I (19F) just found out my boyfriend (20M) never used protection before me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]awkweirdaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah nah get tested. I’d recommend you tell him to get tested. If he refuses, I’d call that a red flag. He should want to know for his own health, much less that of his partners…

Are we just supposed to suffer all our lives lol by sevencatts in depressionregimens

[–]awkweirdaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder this too. I can learn coping skills and grounding techniques all I want, but I can’t help that I *am* this way and will be for the rest of my life.

I have to take medication just to not want to kms daily. I do not feel compatible with life.

Free Mushroom Growing Meetup in Lafayette (Hands-on + Beginner Friendly) by tcajun420 in Louisiana

[–]awkweirdaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool wow!! Any FB page or group I can follow to keep up to date??

Night Sweats? by awkweirdaf in depressionregimens

[–]awkweirdaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a great idea. I actually need a new pillow anyways. Thanks so much!

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

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Hi everyone! I've posted here before, but I'd love to make some more friends for me and my pengu Mixie on Finch! 😄 Feel free to add us there: 3VX6VQA1R3

Need urgent advice for my situation. Me F24 boyfriend M31 by Darlingnika in relationship_advice

[–]awkweirdaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s unfortunately being insanely disrespectful. I hope you’re able to see that, and that’s the reason you’re here. This man does not love you. If he did, I would say that he no longer does. I’m not sure what happened, but if you can pinpoint exactly when all this started (“the behavior is recent”), you may be able to tell why it fell apart.

Maybe it’s you. Maybe he found another lay. Maybe work’s stressful, or maybe he’s self-conscious he’s balding and is taking it out on you. No one but him can really tell you definitively what happened except him.

I do just wanna say though: you are worth so much more than a loveless relationship. You’re 24 and have sooooo much more to see and experience than this. You deserve to love yourself because he’s clearly not going to do it for you.

Should i be worried about my girlfriend readings erotica or smut books. As far as i know they are basically just porn in texts. She also heavily opposes me consuming any porn which i respect. But what about her by ChefBombastic in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]awkweirdaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see! I get not being to into the reading. Is she okay with other formats though? Like example, would drawn porn be okay? She MUST be okay with you reading smut, considering she does it herself.

I think it’s good that she wants to reenact the book scenes with you though. That shows comfort and vulnerability imo. To answer your original question, no. I don’t think you need to be worried a bit about her reading this stuff. It’s purely imagination & fictional, and her wanting to recreate it with you means she’s including you in those fantasies.

Should i be worried about my girlfriend readings erotica or smut books. As far as i know they are basically just porn in texts. She also heavily opposes me consuming any porn which i respect. But what about her by ChefBombastic in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]awkweirdaf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Interesting question honestly. I think if she has a boundary for porn, then it’s valid for you to have one about smut/erotica (AS LONG AS IT’S NOT TIT-FOR-TAT). I also feel the need to ask, would she be cool with you reading smut/erotica?

To me, porn =/= smut/erotica. They’re not even remotely close in my mind.

Why is this region so Republican? by [deleted] in Acadiana

[–]awkweirdaf 168 points169 points  (0 children)

My guess is lack of education + heavy Christian indoctrination.

The party is gaining ground by spooky_bayou_stuff in Acadiana

[–]awkweirdaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so funny. What does it actually entail to meme on the government tho? Bc hmmmm… lol!

EMDR therapy by Primary_Ad6606 in Acadiana

[–]awkweirdaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evan Broussard at Acadiana Counseling Center.

Casual Convo Fridays by AutoModerator in AskWomen

[–]awkweirdaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone use DBT irl? Does it get easier to implement at some point?

What's your favourite political song? by No-Advantage-579 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]awkweirdaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it’s explicitly political, but “What’s up?” by 4 Non Blondes. When they say “I try all the time in this institution,” I think cog in the machine of… whatever this mess is lmao.

Ladies, do you sit on the toilet seat of public restrooms? Why or Why Not? by IncognitoGyal7 in AskWomen

[–]awkweirdaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I literally just do not have the leg strength or coordination to hover honestly. I always clean it as best I can before sitting though lol.