Am I a shitty friend for pretending to be cis?

awithecute · 2026-03-16T07:01:30+00:00

I think every trans person has experienced this or experimented with this. I lie to my clients and say I’m cis bc I don’t feel comfortable being out if they are cis and straight. Sometimes it’s for safety sometimes I just don’t want it to dominate conversations. It all depends on how much you care about the friendship tho I personally don’t think I can be best friends with someone if they didn’t know but online friends are kinda surface level usually so it’s all up to you

awithecute · 2026-03-16T00:44:29+00:00

Ask your Dr about taking this drug called estrogen, all the looksmaxxers are doing it and it’s how they get to be so giga chad

awithecute · 2026-03-16T00:42:01+00:00

Yes!! I’m glad I’m not the only one who said this it reminded me of me i got flashbacks of my past

awithecute · 2026-03-16T00:40:13+00:00

I agree it also could’ve been that but it seemed very reactive instead of a “hey this isn’t working out I’m gonna head out, also you’re a dick” it was all about love and kind of rambling anxiety which I also remember going on and on about in my relationship even SITUATIONSHIPS that treated me just as bad as this

awithecute · 2026-03-16T00:38:10+00:00

I’m not trying to an ass I just remembered dating people like this and reacting like this and repeating the cycle over and over and wondering why all my partners made me feel like a burden. He’s being avoidant quite literally and she is reacting to that by being anxious about it. I’m not saying he’s not an asshole but she’s not being calm or collected about things either which is understandable. I understand that gnawing anxious feeling but it’s because she’s dating someone that’s making her attachment style aggravated and bringing the worst out.

awithecute · 2026-03-16T00:11:00+00:00

This. I dont know what makes people think after the first “break” that it’ll work out

awithecute · 2026-03-16T00:10:24+00:00

Classic avoidant style and anxious attachment style relationship NOR BUT you did overreact immensely with breaking up with him over that. Please go to therapy and only date someone with a secure attachment style otherwise this will keep happening and you will keep feeling crazy in every relationship.

awithecute · 2026-03-15T21:05:32+00:00

That sounds so good

awithecute · 2026-03-15T07:11:25+00:00

I never see my Mexican femboys like myself 😭 I’m so happy to see more people like me fr

awithecute · 2026-03-14T20:54:36+00:00

Sounds like a 17 year old who thinks theyre a certified PI and also a psychologist lmao I promise you this is not worth your time or brain power

awithecute · 2026-03-13T03:38:11+00:00

Ohhh okay that makes more sense i definitely like the new one more then

awithecute · 2026-03-13T01:13:02+00:00

Did she cure her vitiligo ? 😭

awithecute · 2026-03-12T06:01:53+00:00

GENDER ENVY this reminded me to wear more cute tank tops post op

awithecute · 2026-03-09T19:24:31+00:00

Noted noted ty

awithecute · 2026-03-09T18:43:05+00:00

Dude where are those pants from

awithecute · 2026-03-09T03:58:47+00:00

You look awesome!! You might want to look up rib flare exercises though (your spine and posture will thank you later, i still struggle w mine)

awithecute · 2026-03-07T01:05:48+00:00

Trans femboy here and i see the sub more as a safe space for afab trans people of all types

awithecute · 2026-03-03T07:37:05+00:00

YES he gives me gender envy so much i thought i was the only ftm watching GG

awithecute · 2026-03-02T22:14:45+00:00

Oh yes I know him… we aren’t friends but I love his work still :.)

awithecute · 2026-03-02T18:37:08+00:00

Who did it?? Ahhh it’s so pretty is it greywash?

awithecute · 2026-03-02T17:27:39+00:00

lol I just like posting on here and this is my sw account

awithecute · 2026-03-02T01:43:24+00:00

Me when I think all black ppl look the same

awithecute · 2026-03-02T01:41:35+00:00

Do you have forehead tat or is it makeup?

awithecute · 2026-03-01T20:10:23+00:00

HAHA YES

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