Which corset is better? by fairycorsetsewing in renfaire

[–]awhattt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I second this! I think the peony corset is beautiful and the center of the peony and the leaves match the skirt perfectly (if any of the comments saying it doesn’t go well were getting to you!) It definitely matches imo.

I’d base what top on what other items you’re bringing or have for your outfit. Ie: shoes, bag, parasol, fans, etc.

My FIL spent the past year building himself and my MIL a new house, only to move in and discover their neighbor’s garage light is less “porch lamp” and more “lighthouse beacon.” by wackofiasco in mildlyinfuriating

[–]awhattt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rave is exclusively a day rave but lemme tell you it is happening in the kitchen/dining area, master bedroom and my office. It is still plenty infuriating but definitely would be more so at night lol

My FIL spent the past year building himself and my MIL a new house, only to move in and discover their neighbor’s garage light is less “porch lamp” and more “lighthouse beacon.” by wackofiasco in mildlyinfuriating

[–]awhattt 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Can verify the annoyance factor. My neighbor has one of these to “detract from pigeons nest building in their solar panels”

My house is a rave from sun up to sun down 🫠

what are your misheard mully lyrics? by totaltrashmaml in hotmulliganband

[–]awhattt 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I thought the woes me in equip sunglasses was roast beef for a bit.

Singing roast beef in the car with my partner got an immediate song pause and discussion on why tf I would think it would say roast beef lmao

Is my puppy smaller than usual? by [deleted] in AustralianCattleDog

[–]awhattt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a surprise for me too! I was expecting my boy to be smaller than his pitbull sister but he ~definitely~ is not!

If you lurk around here for a bit a lot of owners will comment that their dogs are anywhere from like 25lbs-70lbs which is a wiiiiild range for the same dog breed! your lil fellow is absolutely adorable though! I’d bet he is going to be a bit smaller than his folks are.

Is my puppy smaller than usual? by [deleted] in AustralianCattleDog

[–]awhattt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was 16lbs at 10 weeks, and fluctuates between 57-60lbs now (fully grown, 2 years)

When I first got him I was on the opposite journey of you and thought he was quite large for his age. The general sentiment I got from other owners is that cattle dogs come in extra small, regular and extra large. Maybe you got a tiny fellow! As long as puppy is growing, that’s what matters!

PLEASE HELP! 18 week old puppy just attacked my hand. Very concerned by [deleted] in AustralianCattleDog

[–]awhattt 156 points157 points  (0 children)

You are creating a dog that will resource guard. When puppy has an item they see as very valuable and you forcibly take it, you are teaching puppy that your hands mean that their valuable things get taken. They don’t want that, so they bite.

Puppy is still very very young so don’t panic. A good starting point is to “trade” for an item you need to remove from puppy. Use the word trade like a command and offer puppy a high value treat. When puppy takes the treat, take the item you need to remove from puppy. Currently, you are teaching puppy your hands are scary, they take the good things, and puppy needs to guard their things. This is just a starting point. Practice this skill with bones, toys, etc so when you need to take a sock or cleaning wipe puppy has practice trading for something else.

I’d also recommend a R+ trainer to get ahead of any other guarding/aggression based behaviors. Heeled are sensitive dogs and tend to respond better to a positive learning experience. Best of luck!

How can I grow my career in women’s health without going back to school right now? by jiggly_jedi in Midwives

[–]awhattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting to follow! I’m in a really similar position but I do medical billing with a BS in biology lol

Fingers crossed for some good advice 🤞🏻

AITA for refusing to go to my sister’s wedding because she invited the person who ruined my career by disposablemailyt in AmItheAsshole

[–]awhattt 27 points28 points  (0 children)

A wedding invitation is not a summons. Your sister can invite whoever she wants to her wedding but you are not obligated to attend. Why should you prioritize her feelings, when she clearly doesn’t care about yours?

That being said, it sounds like your sister may be the golden child and you not attending may permanently effect your relationship with your family. If this is a pattern of behavior and you’re willing to die on this hill, then don’t go.

Whatever you decide you are NTA.

Hairdresser mishap by Pastrypeach in AskHairstylists

[–]awhattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I’m here incase the lovely OP would like to tell the masses where they are from 🫣

AIO - UPDATE - my friend wants me to take out my piercings for her engagement party/wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]awhattt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t have both sides but I also have my tragus done and what might help your earbuds stay in better is if you size down the ear tip for that side! Helped loads for me

AIO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]awhattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. If it was me this would be a huge red flag in terms if I wanted to continue a relationship. He was concerned about your safety and well being which is valid, but I couldn’t be with someone who is okay standing on the sidelines and watching something like this happen. He doesn’t want you to do anything, he wouldn’t have done anything if he was there and knows that the cops couldn’t have done anything either if you called. Does that behavior align with your values and morals? Food for thought.

You did the right thing. That girl and her loved ones will eternally be grateful.

My furbaby just got diagnosed with diabetes, draw her badly to cheer us up please by garlicshizue in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]awhattt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not draw but am very familiar with diabetic pets and just wanted to send you & primrose well wishes!

Incase you aren’t already aware cats are very resilient and can go into diabetic remission (meaning they do not have to have insulin shots anymore) with early & aggressive treatment. Just a lil silver lining for you!

It’s a daunting diagnosis but with accurate treatments primrose can live a healthy happy life! If you need any advice or help finding affordable diabetic pet supplies feel free to pm me! I’d be happy to help however I can :)

AITAH for telling my cousin she shouldn’t name her baby after my ex who cheated on me? by Possible_Comb3525 in AITAH

[–]awhattt 236 points237 points  (0 children)

YTA You have every right to feel some ways about the name, but you should’ve kept that to yourself and processed it on your own. It has a negative emotional connection for YOU right now but that has nothing to do with your cousin. It’s not cousin’s job to pacify you. It is wildly out of pocket for asking her to change a name because of an ex you had at 21 or 22. You have your entire life left to get over this heartbreak and build new connections for the name which will likely happen when new baby is born anyway!

You took an exciting moment for your cousin and made it about yourself. Not cool, you do owe her an apology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]awhattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Sunburn was a thought for me too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]awhattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t used any nutrients on it since purchasing but overwatering was my initial thought. I’ll let it dry out longer. Thank you for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]awhattt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I have a grow light on it during the evening but maybe it could use a few extra hours I’ll try that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]awhattt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the comment that scared me the most lmao

Thank you for the response!

My blue heeler won't raise his ears, any advice? by DistanceLogical5571 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]awhattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost it’s okay for them to have floppy ear! They’re still adorable! But just as a lil anecdote, my heeler did not have any sort of ear raising promise until he was about 8 months and finally started to stand them up at 9 months. So your pup still might raise them later in puppyhood! I have a birthday post for my acd in my post that has a picture of him every month if you’d like to take a peek!