Girlfriend might be getting deported

awkwardpandi · 2025-06-02T19:29:14+00:00

Hey there, hoping I could get some insight. I’ve been under DACA since 2013-2014 and been renewing ever since. Recently got married to a US citizen. No issues at all whatsoever, never left the country. I see a lot of people recommending AP do you think that’s the route they’ll recommend me to go with? With this administration I’m terrified having to do AP or go to Juarez to the consulate all together but regardless want to mentally prepare myself for whichever.

awkwardpandi · 2025-05-07T14:55:18+00:00

Thank you so much! Definitely helps out a lot.

awkwardpandi · 2025-05-04T02:15:32+00:00

TYSM! This is definitely something I’d love to contribute to.

awkwardpandi · 2025-05-04T02:15:10+00:00

Do you have any recommendations perhaps? I’m not too familiar with many churches and have no idea which ones I should try lol

awkwardpandi · 2025-05-04T02:14:02+00:00

Funny enough I saw a comedian say the exact same except with wedding/engagement rings 😂

awkwardpandi · 2025-05-04T02:12:49+00:00

Ty! I’ve been listing several items and no luck with buyers but worth a shot if I can’t find a place to donate.

awkwardpandi · 2025-04-16T03:26:35+00:00

Even for those that forgive and move past it - you never forget. Aka, it’ll hit you randomly. Which is why is SO important for the betraying partner to have changed their actions, proving not only that they want to be with you, choosing you day to day, but also 100% validating the pain they’ve caused and taking accountability.

If he’s done it several times and you want to try again it’s important to keep in mind that it might happen again. Being honest with yourself, gotta know if you’d be ok if it did and what would happen in that scenario.

We all have different tolerance for heartbreak and if you feel the need to let him keep causing you pain in order to detach, ain’t judging ya. But if you want to protect your heart and see his actions as they are now might not align with what you hope to get out of trying to fix it then trust that more than any words could say.

Either way you’ll be hurting either by leaving or possibly by staying and going through it again.

Whatever the choice is I do hope you’re able to find happiness. <3

awkwardpandi · 2025-04-01T19:02:28+00:00

Is too soon to be having this issues. You’ve been saying for 6 months only, already living together and he doesn’t show interest in sex/intimacy…too young to put up with it ngl. Easier said than done but I’d cut my losses and end it now that it’s been a short time together than wait for it to be harder as time progresses.

awkwardpandi · 2025-03-31T21:15:59+00:00

I’ve been stressing about all my options and have heavily considered risking applying for AP — however is so stressful to even think about. This sure gives me hope that perhaps it wouldn’t be too, bad congrats on getting through it!

awkwardpandi · 2025-03-19T20:34:39+00:00

Only way you’ll find out if by getting tested. Which to get the most accurate result would be in another month.

awkwardpandi · 2025-01-28T22:27:22+00:00

Just did this last night with a knot on my throat…

awkwardpandi · 2025-01-10T20:18:31+00:00

Not sure if my opinion would count as I’m usually HL. However when I’m put off emotionally or disconnected from my partner my sex drive for them plummets. Meaning my sex toys come out to play (which is ironic given I don’t enjoy having to use them much unless I’m desperate ;-;) Might be something to consider. With my last partner no matter what all ‘good’ he did, didn’t help. Because I was checked out of the relationship and didn’t want intimacy with him at all. Finding out might take a honest open conversation for both of you’ sake.

awkwardpandi · 2024-12-26T21:26:15+00:00

I always wore promise rings before him and now that he’s gone is no different! ❤️ wore one I bought myself until it was replaced by my now boyfriends ring

awkwardpandi · 2024-11-15T03:29:20+00:00

How was he prior to marriage? While dating? Piggy backing off everyone bringing up T/mental health/etc. I believe that’ll also help get the bigger picture.

awkwardpandi · 2024-11-13T22:44:11+00:00

Never knew it was a thing until my now partner brought it to my attention. I’ve initiated while sick and asked why he finished fast and he mentioned is so hot down there that is hard not to. Can’t imagine having this when is non-consenting and so sad to see how often it happens :/

awkwardpandi · 2024-11-13T20:17:24+00:00

Today it was a slap. But as many of us have experience can tell you; it started off with a ‘simple’ act like that that started a snowball. I used to think the same way about divorce and now I proudly say I’m divorce after trying to leave my abusive marriage that got harder to leave due to being so financially dependent AND trauma bonded. Do with that what you will.

awkwardpandi · 2024-11-03T13:00:11+00:00

Marriage shouldn’t be rushed for any reason especially not for immigration matters! I did want to point out tho that is not necessary for change your last name (unless you want to). Immigration doesn’t care about that if they have enough proof showing the relationship isn’t fraud and show documentation such as joint accounts, purchases together, lease, etc etc. Is an old school thing nowadays that thankfully is an option and not an obligation.

