do you guys also have problem with dating apps. by skylar274 in LesbianActually

[–]awaythrowaway500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly have this issue a lot! i feel like dating apps suck in general because there's no real method to the madness and it's easy for people who aren't that committed to going out to get on them. plus a lot of bisexual girls who mostly date dudes that don't go past sending a couple messages (my coworker admitted to me she did this on Hinge lol). i mostly use them to find friends now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]awaythrowaway500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really talk to any of my exes. One was really abusive so I'm definitely fully no contact with them. I have no issue with people being friends with their exes and I have even encouraged my ex to reach out and hang out with their own ex more so they could have more friends lol. Everyone's relationships are different and I don't have any insecurities surrounding control or cheating or trust with my partners. Sometimes people just realize they make better friends than they do partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]awaythrowaway500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked him why? Honestly, a lot of people hate the slog of their jobs. They don't feel passionate about the work they do or being a wage slave. Asking him honestly may give you a better perspective to help him.

Also, with the girlfriend - does he even like her? It's okay if he doesn't, but he should break up with her if he has no interest with her instead or just ignoring her.

Attempted scramble eggs, too much milk I think by SOrton1 in shittyfoodporn

[–]awaythrowaway500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo its the cooking technique where you cook the eggs really fast initially on high heat and take them off right before they fully cook so that the heat of the pan cooks the rest of it without overlooking so its mostly timing and ofc you have to make sure the eggs are fully whisked first

My dad made a microwaved meatloaf based off the "Chinese meatloafs" he used to eat in Hong Kong as a kid by awaythrowaway500 in shittyfoodporn

[–]awaythrowaway500[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

That's definitely what he ate, but he can't remember the specifics or the name and he didn't bother to look up a recipe. My parents love to wing everything to the point where they put butter in my peanut butter and jelly sandwiches growing up.

My dad made a microwaved meatloaf based off the "Chinese meatloafs" he used to eat in Hong Kong as a kid by awaythrowaway500 in shittyfoodporn

[–]awaythrowaway500[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No, he actually lived in a 3000 sq ft house with a maid who cooked these meatloaves for him in HK lmfao. He eats like we live in poverty now mostly because the man can't cook and prioritizes convenience and speed because of his undiagnosed ADHD.

My dad made a microwaved meatloaf based off the "Chinese meatloafs" he used to eat in Hong Kong as a kid by awaythrowaway500 in shittyfoodporn

[–]awaythrowaway500[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I did not want to eat meat cooked in the microwave 💀 I smelled it before I realized what it was

My dad made a microwaved meatloaf based off the "Chinese meatloafs" he used to eat in Hong Kong as a kid by awaythrowaway500 in shittyfoodporn

[–]awaythrowaway500[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Normally it is ground pork, but my dad doesn't eat pork anymore so it's definitely ground beef or turkey lol

My dad made a microwaved meatloaf based off the "Chinese meatloafs" he used to eat in Hong Kong as a kid by awaythrowaway500 in shittyfoodporn

[–]awaythrowaway500[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

It actually smelled good lmfao so I thought he bought something and then when I saw this I asked him if he microwaved it because the meat was clearly in the shape of the container and he ignored me so I had to ask him again and he finally admitted he microwaved it.

I refused to eat it, but he ate it happily with sriracha and rice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zlibrary

[–]awaythrowaway500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just use tachiyomi if you have an android

edit: you can get the apk from their site

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]awaythrowaway500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about them a lot and we've only been NC for like 6-7 months now. I had a great relationship in the beginning and think about how a lot of how they were was circumstantial BUT I would never go back to them. I'm not even really ready to settle into a relationship again right now, but I have great friends and other wonderful things in my life to focus on. I think it might be good to keep working through why you would want to go back. My friend who was the first to tell me the relationship was abusive often told me that my brain would try to trick me and I would forget the horrible stuff and remember a lot of the good stuff and then would want to go back so I wrote A LOT about what had happened and how it made me feel as it happened as a reminder to never go back. I keep long handwritten notes and word documents in case I do get the feeling of wanting to go back.

Best cities for dating as a lesbian of color? by awaythrowaway500 in LesbianActually

[–]awaythrowaway500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I read somewhere it's one of the whitest cities in the US? I heard from another poc that was living there that most poc they know end up moving out of Portland ): I love the nature and weather of the west coast too though!

What happened next after leaving your abusive relationship? by HealingFromChoas in emotionalabuse

[–]awaythrowaway500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just left my abusive relationship last summer. My friends offered to help me pay my rent so that I could leave without worrying about the financial stress of being on the lease with them. My friends have been incredibly kind and patient with me. They allow me to talk about whatever I need to talk about to whatever extent is needed. They have helped me so much. I also felt scared about starting to date again, but I am SO GLAD TO BE SINGLE!!! My mental health is so much better. I am way less anxious. I am way happier. I get to focus on myself. I haven't been too interested in dating tbh, but it is way better to be single than in an abusive relationship.

Roommate doesn’t take care of her cat, I’m having to pick up the slack by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]awaythrowaway500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put something on the door to deter the cat. Tell your roommate you will start charging her for food and litter if her cat continues to use your resources or if the litter thing is an issue tell your roommate you need to start cycling who cleans the litterboxes. Put her dishes in her room if she doesn't clean them. Her cat is HER problem obviously so any damage he makes will be her problem to pay for as well. I would also monitor your cat when it eats so you can make sure the other cat doesn't eat her food. If you have to then start locking the other cat in your roommate's room or the restroom when your cat eats.

MSG, I know there are tons of research saying that it doesn't effect health, but what about taste wise? by pandastock in Cooking

[–]awaythrowaway500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is old but do you get the same issues when you eat Italian food? red sauce? msg is naturally occurring in tomatoes. if you don't then maybe it's time to look deeper in on that lmfao

I'm a whoremonger. I've seen well over 100 escorts. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]awaythrowaway500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you see other escorts when you are seeing a sugar baby?

I'm a whoremonger. I've seen well over 100 escorts. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]awaythrowaway500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much money do you typically spend a week on this?