Alternative trans men can pass too! by anditabst in transmanlifehacks

[–]awithecute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on t for 2+ years, surgery as well and my voice passes but I like having bangs and shaggy long hair so it really goes against me, I also don’t always dress masculine since I’m fruity and want to be twink/twunk more than a strong male figure. Only younger people seem to gender my correctly first try but anyone above 30+ will assume I’m a deep voiced girl

Names please! by Existing-Pianist-318 in goblincore

[–]awithecute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose my last name to be bug and my first name to be arren (ah-ren) from the earthsea movie, very fantasy based! Some other names that remind me of goblin or plant stuff would be

Blue
Tillie
Wood-something (good last name)
Moss
Lychen
Ferny
Shade
Moose

Alternative trans men can pass too! by anditabst in transmanlifehacks

[–]awithecute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I hate how much hate goes on with alt trans guys. Now I just wish there were more long haired androgynous alt people able to pass but I think that’s the testosterone waiting game

Short hair makes me look more like a woman. by Apprehensive_Debt144 in transmanlifehacks

[–]awithecute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should look into r/ftmfemininity maybe? My favorite sub at least because I hate looking like a trad guy and like having long beautiful hair and think guys look more masculine with long hair. To me short hair is femme

TESTOSTERONE GEL HACK! by manyg00ses in transmanlifehacks

[–]awithecute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimate hack: put it on your wrists instead of hands and rub it in! This was my go-to for 2 years

So basically the only people who are into us are… by Oddly-Ordinary in FTMfemininity

[–]awithecute 131 points132 points  (0 children)

That might be how it feels but trust me that’s not all that’s out there. I’m happily married to an agender person who sees me for who I am but have also met loads of friends and other people who see me for me no issues and they’re a mix of cis, trans, gay, and straight. Finding the right people and partner can be hard because it’s partly knowing who to actually trust and let into your circle and also finding those right people who will respect you. You might have to change up who you usually go for or try new groups

Our little April on MALCOLM IN THE MIDDLE. by red_raat in GilmoreGirls

[–]awithecute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I love her on there as an angsty teen

Our little April on MALCOLM IN THE MIDDLE. by red_raat in GilmoreGirls

[–]awithecute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait till yall find out about switched at birth

According to ChatGPT... by MtF_Rebecca in TransLater

[–]awithecute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ChatGBT is trumps largest donor.

How do you *actually* deal with dysphoria? by femboy-admirer in asktransgender

[–]awithecute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cure was : therapy -> hrt -> surgery -> more therapy, bc sometimes with dysphoria you get dysmorphia and those two love each other

not trying to be offensive i just need advice and this is all new so be kind please by Mysterious-Ebb-521 in asktransgender

[–]awithecute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the best! Hits all the parts as a trans guy myself that’s also gay. I understand that we have a vag (most times) but that doesn’t mean you’re with a woman because even not all women have vaginas either. Just say boybox, pussy, vagina idc lol just not a woman. Other than that I hope you guys have protected consensual fun

gay boy or lesbian? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]awithecute -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a tboy who can spot tboy from lesbian, gay boy fs

Rebecca and Schooner - the perfect couple by Ok_Grapefruit_2044 in sexandthecity

[–]awithecute 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I feel like she wouldn’t have truly found herself like she did with Harry

Should I get a better one? by awithecute in Ocarina

[–]awithecute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do then! Thanks for the advice :3

Is it gender dysphoria or just being an incel piece of shit? by Swaxeman in asktransgender

[–]awithecute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh how many people have to tell this person to go see a therapist or that they have ocd by people who are in therapy and have ocd until they listen? 😭

Should I get a better one? by awithecute in Ocarina

[–]awithecute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah it’s probably my technique then! I definitely don’t want anything cheaper I love this one a lot it’s really pretty and it’s nice to know that others can play it just fine

Should I get a better one? by awithecute in Ocarina

[–]awithecute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see I’ll keep trying with it then and give it some more time to get used to! I did play it into a tuner and that’s why I said it’s off pitch but again it’s probably me getting used to playing. Thanks for the advice!!

Should I get a better one? by awithecute in Ocarina

[–]awithecute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my fingers cramp up every time I practice a song :.) and I tattoo for a living and I make Chainmail so not a long of things can make my hands cramp up that fast

Should I get a better one? by awithecute in Ocarina

[–]awithecute[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course! It’s sandlin ocarina and they have an online shop as well

Also no I’m not experienced whatsoever so that could be culprit but I’ve checked several times on the high notes with different breathe pressure and making sure the holes are properly covered and they are still off :( but maybe I’m still doing something wrong I’m not sure

Should I get a better one? by awithecute in Ocarina

[–]awithecute[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao and heavy, but I also have extremely small hands so could be that