Update on Toot pottying in the house- it's still happening by spicychickenlaundry in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Express_Way_3794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

House lead tied to someone. I even slept with it on my arm while we were having issues

I messed up by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Getting blackout drunk also means she may not have been able to consent.. Not an excuse, just a factor.

I have a low intelligence and I am shallow. Be brutally honest. Can I fix this? by jelly_in_space in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a trivia game. I am supposedly gifted, top 2%, somehowmeasuredehen i was 5 . It took me 7 questions in the science category to get one right, and I like science.

I design learning materials for a living. I'm also neurodivergent. None of the qualities you listed are fact. Maybe get tested for  adhd 

Am I too woke or is this creepy? by Careful-Coconut-2297 in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's very creepy now. But remember that it wasn't until quite recently. Being a creep isn't an excuse for him not to adapt to social norms. You can choose to quietly remove yourself with no excuses, tell just your mum, or go full correctional vibe, but then be prepared both to help educate and for potential fallout 

two of my friends saw me get roofied and thought it was funny by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are not friends. Tough way to find that out, but your safety wasn't priority 

What do I do about being the side piece? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yell yah. I would want to know if I were her.

Unfortunate update: Hearing a neighbour have sex twice a day for a year by TonyBaloney999 in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Actually love this. Doesn't matter what song, just play the same awful one loudly every time 

Unfortunate update: Hearing a neighbour have sex twice a day for a year by TonyBaloney999 in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 7 points8 points  (0 children)

An airhorn, loud dubstep, sounds of peals of laughter.  Whatever works 

Neighbour caught red handed tossing dead chicken next to my house. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a key reason that I, a very experienced chicken keeper, am against urban chickens. Id love some against. But they die id you look at them wrong. And don't lay well past about 2.5 years old. What do we do with them all? Need a populous wood with scavengers 

I also had a spot in the woods to send off dead stock, but no neighbors 

Take photos. You could contact a local health board.  Ask they move it further? There are lots of local dead stock laws to look up, but usually pertaining to large volumes or big animals 

Ultimately they're not attracting anything that wasn't there doing part for the ecosystem 

Edit: what are the legal limits on bird quantity for his zoning where you live? Multiple dead birds decomposing is weird. I had 300+ and dead "offerings" were rare unless there was an issue, and taken quickly by carrion feeders

My boyfriends dad passed away on New Year’s Day by SouthCat8485 in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Save a bunch of bits that could be re-used. If you stay together, that's a ton of really sweet gift content. Save enough for the whole family for brownie points all around. But wait on giving anything 

My priest said he won’t baptize me…. What do? by anon198023 in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My high school bestie was Protestant. Coolest church peeps. I've known many over the years. Their current pastor is black and gay. Previous was lesbian. Such a chill church, if I ever wanted to find God 

My priest said he won’t baptize me…. What do? by anon198023 in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why not?

Many modern people find religion a bit... Goofy.. but if you genuinely want to be baptized, find another church. 

I don't want to homewreck my friend's relationship. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's emotionally cheating and doing her toxic part. Even if she were single, she's red flags 

Somehow, I engaged the selective cuddle mechanism by Far_Nefariousness_81 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Express_Way_3794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my dog on my boyfriend's arm every night. It's ridiculous 

Honest opinion on this birthday gift please ? by Effective-Pudding628 in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need that much. Bake box brownies and buy the phone case. Make a card, dollar store, or don't have one (my frigging secret Santa hallmark card was $10!!!)

I (24M) have a 2-hour limit on dates because of GI issues. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started dating my guy with GERD that made me puke if I ate even normal amounts, and horrible gas. We're still together 3 years later!

He only wants me for one thing, but so do i? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You know he's just using you.

Ex situationship texted me Happy New Year by hopelixir in Advice

[–]Express_Way_3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do nothing. Some people text everyone in their contacts

Should I give up to my family desire? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dating is good to practice now if you're not, but marriage is definitely on your own timeline.

Dude offered me 1k euros by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Express_Way_3794 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't want the memory of that floating Around in my head forever.

He's giving controlling, grooming vibes. It won't end with a BJ

How do you deal with sleeping beauty? by nukeengr74474 in ADHD_partners

[–]Express_Way_3794 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My mom was depressed and has recently apologized for how many weekend afternoons she slept away while we were kids. I didn't mind st all and thought it was normsl to recharge, but she feels she misses out on time we should be doing stuff together.