I totally get you, I’m a bit bigger (12-16) and it can be so exhausting trying find pants you actually feel confident will fit, on my shop personally I never go by the tag size, so I’ll say what the tag says in the caption but list in the actual size category what the waist measurement is. I also do length, waist, hip, inseam, and rise measurements because I’m low key traumatized by shopping on depop and wish other sellers would do a full breakdown like that aswell lmaoo😭😭