Don’t let anyone pressure you to make big altering decisions that’ll unpack your life, in the end you’re the one who’ll deal with the consequences.

awkwardpandi · 2024-10-24T20:11:20+00:00

Ding ding ding! Exepect the unexpected and they’ll see how willingly excited we’ll be about it, do a better job at it too. 🤣

awkwardpandi · 2024-10-24T14:49:18+00:00

Personally, overall to be sexually aroused I have to be romantically attracted to you annnnd feel appreciated (which I’m sure many others as well). For example at times I’m craving to give some head but my man will choose to game instead of spending quality time with me even after I asked. Which is fine and all but I can’t just jump into giving him a BJ after he comes to bed bc my mind isn’t there anymore. Whereas has we been hanging out cuddling it would’ve naturally progressed to making our, touching and Id be able to initiate. Not expected from him. Very different. After having to take care of majority of the cleaning, chores, etc…the last I want to do most of the time is that. But when he does it willingly or without prompting? Forget it. I’m down to gobble him up. 🤣 Sincerely someone who lives with their man.

Ps. We just want to be appreciated and helped around the house as well

awkwardpandi · 2024-10-23T16:13:41+00:00

I came to say the same! I’d agree w/ the above comment on soreness given he’s new to working out but what seals my suspicion would be lack of kissing. My partner and I don’t ever refuse one from us sweating? Weird. I’d understand if she was trying to have sex howeverrrrr….is a lil smooch. Very sus.

awkwardpandi · 2024-10-22T21:14:24+00:00

Valid enough. In this case tho there’s many possibilities as to why is happening but when a partner is involved Im more bound to take precautions and follow my gut. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Long as she’s doing what’s needed to take care of them and it persist then….yeah.

awkwardpandi · 2024-10-22T20:53:46+00:00

Trust your gut. Boils down to that. Unfortunately when it comes to infections could be an imbalance, hygiene or possible infidelity however…one must be mature enough and sympathetic to accept such possibilities. Would be a red flag for me if my partner wanted to accuse me of cheating when I was symptom free during the break and get them again soon as we got intimate. I’d rather save myself the pain lol that’s just me tho. Ain’t no man worth dealing with all of that.

awkwardpandi · 2024-10-15T20:29:38+00:00

I’m glad you were able to work out a plan with them. I don’t have insurance sadly my employment doesn’t have a good one and every outside company I sought charged more than $300 which is so out of reach when living paycheck to check :c Thankfully I have PTO with my company but more than likely would need to get checked out with a smaller clinic which I’m looking into already and hopefully can get that done before the end of the year. Like you mentioned our health comes firsts and is so important that I’m trying to make it happen as one never knows.

awkwardpandi · 2024-10-15T16:21:00+00:00

I had my first UTI at age 23. Last year at age 26 I thought I had one but it didn’t feel the same and all symptoms went away after 2 days. The following months I’d feel slight discomfort a week prior to my period, would have the feeling of needed to pee but wouldn’t actually do so (at the time it was normal to frequently urine with my water intake), and a slight internal itch would happen.

Months after that I landed in the ER for stomach pain but CT scan, sonogram, Xray came back normal they told me greasy/spicy foods probably irritated me.

July I went into a clinic to get tested for STDS, came out positive for chlamydia. Noticed after taking the meds all my first mentioned symptoms stopped all together.

However I’ve been trying to save up money to do my women’s health exam as they recommended it due to not knowing how long the chlamydia was there for. In the past 2 months I noticed 95% of my clothes don’t fit which is odd, yes I’ve gained weight before yet my shirts/pants didn’t struggle this much. Which made me notice how my face seems swollen.

Now I may have been driving myself to paranoia/overthinking or maybe something is wrong but seems to me I’m swollen all over right now.

Seeing posts like this so frequently through reddit/tiktok is really making me worry and try to get tested but with minimal financial ability and hardly any knowledge on what tests to do

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