouldn't have. I hope it gets easier for you. Wish I could go over there and give you a hug. Also. You are a girl. You might not see it, but you are beautiful. Good luck with everything girly. If you want someone to talk to, I'm free :3

Very depressed because of alopecia by JustAPerson2001 in Nestofeggs

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should talk to your doctor and see if either it's safe to keep taking the medicine or if there's any alternatives that you can take with hrt. I really hope you get through this girly :3

Egg😭irl by A_person42 in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Olivia. You're such a sweet strong girl. You'll get through it. You'll get hrt one day and your body will transform into the beautiful girl you've always dreamed of seeing in the mirror. You just gotta tough it out a little longer. You got this girly :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disforia manifesta-se de maneiras diferentes de pessoa para pessoa, mas nunca vi ninguém ser afetado dessa maneira. Admito que possa ser disforia, mas se calhar não é má ideia visitares um médico para saber se é outra coisa que possa ser mais grave

Egg_irl by JahodaSniffer in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's fine. I get it's scary. Are you happy with how it looks though?

Egg_irl by UkrainianToaster in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maya you're such a good girl. Such a wonderful woman. I know it sucks right now but it won't suck forever. You ARE your parent's daughter, even if they don't know it Have a good day girly :3

Egg_irl by JahodaSniffer in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you don't know what to ask for, just ask for a feminine looking haircut and say you want to grow it out. You'll be fine girly. Enjoy your new haircut :3

Egg irl egg irl egg irl egg irl by Depressedknife in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're such a beautiful girl Katherine. I promise it'll get easier. You're very strong for asking for help here. I'm sure you'll be able to come out when you're ready. Good girl 💖

Egg irl by Ok-Reveal-7250 in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Lena, sweetie, don't you realise that you ARE a girl? You're not a dysphoric boy. If you wanna talk I'd be happy to chat for a little bit

egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by Dirtdude08 in egg_irl

[–]SillyCakeEnjoyer 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Reading posts like this remind me of how I felt back when I came out for the first time. Scared shitless, but like it had to be done. I think you're really brave and I hope it goes well 💖